I'm not looking for couples but being described as "female" sets my teeth on edge.
It sounds dehumanising. In my mind you describe animals as male or female and people as men and women. Not all will agree but best not put off your target audience.
Other than that... single women are in demand and need not to feel like a human sex toy.
There's nothing in your profile that says what you want or can offer. Why should they meet you rather than one of the multitude of other couples?
The fact that the lady is only bi curious will also put off many.
I would suggest trying a club. As a couple with my husband, that's where we've had success with single ladies. |
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By *ornycougaWoman 32 weeks ago
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As others have said, we are women. With feelings, sexual needs, preferences and personalities. Most need attraction to, and a connection with, both the man and the woman of the couple. I am sick of couples messaging me asking if I want to join them on x night straight of the bat. I have no idea which one has messaged. Sparse profiles, only pictures of the woman, stating that she is bi-curious. No chat, no effort - straight up asking to meet. I mean really?? What woman in her right mind is going to engage with that? I am not a human fleshlight to be procured for the couple's experimentation or sexual gratification, though some couples on here seem to assume otherwise. |
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"I'm not looking for couples but being described as "female" sets my teeth on edge.
It sounds dehumanising. In my mind you describe animals as male or female and people as men and women. Not all will agree but best not put off your target audience.
Other than that... single women are in demand and need not to feel like a human sex toy.
There's nothing in your profile that says what you want or can offer. Why should they meet you rather than one of the multitude of other couples?
The fact that the lady is only bi curious will also put off many.
I would suggest trying a club. As a couple with my husband, that's where we've had success with single ladies."
This is so true. I find it difficult to connect especially on fab. I've had 2 couples that I have connected with over the years of being in the scene.
I tend to meet couples at clubs and maybe if we connect we arrange a pvt meet after that.
I wouldn't play with a couple when the lady is only bi curious.
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"As others have said, we are women. With feelings, sexual needs, preferences and personalities. Most need attraction to, and a connection with, both the man and the woman of the couple. I am sick of couples messaging me asking if I want to join them on x night straight of the bat. I have no idea which one has messaged. Sparse profiles, only pictures of the woman, stating that she is bi-curious. No chat, no effort - straight up asking to meet. I mean really?? What woman in her right mind is going to engage with that? I am not a human fleshlight to be procured for the couple's experimentation or sexual gratification, though some couples on here seem to assume otherwise. "
100% agree with this. |
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We absolutely see a single lady as someone special , and we treat them as an equal addition to any fun that we have
They are not something to tick off a list or brag about
It helps massively that Mrs j lived with a woman and had a girlfriend previously
So we are in a privileged position that she's been there , done that
Treat them as a human being and you're most of the way there |
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1000% second all this.if anyone wanted to join us it’s never about “just us” it’s about all of us.London is definitely bi and we’ve had quite a few female encounters before  we don’t always play but you never know what we find at a club |
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