"why do most couples or single females want a 55 year old cut of age is just a number xx"
It's obviously not just a number to them. It's not just a number to many.
Also, where is acceptable for a cut off point? Change it to any age you like and there'll still be someone bellyaching about it. Concentrate on those who are looking for those in your age bracket and don't worry about those who aren't |
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as someone in the over 50s category it can seem a bit arbitrary at times, but @lipstickkisses does have a point, some folk just aren’t attracted to an older person - and that’s their choice. Those who aren’t so set will usually allow messaging from people outside their expressed preferences.
but if folk don’t, it’s best to just respect that & move on ???????
happy fabbing folk
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By *oxy jWoman 18 weeks ago
somerset |
because people have a choice and thats their choice ...why worry or question something that you cant change ... swinging is a choice everything about it is down to preference especially if your a womam or couple..
as other say look for those who want older ... |
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"yes but how 55 why not 53 or 56 lol "
You're irked because 55 excludes you. The 54 year old is irked if it's 53. The 57 year old by 56. The point is, no matter what someone's cut off point is, it will exclude someone. So just accept that people have preferences. Some of those preferences will exclude you. Some won't. |
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By *WANDTGCouple 18 weeks ago
Borough of Greenwich |
Our problem is with the other end of the scale , where under 35s keep hitting on us, some might take this as a compliment ( we always thank them for their interest) but we won't go with anyone younger than our children. |
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The wife absolutely loves older men, it's her kink.
We have to look for couples that satisfy us both, an older guy with a wife around my age is the sweet spot but with that you narrow your field of search...don't worry about something you can't change  |
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"why do most couples or single females want a 55 year old cut of age is just a number xx
Everyone has choices and they like what they like I'm afraid"
We just have to grin and bear it , means the over 55s can chat to us instead lol |
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