As one of ‘them’, sigh, the things that put me off are:
Over filtered, poorly lit photos.
Age discrepancies on profiles.
Little information about what is being offered.
Reading between the lines, that someone is public-transport dependent. (Nothing wrong with that, but the added stress/limitations are not for me)
Obviously, that’s just me, but these are my general ‘no thank yous’. |
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The photos alone would put me off, sorry  the filters are ridiculous to the point they've distorted the photo. Plus the background of the first photograph..... it certainly doesn't look like somewhere I'd like to be hosted 
The comment about making sure you could get back after a meet would be a bit a red flag too. |
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"As one of ‘them’, sigh, the things that put me off are:
Over filtered, poorly lit photos.
Age discrepancies on profiles.
Little information about what is being offered.
Reading between the lines, that someone is public-transport dependent. (Nothing wrong with that, but the added stress/limitations are not for me)
Obviously, that’s just me, but these are my general ‘no thank yous’."
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Doesn't really say a lot, despite the number of words.
Photos left me probably unable to recognise you, if we set a meet up. People need to accurately know how you look, to assess if they'd touch you.
Most people are not mutually compatible with most other people. It's not failure when results fit with such factual reality.
You can only be of interest to those who can see how you look and who know your preference and what you'll give them are.
If in doubt, people move on. |
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"I always get ignored by women isit something to do with my profile thats putting them off?"
Your dark and dingy photo's would put me off straightaway. Remember your profile pic is the very first impression you get to make and needs to stand out, not be lost in the dark. |
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By *ay1981Man 3 weeks ago
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Good evening
Can anyone help me?!?
Or point me in the right direction pls???
I've been banned from sharing new pics & vids which has lasted fir months now!!!
How do I question this & find out how much longer I will be banned for???
It's boring not being able to share new content on my profile & will probably leave the site if this continues?!?
Many thanks in advance for any advice u have!
James |
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"Why do guys put these posts up and never come back to them or take any notice of the advice given?"
He has updated his age... but I agree. Maybe they think it will increase their chances of a meet. |
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nah, nevermind must have just been my imagination 
