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By *rayBoo OP Couple 42 weeks ago
Birkenhead |
Went to our local Swingers club for the first time to sign up at an open evening at the end of January. Went again to our first event (purely social) a couple of days ago. As we were getting our things out of the lockers, Boo realised she had a friend request on her Facebook from someone and they had gone back and liked a pic of her from around 10 years ago.
We just thought it was a weird typical Facebook creeper at first. Very generic sounding name and no profile pic or info. Boo denied the friend request and then she got another later on that evening. She left it as an invite and left it at that.
Yesterday she mentioned that they had cancelled the request again. Probably hoping she'd see it. Then late last night she got a message from this guy asking if she had a fab account. She looked back and she actually had a couple of messages from him. The first was from a couple of days after we had been to the club then she had gotten another on the night we were there this week saying 'greedy girl' and an eyes emoji.
It's really freaked her out as she doesn't feel safe and she was super insecure about going to clubs in the first place but had built up the confidence to finally go only for this asshole to ruin it. The fact that Fab was mentioned too makes her feel like she can't trust this site now too.
I've tried messaging the profile myself asking who they are and why are they messaging her but to no avail. I can't stand people like this and the uneasy feeling it has given Boo has made my blood boil.
Has anyone else come across this kind of thing? |
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That's downright stalker ish, sorry you had that.
How the hell did they find her FB account though?.
I have seen on threads before, where people have searched photos that are on here and people have had them on other sites and been found that way.
Why can't people just respect others privacy?
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By *rayBoo OP Couple 42 weeks ago
Birkenhead |
"That's downright stalker ish, sorry you had that.
How the hell did they find her FB account though?.
I have seen on threads before, where people have searched photos that are on here and people have had them on other sites and been found that way.
Why can't people just respect others privacy?
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We have absolutely no idea.
The profile is completely blank, no photos or information. The couple we spoke to were an older couple very mature and respectful, been in the lifestyle for years. Only gave them our first names and Fab name as they offered to leave us a verification since this is all still new to us. They also were definitely not there the first time we went as they were very recognisable.
We also don't have any full face pics on here that are public, closest we have is our display, but I still wouldn't say Boo is very recognisable as she wears a full face of make up and has piercings that can't be seen in that photo. And the only pic that is on our social media that is also here is private and is on my profile, not Boo's. Obviously they could find the connection there but it just seems unlikely. Especially the fact they asked if she had a fab profile.
It's all just very unsettling |
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I don't think it's a coincidence that this happened after going to a club, I just can't work out how they've got your partners name to search her out on FB.
You can't really identify her from fab I don't think.
I'm not suprised it's freaking you both out.
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By *rayBoo OP Couple 42 weeks ago
Birkenhead |
"I don't think it's a coincidence that this happened after going to a club, I just can't work out how they've got your partners name to search her out on FB.
You can't really identify her from fab I don't think.
I'm not suprised it's freaking you both out.
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That's exactly what's bothered us too. And the fact this person hasn't got a picture or anything, it's very creepy behaviour that would make anyoen uncomfortable. Boo was really worked up over it last night and as I was working the night shift, she was home alone with our child so felt incredibly unsafe.
We don't speak to single men on here and it's partly why so we've turned messages off. If they'd have been honest and not hiding behind anonymity, while still a bit disrespectful tracking her down on social media and messaging, it would be less unsettling as we could see who it is. I'm racking my brain trying to think if we saw any of the same people twice other than staff. There was some of the same staff members there on both occasions but I just don't find this likely but will definitely be vigilant about it, that's if we ever go again after all of this |
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"I don't think it's a coincidence that this happened after going to a club, I just can't work out how they've got your partners name to search her out on FB.
You can't really identify her from fab I don't think.
I'm not suprised it's freaking you both out.
That's exactly what's bothered us too. And the fact this person hasn't got a picture or anything, it's very creepy behaviour that would make anyoen uncomfortable. Boo was really worked up over it last night and as I was working the night shift, she was home alone with our child so felt incredibly unsafe.
