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By *hellgaz OP Couple 31 weeks ago
amesbury |
So my wife and me have been having lots of fun with a guy that we both enjoy being with and have become good friends with each other. The other night he came to ours for a glass of wine and some fun, which led to us all being in bed. I had suggested to my wife that he should fuck her from doggy while she laid over me kissing and sucking my cock, he pounded her hard and she was coming multiple times and was so hot. When we finished and he had left she said that he had fucked her arse and didn’t expect it, I was shocked as we don’t do anal but can’t get the idea of it out my head and the way she enjoyed it, she did say that his cock is long and thin and felt good were I have a big girthy head ….. should I allow him to do it again ?? |
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"So my wife and me have been having lots of fun with a guy that we both enjoy being with and have become good friends with each other. The other night he came to ours for a glass of wine and some fun, which led to us all being in bed. I had suggested to my wife that he should fuck her from doggy while she laid over me kissing and sucking my cock, he pounded her hard and she was coming multiple times and was so hot. When we finished and he had left she said that he had fucked her arse and didn’t expect it, I was shocked as we don’t do anal but can’t get the idea of it out my head and the way she enjoyed it, she did say that his cock is long and thin and felt good were I have a big girthy head ….. should I allow him to do it again ??"
Surely it's your wife's decision, not yours? |
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By *rsteveMan 31 weeks ago
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"So my wife and me have been having lots of fun with a guy that we both enjoy being with and have become good friends with each other. The other night he came to ours for a glass of wine and some fun, which led to us all being in bed. I had suggested to my wife that he should fuck her from doggy while she laid over me kissing and sucking my cock, he pounded her hard and she was coming multiple times and was so hot. When we finished and he had left she said that he had fucked her arse and didn’t expect it, I was shocked as we don’t do anal but can’t get the idea of it out my head and the way she enjoyed it, she did say that his cock is long and thin and felt good were I have a big girthy head ….. should I allow him to do it again ??"
If she enjoyed it why not as long as she wants to do it again. Think it would turn me on even more that she let him and not you.  |
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By *ornycougaWoman 31 weeks ago
Wherever I lay my hat |
Sorry but the idea that someone who doesn't do anal can just take a guy's cock and be fucked as if he was in her pussy without verbal communication between them and without you noticing the change of pace is inconceivable to me. Either this belongs in the fantasy section or she has been having anal without you knowing it. |
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"Sorry but the idea that someone who doesn't do anal can just take a guy's cock and be fucked as if he was in her pussy without verbal communication between them and without you noticing the change of pace is inconceivable to me. Either this belongs in the fantasy section or she has been having anal without you knowing it. "
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"Sorry but the idea that someone who doesn't do anal can just take a guy's cock and be fucked as if he was in her pussy without verbal communication between them and without you noticing the change of pace is inconceivable to me. Either this belongs in the fantasy section or she has been having anal without you knowing it. "
Was going to say the same thing. It hurts A LOT if not done right. |
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"Sorry but the idea that someone who doesn't do anal can just take a guy's cock and be fucked as if he was in her pussy without verbal communication between them and without you noticing the change of pace is inconceivable to me. Either this belongs in the fantasy section or she has been having anal without you knowing it. "
This!!!
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"So my wife and me have been having lots of fun with a guy that we both enjoy being with and have become good friends with each other. The other night he came to ours for a glass of wine and some fun, which led to us all being in bed. I had suggested to my wife that he should fuck her from doggy while she laid over me kissing and sucking my cock, he pounded her hard and she was coming multiple times and was so hot. When we finished and he had left she said that he had fucked her arse and didn’t expect it, I was shocked as we don’t do anal but can’t get the idea of it out my head and the way she enjoyed it, she did say that his cock is long and thin and felt good were I have a big girthy head ….. should I allow him to do it again ??"
