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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know this has been done before but in a little confused lol, i have a vanilla friend who i used to work with,, we kept in touch, we both send a x at the end of messages which obviously mean nothing, then she occasionally sends xx, again not meaning anything, but i just received a text simply "xxx"? Is that a text to say she maybe interested? Curious as she is in a very un happy marriage, thinking may be best to leave it as friends x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Will ask if she wants a chat,, but that's all I think,, don't wanna push and or scare her, thank you"
Oh go on, be daring, even if just a wee bit!  
But you're right, with a lot of people 'x's mean little or nothing. Personally, I only use them when I mean it.
However, in the scenario you describe, I think a little gentlle questioning is required. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know this has been done before but in a little confused lol, i have a vanilla friend who i used to work with,, we kept in touch, we both send a x at the end of messages which obviously mean nothing, then she occasionally sends xx, again not meaning anything, but i just received a text simply "xxx"? Is that a text to say she maybe interested? Curious as she is in a very un happy marriage, thinking may be best to leave it as friends x"
Trust me , on this don't text her till Monday when she is at work and then txt her saying only 3 x you get approx 160 letters in a text where's the 157 you missed .
It can be taken two ways without losing face on both your parts , she can take it as a joke obviously or she can take it you want more, whichever way she wants to see it
If you get the rest of the x text her back saying oh babes now your looking desperate lol
then send another text if you want to slap me I am free for lunch in 2 days time see you at wherever at her normal lunch time x
Most married women and bearing in mind I was with one for 8 years , are unhappy at home , getting loads of pressure , last thing they need is pressure outside the home |
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How do you know her marriage is unhappy? Is that an assumption on your part?
I can't help thinking that a real friend would not be trying to shag a married friend and based on this thread not be intent on an affair with them. |
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I had some fun last night and after he dropped me home I got a text from him asking if I was ok with x at the end, i replied saying I was fine x, then he sent me one X so I sent one back, but then we are having fun etc so is a bit different to your situation but you could ask her if she is ok |
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