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My new lady friend and I are having sex now and I've noticed she is more in to clitoral stimulation than penetrative sex.
I was surprised to hear that she'd never had any sex toys.
I've told her I intend to get her some and will be tying her up and blindfolding her to use them on her.
I am after advice on the best kind of toys to get her. She has some incredible, noisy orgasms when I concentrate my attentions on her clitoris.
Any help would be appreciated. |
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I know it sounds trite but really you need to ask her. There are lots of toys you can buy but they don't all suit all women. For instance some women love their wand, mine leaves me numb if I use it too long...that would defeat the object if it was the same for your partner. |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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Popular clit stimulating toys are wands, Womanizers, rabbit style toys. Wands are great because they have soft heads and multiple vibrator massage settings, Womanizers and similar work by a combination of clit sucking/simulating oral sex, like a rapid tongue flickering, rabbits have the ears and face shape that nuzzle into or vibe onto the clit. Vibrating cock rings, either when worn by you or she can use it solo and hold it against her clit as a mini vibe xx |
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If she's into Clit stimulation, one of the ones that suck the clit with varying levels of pressure are amazing...I'm not a massive fan of vibrators as I find some are too harsh and leave me numb...but the little sucky one my partner got me gives me whole body orgasms |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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My favourites are Womanizer Starlet, Mini Wand, vibrating cock ring when used by myself, I also have various rabbit style ones like Bang Bang Bunny, Mr Hoppy from both LoveHoney and Bondara x |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"If she's into Clit stimulation, one of the ones that suck the clit with varying levels of pressure are amazing...I'm not a massive fan of vibrators as I find some are too harsh and leave me numb...but the little sucky one my partner got me gives me whole body orgasms"
I've got Womanizer Starlet and have just bought another type, LoveHoney X Romp clit suction which I look forward to trying out lol  xx |
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Do you mean sex toys for clitoral stimulation? I don’t think she needs any as you said she’s having some great orgasms from clitoris stimulation already. If you mean toys for “helping” her with orgasm from penetration that’s completely different. I don’t ever cum from penetration and wouldn’t want anything to be used on me in order to prove something. It sounds to me like your only fantasy OP. Better to communicate with your partner, in my opinion. |
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"My new lady friend and I are having sex now and I've noticed she is more in to clitoral stimulation than penetrative sex.
I was surprised to hear that she'd never had any sex toys.
I've told her I intend to get her some and will be tying her up and blindfolding her to use them on her.
I am after advice on the best kind of toys to get her. She has some incredible, noisy orgasms when I concentrate my attentions on her clitoris.
Any help would be appreciated."
Get a magic wand vibrator and a 50 shades of grey G-Spot rabbit. Leg spacer and leather handcuffs  |
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"Does she actually want you to use a sex toy on her?
This! Not everyone enjoys toys. Also telling her she’ll be blindfolded while using them for the first time would be a big no in my opinion."
We're assuming she is up for it. |
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When I started Mia on this journey a couple of years ago, I got her something fairly inoffensive so she got used to using toys without being faced with anything intimidating so she would at least confidently use it.
Romp Beat rechargeable, 6 inches. |
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"My new lady friend and I are having sex now and I've noticed she is more in to clitoral stimulation than penetrative sex.
I was surprised to hear that she'd never had any sex toys.
I've told her I intend to get her some and will be tying her up and blindfolding her to use them on her.
I am after advice on the best kind of toys to get her. She has some incredible, noisy orgasms when I concentrate my attentions on her clitoris.
Any help would be appreciated."
Why not shop together and let her choose? You can then by them and explore together in a more involving way for you both? |
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"Does she actually want you to use a sex toy on her?"
Of course this is consensual and something we have discussed. She is excited about the impending delivery as an I.
Thanks for all the helpful replies. |
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"Does she actually want you to use a sex toy on her?
Of course this is consensual and something we have discussed. She is excited about the impending delivery as an I.
Thanks for all the helpful replies."
Well, what did you order ? |
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By *mmaleiaWoman 41 weeks ago
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"If she's into Clit stimulation, one of the ones that suck the clit with varying levels of pressure are amazing...I'm not a massive fan of vibrators as I find some are too harsh and leave me numb...but the little sucky one my partner got me gives me whole body orgasms"
. Oooh, and these don’t vibrate too much, vibrators send me numb, even mellow 1s
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