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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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Great pics but a face pic, even a blurred one, would be good.
Profile and my comments are as follows:
"I am a single open minded athletic male who loves the gym and plays rugby looking for fun at clubs or meets and potentially turn into a regular with couples and single women around Manchester, North West and Leeds"
Perfect.
"If I have winked at your profile it means I am interested and have READ your profile. I would message but most of you have an inbox that is bursting at the seams, hence the wink. If I get one back I will always message."
This logic doesn't really work. If you think women get a lot of messages, they get a hell of a lot more winks. I don't even check winks. Message and your profile will do much of the talking.
"I love the social side of swinging as it’s always better when you know eachother rather than one off meets. I’m looking for regular meets with people that we can build on.
I can travel or meet at swingers clubs but would always meet for a social first.
So if you’re looking for a genuine male to have regular fun feel free to message me or give me a wink."
Perfect.
Overall this is a solid 8/10 profile xx |
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By *eaQueenWoman 10 weeks ago
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I quite like photos that show some thought to them maybe you having a cheeky brew with your top off. A portion of your face so we can see your smile or eyes or something. Or maybe you cooking in the buff and we see you from behind.
These types of pics aren't standard and are way better than the generic 'me man, me horny, me have cock in hand' |
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Looks fine to us, agree with others though, waiting to receive winks is a brave/patient approach.
Our best advice would be always send an opening message with a face pic attached, you can be sure as long as you have read the recipients profile and are sure that you fit what they are looking for, you will have done all you can.
We know people are hesitant to send face pics straight away because "insert your own reason". You are probably going to have to send it at some point anyway, not doing so will only hurt your chances.
Most people will check your profile before reading the message, if there's no face pic on a profile and none in the message, chances are those with busy inboxes will gravitate towards those that have.
At least that's our experience. |
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More pics would support people becoming more certain of whether they like you or not. Nobody is mutually attractive to all, so most people will not match.
But making it easier to know more positively that you could be a guy to pursue interest with, will be a major boost. Assume that you may have just one chance to get attention, so it's really worthwhile upping your chances.
Your profile is pretty good  |
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So the message you sent us from this forum post is a good example, of why we say read a profile and check you match what they're looking for.
Whilst there is nothing wrong with the photos you sent, there would be no point sending them to us, it says on our profile she doesn't like beards or stubble, in your pics you are not clean shaven.
So for us that's an instant delete, not what we're looking for. |
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Overall pretty solid. I’d like to see a couple more pics as well - perhaps from another angle (these are both from the same angle), maybe various states of dress. Overall I think it’s pretty good though |
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Ypur profile is not bad, however.
A face picture, even if pixeled out, full length pictures, in different clothes, suit, shorts and t-shirt etc.
You definitely should check winks.
Feel free to offer us constructive criticism on our profile in return. |
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Punctuation would make it an easier read, but it's fairly bland / uninspiring so I'd say you definitely need good pictures to support
Oh, one of your pictures appears to be the wrong way up?
Hardly any females look at winks.. So this seems like a low effort approach |
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