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Make your bondaries clear before anything happens.
Make sure you have a safe word.
Don't get put off if things are a little awkward, it's your first one.
Keep it light hearted and have fun. |
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Everything above, I'll add from a process perspective, I find it best if the 2 men please the woman rather than thinking the woman is going to please 2 men. Let your wife lead it perhaps, asked her what she wants. E.g. one man at the top, one at the bottom, or one man each side. Does she have any fantasies to play out?
Finally, like you should never meet your hero's, I'm afraid that some fantasies just don't work as well in reality...but you gotta try them anyway. |
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Communication is key, talk and listen to your wife, you both have to be free and honest with everything, set boundaries and keep to them no matter what happens, boundaries can be changed later on. Explain what you would both vision in the scenario if it happens. Dont jump at the chance of the first person available. It's not a race. You must both be on the same page when you move forward if not it will fail. |
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