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so we have been meeting for 9 months hotels and a little at home in the living room thnking of moving to our bedroom more sapce etc and bed hubby not sure any advice of next step to the bedroom open and freee for total honestly lol thanks all |
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"so we have been meeting for 9 months hotels and a little at home in the living room thnking of moving to our bedroom more sapce etc and bed hubby not sure any advice of next step to the bedroom open and freee for total honestly lol thanks all "
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There isn't a right answer here, it's down to what you feel as a couple.
We have had FFMs in our bed years ago, when we were first starting. It became apparent that Lucy didn't care for hosting as it made her nervous from a privacy standpoint so we stopped and used other venues.
If hubby feels funny about it being in your bed, you should probably consider heeding that warning; especially if you aren't specifically getting anything out of it being in your bed. |
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Thinking about it, it doesn't do any harm keeping your own bedroom just foenyou and your partner. Some folk like to keep their hobby away from their home, never mind bring it bring their own bedroom. |
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I've met plenty of couples where the bedroom is out of bounds for playing, and I've met those who get an extra kick from playing in their bedroom.
It's up to the two of you to decide what's right for you but if hubby isn't sure then it's not a good idea (I'd say the same if you weren't sure). |
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If I was meeting anyone at my house I definitely wouldn’t take them to my bed that’s mine & mine only I would keep it to the living room & put blankets down it’s easier to put blankets in the washer to wash than a duvet or even replace one  |
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I have been lucky enough to meet two married ladies from here and both times we were in their spare bedroom as their own bedroom was not appropriate But I have also met couples who prefer their own bedroom to be used.
I have always met partners at the pub or a café to see if we want to go further and more often than not we will end up going back to one or others houses rather than a hotel
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We have never used our bedroom when we have played at home, just a thing and we have never really spoken about it, it is just how it all evolved. We use the lounge, conservatory or spare room depending how we feel. It. is a just a personal choice really, not something to stress about at all ?? |
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We say why not, its the most comfortable place and makes life a lot easier, especially if your sharing your bed with a long term guy. Sam has been seeing one guy for over 11yrs now.so they always use our bed for sex/lovemaking. |
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