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Offering money, clothes etc
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First of all, I know it’s against site rules, and I’ve just reported and blocked the latest culprit, but….
Why on earth do guys think it’s appropriate to offer to ‘buy a pretty dress’ or offer cash for a meet? There are way easier avenues to get what you want in this regard rather than wasting time here.
I’m not offended by the overall concept, but I am offended by the misunderstanding of the reason for this site and inability to read a profile!
Just, why?! |
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I have taken a few from here out for a meal and did say I would pay. I hope that is ok. Clearly cash for sex not. One women did ask me if could give her money although she a loan. Did not take further |
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I think it's a kink. Gets them the fantasy of buying sex but without having to sullly themselves with pro sex workers |
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By *hipdaleCouple 2 weeks ago
Greenhithe |
There was a couple on here awhile so advertising gangbangs when you contacted them they wanted watch guy to pay 50 quid funny how they no longer on the site |
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"I have taken a few from here out for a meal and did say I would pay. I hope that is ok. Clearly cash for sex not. One women did ask me if could give her money although she a loan. Did not take further "
I don’t have an issue with someone paying for meals/drinks, although it could give the impression of expectation! Completely depends how it’s done! |
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"First of all, I know it’s against site rules, and I’ve just reported and blocked the latest culprit, but….
Why on earth do guys think it’s appropriate to offer to ‘buy a pretty dress’ or offer cash for a meet? There are way easier avenues to get what you want in this regard rather than wasting time here.
I’m not offended by the overall concept, but I am offended by the misunderstanding of the reason for this site and inability to read a profile!
Just, why?!"
I suspect that it is the same thinking that allows men to post on here about their ‘sluts’. There is one on here at the moment where only men have responded. |
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By *oxy jWoman 2 weeks ago
somerset |
too me its ''yuk'' i wont accept any gift no matter how small flowers yuk chocs yuk its just not right swinging is about having fun without all that crap ...
i was meeting a guy for about 6 months for fun then out of the blue he turns up with flowers nope sorry you've just killed the sexual gun bye bye ...
for me its a massive no the only gift i want is a good time and ill hopefully give a good time back ...however for as long as there are women/couples on here who do accept gifts and cash there will always be guys who offer ... ther a woman on here local to me who gives guys list of what she needs we spoke to one guy at a club who thought buying a washing machine or a cooker was fine if he got sex..
i just find it a massive turn off |
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"too me its ''yuk'' i wont accept any gift no matter how small flowers yuk chocs yuk its just not right swinging is about having fun without all that crap ...
i was meeting a guy for about 6 months for fun then out of the blue he turns up with flowers nope sorry you've just killed the sexual gun bye bye ...
for me its a massive no the only gift i want is a good time and ill hopefully give a good time back ...however for as long as there are women/couples on here who do accept gifts and cash there will always be guys who offer ... ther a woman on here local to me who gives guys list of what she needs we spoke to one guy at a club who thought buying a washing machine or a cooker was fine if he got sex..
i just find it a massive turn off"
Yeah that’s just wrong. Nothing wrong in helping people who might be in need but not selling for sex |
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Probably a fantasist getting off on the chat,
They asked, you said no so just block and move on.
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Is this the same as people asking for people to renew their site subscription for them or selling their underwear?
It is not just men offering or asking for money |
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If both parties are happy I don't see any issue. It's like everything.... it's all parties are happy and conscientious then let them be.
If it's not for you, politely bow out. |
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By *lan157Man 2 weeks ago
a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex |
Its desperation I think OP. And a misunderstanding of what this site was supposed to be.... A site for swingers . |
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Party packets and 420 offered by three guys who can accom if she brings her own restraints!
What could possibly go wrong? |
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So quick responses are appreciates. Someone is offering a meet tomorrow/today I guess if your UK time. But they want money. I think I already know the answer. But is this normal on fab. Only been on here a little bit. Thanks in advance. |
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"So quick responses are appreciates. Someone is offering a meet tomorrow/today I guess if your UK time. But they want money. I think I already know the answer. But is this normal on fab. Only been on here a little bit. Thanks in advance."
Report the profile, it's against the rules. It isn't normal although it does happen |
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Op as you know it's against site rules. You've done the right thing by reporting |
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