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I'd be more concerned that he had anal sex with your wife without her consent! |
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By *ady LickWoman 31 weeks ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"Sorry but the idea that someone who doesn't do anal can just take a guy's cock and be fucked as if he was in her pussy without verbal communication between them and without you noticing the change of pace is inconceivable to me. Either this belongs in the fantasy section or she has been having anal without you knowing it. "
100% this, also 'should I allow him to do it again' leaves me a bit  tbh! |
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"Sorry but the idea that someone who doesn't do anal can just take a guy's cock and be fucked as if he was in her pussy without verbal communication between them and without you noticing the change of pace is inconceivable to me. Either this belongs in the fantasy section or she has been having anal without you knowing it. "
Agree with this lol. There’s no way if you don’t do anal regularly it just happens without giving it away lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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"Still mind 1st time I got in my wife's ass wow still love it now as does she. "
hahaha OK then tell them how much you begged me for it babe. But yes I do love it lol somethings can be a secret tho hahaha ur on a ban babe
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"So my wife and me have been having lots of fun with a guy that we both enjoy being with and have become good friends with each other. The other night he came to ours for a glass of wine and some fun, which led to us all being in bed. I had suggested to my wife that he should fuck her from doggy while she laid over me kissing and sucking my cock, he pounded her hard and she was coming multiple times and was so hot. When we finished and he had left she said that he had fucked her arse and didn’t expect it, I was shocked as we don’t do anal but can’t get the idea of it out my head and the way she enjoyed it, she did say that his cock is long and thin and felt good were I have a big girthy head ….. should I allow him to do it again ??
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I'd be more concerned that he had anal sex with your wife without her consent!"
Agreed, we can't believe that some people who commented above hadn't flagged this and somehow saw it in a positive light.
If he didn't ask permission and just switched to anal without warning that's a huge red flag and likely sexual assault (context dependant)!
Also the part about "allowing your partner" to do it again sounds worrying. Granted it might just be your wording of the sentence, but your partner is the only one who can make final decisions for/about themselves, irrespective of any D/s or dynamic you might have with them that allows perceived control (like TPE etc). |
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As so many other posters I think a conversation is needed.
Anal without consent is a huge red flag.. is it something you had discussed and decided it wasn't something either of you wanted to do? I'm not sure why you would 'allow' any man to do anything to anyone that they hadn't given express consent to.
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When he initially tried to enter her, did the lady say say no?
I personally would talk about limits and boundaries first but if he was rubbing his cock around her anus and then went in without any objection, he must've thought he had the green light.
As for a repeat, it's her arse, her decision! |
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"So my wife and me have been having lots of fun with a guy that we both enjoy being with and have become good friends with each other. The other night he came to ours for a glass of wine and some fun, which led to us all being in bed. I had suggested to my wife that he should fuck her from doggy while she laid over me kissing and sucking my cock, he pounded her hard and she was coming multiple times and was so hot. When we finished and he had left she said that he had fucked her arse and didn’t expect it, I was shocked as we don’t do anal but can’t get the idea of it out my head and the way she enjoyed it, she did say that his cock is long and thin and felt good were I have a big girthy head ….. should I allow him to do it again ??"
YOU HAVE 70 PHOTOS ON YOUR PUBLIC GALLERY
ALL OF THEM ARE OF YOUR WIFE
THEY INCLUDE FULL SEX ORAL AND CUMSHOTS
ONLY ONE PHOTO SHOWS YOUR WIFE FROM BEHIND.
THAT SAYS SOMETHING.
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I will say one thing, I've had my share of anal sex and at no point would I put it in there with the say so of the other half. Without pre planning and preparation it could be not as enjoyable, aswell to just do it on the fly takes trust on both sides.
So for him to put it in there and your wife to just take it without so much as you realising takes some skill and I'd say pre planning or experience. |
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The cynic in me is thinking that this can only be a way of driving traffic to their profile to boost numbers at their public social which took place yesterday.