We don't speak to single men on here and it's partly why so we've turned messages off. If they'd have been honest and not hiding behind anonymity, while still a bit disrespectful tracking her down on social media and messaging, it would be less unsettling as we could see who it is. I'm racking my brain trying to think if we saw any of the same people twice other than staff. There was some of the same staff members there on both occasions but I just don't find this likely but will definitely be vigilant about it, that's if we ever go again after all of this"
It's just such a shame all this has tainted your experience of going to a club, but I totally get it.
The other thing I could think of is, have you swapped numbers with anyone? Sometimes it links socials to your number if you have it on FB.
It's all v creepy and underhand behaviour, whoever they are op. |
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Nobody really knows how the 'suggested friends' come up on FB but there is a suggestion that being on the same Wi-Fi network might do it. From some suggestions I have had I think that might be true. He may have just recognised her profile pic when he scrolled suggested friends? |
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By *rayBoo OP Couple 42 weeks ago
Birkenhead |
We didn't trade numbers with anyone. We only spoke to 3 other couples and a couple of staff members that night as everybody else was quite happy speaking with other people. All of the couples were lovely and respectful with varying levels of experience and we stayed on first name basis.
The other unsettling thing is that she got a message at 19:50 on the night we got there, we got there at 19:10. Once you're booked in for the night they have a no phones policy so either someone has spotted us and sent her a message between arrival and locking their phone away, or they haven't put their phone away at all, or it's a staff member who has their phone with them. |
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By *rayBoo OP Couple 42 weeks ago
Birkenhead |
Definitely goes off WiFi and possibly location aswell. The club doesn't have customer WiFi as all phones should be locked away upon arrival.
Just a very frustrating and unsettling experience |
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Guessing which club this was, I very very much doubt it’ll be a member of staff - maybe worth discussing it with them on your next visit? I’d try not let it put you off and just put it down to really shitty coincidence. |
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By *rayBoo OP Couple 42 weeks ago
Birkenhead |
"Guessing which club this was, I very very much doubt it’ll be a member of staff - maybe worth discussing it with them on your next visit? I’d try not let it put you off and just put it down to really shitty coincidence. "
We doubt this too but can't stop our minds running wild. We had a fun time and love the atmosphere, just feels a bit tarnished right now. Always someone put there to ruin the fun |
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One club we used to visit once stated our real names quite loudly in the public foyer as we signed in and they also asked for our Fab name during the sign up process.
Later that night a guy we spoke to commented on one of our FB posts!
I’d be very suspicious of the clubs data security and that’s where I’d be looking first. |
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By *rayBoo OP Couple 42 weeks ago
Birkenhead |
"i havent got FB but if i did i'd be setting my account to private and checking privacy settings.
Likewise here on fab , go to privacy section and block google from tracking you."
We've just done this. Thanks for the advice! |
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By *oxy jWoman 42 weeks ago
somerset |
in all the years ive / we've been online we never mix the 2 our fab life is fab we never give our fab name out in private like at clubs never book in to a club with our fab name neither ... its down to yourselves how discrete you want things to be so be care full how you use your info ..
never access fab via phone and will not use facebook on phones someone did post a link on here once showing how if your on fab that5 sometimes can be traced back to facebook |
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By *rayBoo OP Couple 42 weeks ago
Birkenhead |
"One club we used to visit once stated our real names quite loudly in the public foyer as we signed in and they also asked for our Fab name during the sign up process.
Later that night a guy we spoke to commented on one of our FB posts!
I’d be very suspicious of the clubs data security and that’s where I’d be looking first. "
When we arrived we were told to hang back as other customers were being signed up so we didn't hear their personal details. They also have only asked our Fab name when we booked tickets for our event and never in person. |
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By *rayBoo OP Couple 42 weeks ago
Birkenhead |
"Unlikely I know but are any of your fab pictures on Facebook or have you shared phone numbers or emails with this man?"
