Your pics really don't show us much at all about you. You've not set an age range (will you really meet an 18yr old or a 99yr old?) so looks either lazy or that you'll meet anyone, and you say you can't accommodate which is fine, but a LOT of people will assume (rightly or wrongly) that you're married or attached.
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OP unfortunately there's nothing in your profile to give potential meets any idea if they're likely to be attracted to you.
It also doesn't say what you wany or what you can offer. Everyone has preferences and I doubt you really want sex with a lady in her 80s.
Think of your profile as your shop window.
Your best bet is clubs and socials. |
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By *imonnew OP Man 14 weeks ago
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"Your pics really don't show us much at all about you. You've not set an age range (will you really meet an 18yr old or a 99yr old?) so looks either lazy or that you'll meet anyone, and you say you can't accommodate which is fine, but a LOT of people will assume (rightly or wrongly) that you're married or attached.
(Bry)"
thanks I didn't think of that I'll update it |
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By *imonnew OP Man 14 weeks ago
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"OP unfortunately there's nothing in your profile to give potential meets any idea if they're likely to be attracted to you.
It also doesn't say what you wany or what you can offer. Everyone has preferences and I doubt you really want sex with a lady in her 80s.
Think of your profile as your shop window.
Your best bet is clubs and socials. "
thank you I'll make some changes and put some better pictures on |
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Sometimes it's the smallest things that can go against you when there's so many profiles to choose from.
You might want to check your spelling, grammar and punctuation.
I know that sounds small but it's often the little things. |
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By *imonnew OP Man 14 weeks ago
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"Sometimes it's the smallest things that can go against you when there's so many profiles to choose from.
You might want to check your spelling, grammar and punctuation.
I know that sounds small but it's often the little things."
thanks I'll check it |
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Firstly welcome to Fab
Your profile is a big bland. Whilst it states what you’re looking for the question is why would someone message you over someone else.
Also you say something about ask me and I will reply. Personally I find that a bit lazy. Why would they message you a question?
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By *imonnew OP Man 14 weeks ago
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"Firstly welcome to Fab
Your profile is a big bland. Whilst it states what you’re looking for the question is why would someone message you over someone else.
Also you say something about ask me and I will reply. Personally I find that a bit lazy. Why would they message you a question?
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Honestly? It's a but boring snd I'd probably skip it.... the photos don't really give any indication of your build/body type. Putting yourself down in your bio usually suggests low self confidence which is a turn off for me. You also don't really explain exactly what you're looking for or more importantly what you can offer.
Inject a little personality and uniqueness would be my advice  |
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"Honestly? It's a but boring snd I'd probably skip it.... the photos don't really give any indication of your build/body type. Putting yourself down in your bio usually suggests low self confidence which is a turn off for me. You also don't really explain exactly what you're looking for or more importantly what you can offer.
Inject a little personality and uniqueness would be my advice "
thanks I'll try and put more of me in it |
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"Honestly? It's a but boring snd I'd probably skip it.... the photos don't really give any indication of your build/body type. Putting yourself down in your bio usually suggests low self confidence which is a turn off for me. You also don't really explain exactly what you're looking for or more importantly what you can offer.
Inject a little personality and uniqueness would be my advice "
This. Delete the pic with you and your shopping bags, as it makes you look uninteresting. Replace it with a semi clothed pic that conveys your body shape (which is important to some).
Re-word your status. Asking others to message you suggests laziness / lack of effort.
Hope that helps. |
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By *imonnew OP Man 14 weeks ago
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"Honestly? It's a but boring snd I'd probably skip it.... the photos don't really give any indication of your build/body type. Putting yourself down in your bio usually suggests low self confidence which is a turn off for me. You also don't really explain exactly what you're looking for or more importantly what you can offer.
Inject a little personality and uniqueness would be my advice
This. Delete the pic with you and your shopping bags, as it makes you look uninteresting. Replace it with a semi clothed pic that conveys your body shape (which is important to some).
Re-word your status. Asking others to message you suggests laziness / lack of effort.
Hope that helps."
thank you I'll swap the pic |
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People have lots of choice here, so your profile must do its best to have others be sure that you could be the one for them. They will need physical attraction as well as being matched with your personality. Likewise, your preferences must match too
Read profile tips posts for ideas
Have photos that make it easy for people to know if they like you. You must be the vast majority of a photo. Don't be a tiny figure that even a magnifying glass wouldn't help much with, to get this. If in doubt, people move on
If your photos don't scream that you've made it easy for and considered others - what does it say about how you'd be in bed, for them? |
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By *imonnew OP Man 14 weeks ago
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"People have lots of choice here, so your profile must do its best to have others be sure that you could be the one for them. They will need physical attraction as well as being matched with your personality. Likewise, your preferences must match too
Read profile tips posts for ideas
Have photos that make it easy for people to know if they like you. You must be the vast majority of a photo. Don't be a tiny figure that even a magnifying glass wouldn't help much with, to get this. If in doubt, people move on
If your photos don't scream that you've made it easy for and considered others - what does it say about how you'd be in bed, for them?"
thank you I'll put some more pics on and closer to the camera and of me and what my body is like |
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