Otherwise, as others have said, the fact OP doesn’t see this as at all troubling is A LOT. |
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By *ayd100Man 30 weeks ago
clitheroe |
"So my wife and me have been having lots of fun with a guy that we both enjoy being with and have become good friends with each other. The other night he came to ours for a glass of wine and some fun, which led to us all being in bed. I had suggested to my wife that he should fuck her from doggy while she laid over me kissing and sucking my cock, he pounded her hard and she was coming multiple times and was so hot. When we finished and he had left she said that he had fucked her arse and didn’t expect it, I was shocked as we don’t do anal but can’t get the idea of it out my head and the way she enjoyed it, she did say that his cock is long and thin and felt good were I have a big girthy head ….. should I allow him to do it again ??"
absolutely
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"So my wife and me have been having lots of fun with a guy that we both enjoy being with and have become good friends with each other. The other night he came to ours for a glass of wine and some fun, which led to us all being in bed. I had suggested to my wife that he should fuck her from doggy while she laid over me kissing and sucking my cock, he pounded her hard and she was coming multiple times and was so hot. When we finished and he had left she said that he had fucked her arse and didn’t expect it, I was shocked as we don’t do anal but can’t get the idea of it out my head and the way she enjoyed it, she did say that his cock is long and thin and felt good were I have a big girthy head ….. should I allow him to do it again ??"
Yes! Then as he’s opened her up you try going second and see if it’s easier |
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By *omRachCouple 30 weeks ago
Wirral |
"So my wife and me have been having lots of fun with a guy that we both enjoy being with and have become good friends with each other. The other night he came to ours for a glass of wine and some fun, which led to us all being in bed. I had suggested to my wife that he should fuck her from doggy while she laid over me kissing and sucking my cock, he pounded her hard and she was coming multiple times and was so hot. When we finished and he had left she said that he had fucked her arse and didn’t expect it, I was shocked as we don’t do anal but can’t get the idea of it out my head and the way she enjoyed it, she did say that his cock is long and thin and felt good were I have a big girthy head ….. should I allow him to do it again ??"
It's not your arsehole my friend, it's your wife's - surely she should be the one 'allowing' it??? |
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Hard to comment here without knowing if she knew what was happening and was happy for him to proceed or she didn't realise till it was too late.
Either way it feels like this gentleman crossed a boundary and is a safety risk to your Mrs and others. |
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"Sorry but the idea that someone who doesn't do anal can just take a guy's cock and be fucked as if he was in her pussy without verbal communication between them and without you noticing the change of pace is inconceivable to me. Either this belongs in the fantasy section or she has been having anal without you knowing it.
This!!!
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Double this |
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By *unchalMan 30 weeks ago
Dartford |
"The fact that this thread is a total binfire with so many people who don’t realise this story is a huge consent violation is really helping my blocklist…."
OMG! I wish I understood these issues as well as you do. This is obviously not real. Anyone ever had an unexpected cock up the arse? It doesn’t happen without comment. |
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I understand the people saying it’s her choice and not yours but if this is true and not something for the “stories and fantasies” section, then I wouldn’t be hapoy about it.
You’re a couple at the end of the day and while things may get a bit blurry when under the influence and/or in the heat of the moment, if he’s just slipped it up her arse without any form of consent or dialogue in advance and then pissed off, there’s a big consent and transparency issue there, regardless of whether she enjoyed it or not.
I await lynching. |
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"I understand the people saying it’s her choice and not yours but if this is true and not something for the “stories and fantasies” section, then I wouldn’t be hapoy about it.
You’re a couple at the end of the day and while things may get a bit blurry when under the influence and/or in the heat of the moment, if he’s just slipped it up her arse without any form of consent or dialogue in advance and then pissed off, there’s a big consent and transparency issue there, regardless of whether she enjoyed it or not.
I await lynching. "
Completely agree with you. I also suspect ‘story’ and OP’s non-return to the thread reinforces that. |
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By *rettyflamingoWoman 30 weeks ago
Where the flamboyance of flamingos live |
Consent, consent, consent as others have mentioned. No one would enter my arse without my permission or do anything to me in fact with consent. What’s wrong with the husband for allowing this to happen? |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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Thought I'd accidentally opened the stories and fantasies section.... no one accidentally fucks my arse .... and if they tried and someone else was there ... they would all know about it pretty quick.
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