The only one that is is set to private. We'll probably just remove it to be safe now. But it doesn't feel like it's someone who's come from here, definitely feels like someone who has seen us while at the club. We don't share emails or numbers with anyone. We've honestly not really had much luck here and only share numbers/snapchat etc with people we've chatted to for a while on here to make setting meets up easier. Again we don't even know who he is, could even be a woman or anything. They're hiding behind a blank profile so could be anyone and we wouldn't know. |
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By *rayBoo OP Couple 42 weeks ago
Birkenhead |
"Creepy as fuck, I'd personally reply being friendly and say yes I do, was you there that night, shame we missed you, what's your user name so I can add you......then report and block.
Mrs "
Haha this might be a good idea. It is super creepy though, it's made us very uncomfortable |
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"Creepy as fuck, I'd personally reply being friendly and say yes I do, was you there that night, shame we missed you, what's your user name so I can add you......then report and block.
Mrs "
Also make sure her profile is locked down, no public info, work, places visited often, family members listed etc.
Mrs |
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Given your location and a few details gathered I'm guessing the club and I can say they're very strict on both mobile phones and GDPR/name handling
It is a very strange set of circumstances though but I wouldn't let it put you off
Review those settings, put it behind you as much as you can 
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By *rayBoo OP Couple 42 weeks ago
Birkenhead |
"Creepy as fuck, I'd personally reply being friendly and say yes I do, was you there that night, shame we missed you, what's your user name so I can add you......then report and block.
Mrs
Also make sure her profile is locked down, no public info, work, places visited often, family members listed etc.
Mrs "
We'll do this, thanks for the info |
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"Unlikely I know but are any of your fab pictures on Facebook or have you shared phone numbers or emails with this man?
The only one that is is set to private. We'll probably just remove it to be safe now. But it doesn't feel like it's someone who's come from here, definitely feels like someone who has seen us while at the club. We don't share emails or numbers with anyone. We've honestly not really had much luck here and only share numbers/snapchat etc with people we've chatted to for a while on here to make setting meets up easier. Again we don't even know who he is, could even be a woman or anything. They're hiding behind a blank profile so could be anyone and we wouldn't know. "
I'd say despite your suspicions that it's someone you've given your number to and who's had access to your private pictures at some point.
Is your partner's Facebook synched to contacts. Don't forget meta run WhatsApp too. |
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By *rayBoo OP Couple 42 weeks ago
Birkenhead |
"Unlikely I know but are any of your fab pictures on Facebook or have you shared phone numbers or emails with this man?
The only one that is is set to private. We'll probably just remove it to be safe now. But it doesn't feel like it's someone who's come from here, definitely feels like someone who has seen us while at the club. We don't share emails or numbers with anyone. We've honestly not really had much luck here and only share numbers/snapchat etc with people we've chatted to for a while on here to make setting meets up easier. Again we don't even know who he is, could even be a woman or anything. They're hiding behind a blank profile so could be anyone and we wouldn't know.
I'd say despite your suspicions that it's someone you've given your number to and who's had access to your private pictures at some point.
Is your partner's Facebook synched to contacts. Don't forget meta run WhatsApp too. "
We've only given our number to 2 people I think, and snapchat to 1. We haven't ever had many friends on here and definitely no men as it's not what we're looking for. Although it could be anyone. It's just very coincidental that this has happened after we had been to the club and the fact they mention Fab, we just felt super paranoid so came here to vent about the whole situation.
No we don't sync our Facebook to contacts as we both dislike that feature anyway. We do have WhatsApp though as use it for work |
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By *rayBoo OP Couple 42 weeks ago
Birkenhead |
Yes we liked how strict their practices are so we're doubtful it's anything to do with staff but it's far too coincidental (to us at least) that it's happened after visiting.
We'll tighten up and try to put it behind us. Thank you for the afvixe |
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We try and keep ourselves to ourselves & our fab life is a secret to everyone who knows us apart from the Mrs best friend and of course the people we have met.
Sad that this has happened so soon you harden up to creeps as you go along.
Try and enjoy the fun of the lifestyle & boo is always going to be a good conversation on new meets
Play together & stay safe x |
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We also don't have any full face pics on here that are public"
You might not have any full face pics but I think the half of the male pic you have here is quite identifiable and your profile says the female has facial piercings. Anyone who already knows you as a couple, seeing you on here, could then find her on Facebook. I think being at the club is a coincidence. |
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By *ojo2joWoman 42 weeks ago
Penclawdd |
"Unlikely I know but are any of your fab pictures on Facebook or have you shared phone numbers or emails with this man?
