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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"Am I really that bad? I don’t seem to get any interest on here. Thinking I might come off as it seems a waste of time!"
Very basic write up. Effort in tends to get results. |
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Yes, you are that bad! And only in the same boat as about most of men on Fab, expecting god knows what with a very basic profile.
What have you done to improve your chances? Have you tried any clubs or organised socials? Relying solely on Fab to get meets is very hard. Not impossible, but hard. Even for men with the best profiles in the world. |
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From a straight guys perspective, you are not that bad. Profile is rather lacking though (in my humble far from expert opinion).
As per all the other threads regarding getting no replies/meets.
Get to socials and go to clubs. Its the easiest way to meet people and make new friends |
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Offline networking - attend socials, events, club nights. Be seen regularly. Get noticed.
Online networking - good profile content regularly updated. Update status. engagement in forums, chatrooms. Be seen regularly. Get noticed.
Positivity gets results. Negativity will lead to a jaded view.
There are plenty of individuals who excel on FAB. Look to their lead. See what they are doing.
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Fab was only a small part of my armoury as a single guy, most of my meets came from attending clubs and socials along with joining chat groups with people from here. Fab isn’t the be all and end all.
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By *ovetolick68Man 32 weeks ago
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It's a challenge for single guys to meet females/couples, you're not the only one. there's way too many guys online so there's too much supply and not enough demand. It's actually easier to meet someone in reality than on here. otherwise you have to become creative and learn to sell yourself. I have been experimenting for quite long time and failed many times you just have to observe and try out various things :D |
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Allen here. I wouldn’t worry too much, it’s simple weighting of the genders and peoples requirements on here.
I’ve only had my profile for four days but haven’t had even had a view yet. This is even though I had a face pic for my profile picture for two of those days.
It is what it is, don’t be disheartened  |
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"Allen here. I wouldn’t worry too much, it’s simple weighting of the genders and peoples requirements on here.
I’ve only had my profile for four days but haven’t had even had a view yet. This is even though I had a face pic for my profile picture for two of those days.
It is what it is, don’t be disheartened "
Allen, remember that a lot of women, and at least some couples, view profiles in stealth mode. Meaning they would not show on "who looked at me" page. This is mostly to prevent the messages "you looked at me, fancy a shag/chat?" etc. |
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"Allen here. I wouldn’t worry too much, it’s simple weighting of the genders and peoples requirements on here.
I’ve only had my profile for four days but haven’t had even had a view yet. This is even though I had a face pic for my profile picture for two of those days.
It is what it is, don’t be disheartened
Allen, remember that a lot of women, and at least some couples, view profiles in stealth mode. Meaning they would not show on "who looked at me" page. This is mostly to prevent the messages "you looked at me, fancy a shag/chat?" etc. "
Aaaaah yes, very good point!  |
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"It's a challenge for single guys to meet females/couples, you're not the only one. there's way too many guys online so there's too much supply and not enough demand. It's actually easier to meet someone in reality than on here. otherwise you have to become creative and learn to sell yourself. I have been experimenting for quite long time and failed many times you just have to observe and try out various things :D"
Absolutely this! Don’t take a Fab too seriously, or think this is all there is. Fab is an extra to life, not the be-all-and-end-all. 
You could try visiting a swinger club or two, but in my experience, they just represent Fab condensed in to one building for an evening  You will genuinely meet more women in your local Wetherspoons than you will in a club, or Fab to be fair…..  Just be patient, and chill! You’ve got recent veris, so you’re doing better than many guys in here. All the best |
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Of course you are bad. You are a man, not much use of this kind.
I haven't even looked at your profile and don't need to.
You want to meet women? Go to salsa dance clubs. So many are there looking for a partner to dance and swing and shug. |
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