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By (user no longer on site) OP 45 weeks ago
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I’ve been on this site for a while. But now I have a lady friend that’s interested in going to a club as a couple. Neither of us have done a club before and just looking for advice |
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By *elloWoman 45 weeks ago
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"I’ve been on this site for a while. But now I have a lady friend that’s interested in going to a club as a couple. Neither of us have done a club before and just looking for advice "
Number 1 advice is to make sure to clearly discuss things through with eachother before attending, as a couple you have to make sure you're both on the same page with what type of play you're both comfortable with.
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By *rpeggioCouple 45 weeks ago
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Our advice is look first for the many threads on this. Then narrow down here what you want advice about: logistics? Choosing a club? Play or not on your first visit? What to expect? Your internal feelings and dynamics as a couple? ...
Your question is too wide open OP. |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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So we did this yesterday. Top tips we did (or wish we'd known).
Check the website for the club - get lots of info up front
Work out the basics, where are you going, how, parking etc
Agree what you're going for, and stick to it - respect each others boundaries and if you're going to change them, do it after you leave ready for next time
Talk to the staff, they've spoken to hundreds of newbies and they know how to make you feel at ease
Do it - the sooner the better |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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I'd add, it helped me the first time I went in a couple to have an agreement if either us wanted to leave we would both leave together no questions asked, and discuss later. |
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