The only one that is is set to private. We'll probably just remove it to be safe now. But it doesn't feel like it's someone who's come from here, definitely feels like someone who has seen us while at the club. We don't share emails or numbers with anyone. We've honestly not really had much luck here and only share numbers/snapchat etc with people we've chatted to for a while on here to make setting meets up easier. Again we don't even know who he is, could even be a woman or anything. They're hiding behind a blank profile so could be anyone and we wouldn't know.
I'd say despite your suspicions that it's someone you've given your number to and who's had access to your private pictures at some point.
Is your partner's Facebook synched to contacts. Don't forget meta run WhatsApp too.
We've only given our number to 2 people I think, and snapchat to 1. We haven't ever had many friends on here and definitely no men as it's not what we're looking for. Although it could be anyone. It's just very coincidental that this has happened after we had been to the club and the fact they mention Fab, we just felt super paranoid so came here to vent about the whole situation.
No we don't sync our Facebook to contacts as we both dislike that feature anyway. We do have WhatsApp though as use it for work "
My contacts/ FB/ WhatsApp are not synced but I’ve 100% had ‘suggested friends’ on FB who I’ve WhatsApped on more than one occasion. |
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Had similar happen to us a while ago.
We’d been having fun on cam in one of the chat rooms one night. Finished up and lying in bed, Mrs went on Facebook and had a request from a husband of one of her friends from years ago.
Generic message, how’s things etc then went a bit odd saying I wish my wife was as open about things as you.
At this point we had single males turned off from messaging. Turned it on and we were able to view everyone who had viewed us. Scrolled through and found the guys profile on here and blocked him.
Few days later another generic message to Mrs so I sent him one (not threatening, just a warning) blocked him on everything and we’ve been a bit more careful on here |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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This is very unsettling and completely disrespectful to your privacy. I hate social media platforms for this very reason, so sorry to hear that you have both been made to feel very uncomfortable and somewhat vulnerable now. I’d be complaining to the club as they should be a no phones policy including staff for that matter. For some people this lifestyle could be detrimental to someone’s work / career and if some creepy good for nothing lowlife has found your FB account and gathered information they could use that against you. Sorry to have had to say that but so many people have lost their way with respect these days. It gives single men a very bad reputation on here now. I hope you get this resolved x |
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I feel sorry for the club getting the blame as there is no proof club staff are responsible for this. We know which club they are referring to and I think it is unfair to post unfounded allegations like this. |
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Think you need to revamp your. Profile (or even make a new one)
You give far too much information about yourselves and you are recognisable from a couple of your pictures.
If you don’t want people to recognise you (some are not bothered ) you need to a little vague about your location and interests.
Many people put their life story on FB (crazy) making it easy for people who are looking (stalkers) to put 2 and 2 together. |
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"Went to our local Swingers club for the first time to sign up at an open evening at the end of January. Went again to our first event (purely social) a couple of days ago. As we were getting our things out of the lockers, Boo realised she had a friend request on her Facebook from someone and they had gone back and liked a pic of her from around 10 years ago.
We just thought it was a weird typical Facebook creeper at first. Very generic sounding name and no profile pic or info. Boo denied the friend request and then she got another later on that evening. She left it as an invite and left it at that.
Yesterday she mentioned that they had cancelled the request again. Probably hoping she'd see it. Then late last night she got a message from this guy asking if she had a fab account. She looked back and she actually had a couple of messages from him. The first was from a couple of days after we had been to the club then she had gotten another on the night we were there this week saying 'greedy girl' and an eyes emoji.
It's really freaked her out as she doesn't feel safe and she was super insecure about going to clubs in the first place but had built up the confidence to finally go only for this asshole to ruin it. The fact that Fab was mentioned too makes her feel like she can't trust this site now too.
