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Advice, FabSwingers faux pas???

By *nFire OP Couple 40 weeks ago

Aylesbury

Hi all,

Looking for some newbie advice. We have been members for a little while but not very active. We're looking to change this

Yesterday I added below post and it isn't very active. Have I committed some FS netiquette faux pas or am I just doing it wrong!

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/clubs/1591639

Any help, pointers would be greatly appreciated.

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By *alandNitaCouple 40 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

I haven't looked at the post vut some threads are just more popular than others.

The time of day you post will also influence the response you get.

Nita

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By *alandNitaCouple 40 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Hi,

Have now read the post in question and understand the lack of response.

So many red flags... especially when read in conjunction with your profile.

Nita

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By *iss DevilWoman 40 weeks ago

Bedford

I don't think you've committed any kind of faux pas, it happens that some threads are more popular than others. Maybe try posting this in meets section, or London section? Putting meet on your profile could get you some messages, too.

Also, if you think about it, interested men may have read your post and just decided to come to the club in question on that day instead of messaging you.

On a different note, not sure what your couple dynamics is, but if it was me, I would not feel safe being blindfolded in a club, without anyone to look after me (as you make it clear you won't be present).

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By *ueerKinkyCoupleCouple 40 weeks ago

Cambridge (She/They And They/Them)

A bit gob-smacked at the scenario. I’ve responded on the other thread.

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By *eren4891Woman 40 weeks ago

North east wales

Is this the lack of chaperone, assumed consent blindfolded struggles to say no..

Sorry so many ref flags your safety and a guys legal safety too.

It's not safe, no aftercare, nice idea but you need someone to manage that scenario for you. Can't just be tidied up and guys go in and have their way. Got to have something to protect all parties. Boarding on CNC X

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By *toC Thats MeWoman 40 weeks ago

Sheffield

Not surprised at the lack of responses to be honest!

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By *oxy jWoman 40 weeks ago

somerset

seems very male led and that will put alot off ...agree with what lots are saying lots of red flags and where is the consent ... a sensible man would not be interested at all ... but you will attract the desperate for sure

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