So during penetration i cant really feel much and often lose my erection. Have had viagra in the past but want to avoid relying on it. Alone no issues but i kinda feel after years without sex i have almost trained by body to only respond to quite vigorous wanking! |
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"So during penetration i cant really feel much and often lose my erection. Have had viagra in the past but want to avoid relying on it. Alone no issues but i kinda feel after years without sex i have almost trained by body to only respond to quite vigorous wanking!"
You should probably stop masturbating so much. I was never a fan of the practice. |
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"So during penetration i cant really feel much and often lose my erection. Have had viagra in the past but want to avoid relying on it. Alone no issues but i kinda feel after years without sex i have almost trained by body to only respond to quite vigorous wanking!
You should probably stop masturbating so much. I was never a fan of the practice."
Easy to say when sex is a bit more frequent. When its 2 or 3 times a year it becomes almost a daily ritual just because of boredom |
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By *uckcpl4biCouple 20 weeks ago
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Hubby has started out like that was always goin soft during sex and eventually became completely limp and completely changed our relationship he tried viagra but just made him sweat lol so now save him the stress n keep his little limp dick locked up x |
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"See your GP just to check no other issues that are causing this. Blocked arteries etc."
I have spinal issues but cervical (neck). Circumcised so lack a lot of sensation anyway. Nerves and drink don't help i guess |
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"So during penetration i cant really feel much and often lose my erection. Have had viagra in the past but want to avoid relying on it. Alone no issues but i kinda feel after years without sex i have almost trained by body to only respond to quite vigorous wanking!"
Do you go soft if you're getting a blow job? |
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"So during penetration i cant really feel much and often lose my erection. Have had viagra in the past but want to avoid relying on it. Alone no issues but i kinda feel after years without sex i have almost trained by body to only respond to quite vigorous wanking!
Do you go soft if you're getting a blow job?"
Its more like im always 70% and when im getting head or inside i cant actually feel that im hard. Woman i was with the other night said i was def inside but i didnt get that rock hard sensation and couldnt feel any stimulation on my bellend when thrusting or with her on top |
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"Vibration can do this. Do you by chance ride a motorbike? Esp 4 cylinder in line. Usually a temporary thing but it is affecting your pudendal nerve.
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CBd Hons.
I also read about this. Na no bike riding or anything similar
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By *oeliamMan 20 weeks ago
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You could try getting your testosterone levels checked? Levels drop as us guys get older. TRT (testosterone replacement therapy) is becoming increasingly more common for guys these days.
Just another option you could consider mate. |
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"You could try getting your testosterone levels checked? Levels drop as us guys get older. TRT (testosterone replacement therapy) is becoming increasingly more common for guys these days.
Just another option you could consider mate. "
Cheers. I doubt it is this as jo other obvious signs - fatigue, sleep issues, etc... i go to the gym 4 or 5 times a week and my sex drive is still high but its more that it is so rare i have sex that when i do it doesnt quite feel like anything - my penis gets warm but isnt really stimulated by penetration. Even a blow job doesnt seem to feel of much! |
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When you masturbate, don't do it vigorously. Apply lube and gently touch just over the lube. Stay erect but don't aim to cum. If you orgasm from gentle touching, it's fine, but don't jack like mad to get there.
Don't watch porn while doing it. Close your eyes and imagine a woman with you. |
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"When you masturbate, don't do it vigorously. Apply lube and gently touch just over the lube. Stay erect but don't aim to cum. If you orgasm from gentle touching, it's fine, but don't jack like mad to get there.
Don't watch porn while doing it. Close your eyes and imagine a woman with you."
Will try this. Circumcised so genuinely questioning if it's partly that.
Fyi all inwas a virgin until 8 months ago and have only had sex 4 times  |
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"When you masturbate, don't do it vigorously. Apply lube and gently touch just over the lube. Stay erect but don't aim to cum. If you orgasm from gentle touching, it's fine, but don't jack like mad to get there.
Don't watch porn while doing it. Close your eyes and imagine a woman with you.
Will try this. Circumcised so genuinely questioning if it's partly that.
Fyi all inwas a virgin until 8 months ago and have only had sex 4 times "
Well, life is varied ...39yo virgin ...It happens, even if
you weren't in a monastery.
Anyhow, you have a bit of catching up to do. You look fit , it shouldn't be hard to pull chicks at the bar.
If you need a tag , hit me up. It may actually be beneficial to build up confidence. |
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"When you masturbate, don't do it vigorously. Apply lube and gently touch just over the lube. Stay erect but don't aim to cum. If you orgasm from gentle touching, it's fine, but don't jack like mad to get there.
Don't watch porn while doing it. Close your eyes and imagine a woman with you.
Will try this. Circumcised so genuinely questioning if it's partly that.
Fyi all inwas a virgin until 8 months ago and have only had sex 4 times
Well, life is varied ...39yo virgin ...It happens, even if
you weren't in a monastery.
Anyhow, you have a bit of catching up to do. You look fit , it shouldn't be hard to pull chicks at the bar.
If you need a tag , hit me up. It may actually be beneficial to build up confidence."
I was 40 lol.
Define a tag? |
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See a medical professional.
I have diabetes type 2 and I’m on various heart drugs which can cause issues.
They don’t judge, there are various treatments. Be upfront and honest as has been said.
Don’t self medicate. Do contact doctors. You can’t be any more embarrassed than I was. |
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By *egoMan 20 weeks ago
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"So during penetration i cant really feel much and often lose my erection. Have had viagra in the past but want to avoid relying on it. Alone no issues but i kinda feel after years without sex i have almost trained by body to only respond to quite vigorous wanking!"
Me to, i feel this is common.
Stop wanking a few days, usually helps.
But wanking is my vice. Even if getting plenty of sex, ill still wank.
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"So during penetration i cant really feel much and often lose my erection. Have had viagra in the past but want to avoid relying on it. Alone no issues but i kinda feel after years without sex i have almost trained by body to only respond to quite vigorous wanking!
Me to, i feel this is common.
Stop wanking a few days, usually helps.
But wanking is my vice. Even if getting plenty of sex, ill still wank.
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Just part of my bedtime routine pretty much. Prob 5 times a week on average. |
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Have you tried a cockring???...
it can delay erection disfunction..
BUT DONT DO IT TOO TIGHT.. dont garrot your penis, it should be warm with a cockring..not cold or clammy ..biggest mistake is too tight |
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"Have you tried a cockring???...
it can delay erection disfunction..
BUT DONT DO IT TOO TIGHT.. dont garrot your penis, it should be warm with a cockring..not cold or clammy ..biggest mistake is too tight"
Hoping its just the fact im unfamiliar with the sensation and need more time to warm up and get turned on. I assumed id just go off like a champagne cork and having opposite issues |
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