I've tried messaging the profile myself asking who they are and why are they messaging her but to no avail. I can't stand people like this and the uneasy feeling it has given Boo has made my blood boil.
Has anyone else come across this kind of thing? "
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It may well have been someone in the club who recognised you from real life, but you don't necessarily know? I had a similar experience when someone who delivered to my workplace, mentioned seeing me at a club many miles from where I lived at the time. They knew my name but I'd not have remembered what they looked like. If you have an unusual surname (as I do) you'd be easy to find on FB x |
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By *rayBoo OP Couple 42 weeks ago
Birkenhead |
Hi all thanks for the responses. We'll try to work through the in one post here:
- Possibly something to do with WhatsApp but as we've said only given both of our numbers to one person, and just Grays to another so doesn't seem likely.
- Yes it seems that some people are wired like that unfortunately. We're trying to not let it bother us anymore. Blocked communication for our safety.
- It's very strange behaviour indeed. I sent him a message warning him and asking him to not to contact either of us ever again. We'll see if that works.
- Yes most likely something to do with location unfortunately, we've noticed this ourselves in the past
- We did book a cab both times, will look to see if it's the same driver
- Exactly it's very invasive behaviour, this is our problem with it. We honestly don't think the club or Fab is at fault here, it's just a case of some creep thinking it's okay to invade other's privacy and make comments like that when they have no idea who we are or what we're even looking for. Those are all valid worries, we'll be double checking all of our privacy options. It's not so much about people recognising us, it's about being able to trust other to treat what we're doing with discretion.
- We also want to reinforce that we don't think it's the club. This is also why we never mentioned the name even though it may be obvious. We just felt very on edge yesterday and you're can't help but think of several possibilities. All of the staff are lovely and we did think security did a great job of trying to protect people's personal data and saw them moving someone away from the bar who was on the phone (a newbie who was waiting for his taxi and wandered back towards the bar)
- We don't feel like we've really given any information about ourselves other than interests, what we're looking for and put a few non-face pics up. Again, it's not about being recognised, it's the invasion of privacy and someone hiding behind a blank profile. They could litterally be anybody and we wouldn't know. It's made Boo feel very unsafe. We also very rarely post on social media and both use to watch stupid funny videos and keep in touch with friends and family. No one in our lives knows about this side of our lives or that we were going to the club
- It could be that someone saw us and recognised us but we don't know them. But God, whatever happened to people just talking to eachother like normal people. That is very worrying behaviour and I would feel sorry for any partner of that person
All in all we're looking through the advice and making adjustments we feel necessary |
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Hey! Hoping this won't bring you back to the headspace you were in 6 weeks ago but we're currently going through our version of this (seems to be part of the onboarding experience of Fab) - as a couple that are 6 weeks ahead of us, any chance you've rationalised this further and got any advice on how to get past the sense of danger that comes with it? One of us finds some comfort in the lack of control that is in the situation and the other one (definitely not me) is freaaaaking out.
We assume the obvious answer is these pests are online creeps and not an actual threat and giving that we all get our turn and we're all still here, give it time and it'll be alright. |
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By *rayBoo OP Couple 36 weeks ago
Birkenhead |
"Hey! Hoping this won't bring you back to the headspace you were in 6 weeks ago but we're currently going through our version of this (seems to be part of the onboarding experience of Fab) - as a couple that are 6 weeks ahead of us, any chance you've rationalised this further and got any advice on how to get past the sense of danger that comes with it? One of us finds some comfort in the lack of control that is in the situation and the other one (definitely not me) is freaaaaking out.
We assume the obvious answer is these pests are online creeps and not an actual threat and giving that we all get our turn and we're all still here, give it time and it'll be alright. "
Hey! So we never really got to the bottom of this. We went to another event last week and the same person messaged me (Gray) this time. I'd left messaged unblocked from this person hoping they would message back and I could get to the bottom of it. They messaged us while we were at the event just like previous times. Upon getting ready to leave the club I noticed the message and alerted the staff at the desk. They are looking into the matter every seriously.
