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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi guys,
Wonder if anyone could offer any advice, either to do with my profile or otherwise. I manage to get to the point where people are interested in meeting yet when it comes to arranging a date the messages go cold. Am I doing something wrong? Cheers for any advice or help. Thanks. |
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Lots of people get cold feet when it comes to actually meeting and lots have no intention of ever meeting. It is annoying and I suggest arranging a meet within two or three messages you will be able to tell by the tone of their replies of they're genuine or not. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Unfortunately work was being an arse at that point in time which is why I was unable to commit to any kind of a meet constantly changing my shifts to suit them. I didn't want to commit to a meet and then have to let you guys down at the last minute as I felt that would be unfair to the both of you |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"We were interested in meeting u but u never committed to a meet
Interesting!
yes very especially as he wanted to meet and admitted to it "
Maybe time for you both to try and arrange something again then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We were interested in meeting u but u never committed to a meet
Interesting!
yes very especially as he wanted to meet and admitted to it
Maybe time for you both to try and arrange something again then?"
yep on it now |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"We were interested in meeting u but u never committed to a meet
Interesting!
yes very especially as he wanted to meet and admitted to it
Maybe time for you both to try and arrange something again then?
yep on it now "
I love happy endings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We were interested in meeting u but u never committed to a meet
Interesting!
yes very especially as he wanted to meet and admitted to it
Maybe time for you both to try and arrange something again then?
Lol
yep on it now
I love happy endings. " |
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By *am123Man
over a year ago
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i get this alot too and they seem genuine and i still chat, but we never seem to get too meet. i don't wanna seem pushy and keep bringing it up, so it just goes on. maybe i should be a bit harsher and delete after a few trys with no meet in progress or on the cards |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We were interested in meeting u but u never committed to a meet
Does he have to? "
Considering what the nature of what he has said for thois thread.. That seems a lil silly to ask if he has to |
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"Hi guys,
Wonder if anyone could offer any advice, either to do with my profile or otherwise. I manage to get to the point where people are interested in meeting yet when it comes to arranging a date the messages go cold. Am I doing something wrong? Cheers for any advice or help. Thanks. "
no, that's how it works, you send mails back n forth and agree to meet, then the final mail with the place and time is the one they recieve when they "happen" to log off. Thats the mail that goes unread and ignored when they come back online, its just their way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My rule is, if you have met within two weeks of1st chatting in here it's rarely going to happen. If we're still chatting it moves into "friends" terroristy and any chance if the benefits is withdrawn x |
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