I actually messaged them back saying their behaviour is creep and unwarranted and is putting Boo off the lifestyle, they said it was lighthearted fun and I said it's not, that they could be absolutely anyone and we have no idea who they are and it's terrifying. I said that if they wanted to get to know us they should have come up to us at the club or found us on here and sent a message instead of hiding behind a blank profile. I also said that they must have seen us out and tried messaging Boo on social media and now she's blocked them so their messaging me instead which is out of order. They just said well they looked on here too so admitted they were there by not denying it basically. I've since reported all correspondence with this person to the club and they're investigating and taking it seriously. I've also now blocked this person too. It's kind of put Boo off from going back as we had only just dipped out toes in and between her already being anxious about this, this person on top of it all has kinda ruined the experience.
I really hope you manage to get to the bottom of it. I kind of get the 'naughty, don't really know who it is' as a kink thing but it's actually very scary. |
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Hope you're both thriving despite this.
We'd blocked our creeps first profile just by chance as they're cishet male, they had catfished us (we think), and yesterday the deleted/remade their account and sent us a message from the blank profile naming where one of us works saying they were looking forward to seeing us at the club event we went to last night which was a fucking masquerade party so it would've been really difficult for us to even know who they were in person. We told them not to contact us, threatened to involve the police, and then blocked them.
We notified the hosts and they were 100% on our side and said they'd keep an eye out for names on IDs (on the off chance the person is using their actually first name on their account) but they told us if they approached us or if anyone gave us the creeps, no questions asked, let them know, they'll boot them.
Sort of not fun to have creeps creep but it was actually a little reassuring to have club owners absolutely back us and offer to shield us in any situation. |
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By *rayBoo OP Couple 36 weeks ago
Birkenhead |
"Hope you're both thriving despite this.
We'd blocked our creeps first profile just by chance as they're cishet male, they had catfished us (we think), and yesterday the deleted/remade their account and sent us a message from the blank profile naming where one of us works saying they were looking forward to seeing us at the club event we went to last night which was a fucking masquerade party so it would've been really difficult for us to even know who they were in person. We told them not to contact us, threatened to involve the police, and then blocked them.
We notified the hosts and they were 100% on our side and said they'd keep an eye out for names on IDs (on the off chance the person is using their actually first name on their account) but they told us if they approached us or if anyone gave us the creeps, no questions asked, let them know, they'll boot them.
Sort of not fun to have creeps creep but it was actually a little reassuring to have club owners absolutely back us and offer to shield us in any situation. "
We're doing well and love that the club has given us the support and on the lookout for this person, we're glad that your local club has done the same for you too.
Exactly, we're not looking to meet single men, so if they did find our profile and try to message us they would find messages blocked, so they've tried to contact us on Facebook instead. They absolutely do not know us or our dynamic, but they would if they had actually spoken to us at the club instead of being a creep. It's scary because it litterally could be anyone, we're now wary of any people we have seen there before because we don't know who it is. It does make us feel like not going back but then it feels like they've succeeded in making us uncomfortable. At least they don't know where either of us work or live, that would be absolutely terrifying. Good luck getting rid of that idiot. |
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By *ullyMan 36 weeks ago
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I have no answers but, but has anyone tried googling their own name?
Because sometimes and it's not rare you will find you pop up as on FB, or LinkedIn, or some other site you may be on.
Also shockingly if you copy and paste someone's photo from here or the sister site that too can pop up as on site.
Also an old site that you perhaps "were" on that have long gone, sadly the information could have been hacked. This is what is happening to me right now, I suddenly started get 40/50 /calls a day from people trying to sell me "investment opportunities" or bit coin . Long story short , I spent a very very long day and night, and finally found out all of my details are on the dark web, as many years ago I was on a dating site that went down and their files were hacked. |
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Could it be someone who lives near the club and they’ve seen you coming and going and know you well enough to find you on Facebook? If you’re going to a local club that increases the chances of people who know you being there or seeing you nearby. We go to clubs miles from where we live for that very reason.
C x |
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"Definitely goes off WiFi and possibly location aswell. The club doesn't have customer WiFi as all phones should be locked away upon arrival.
Not all give their phones up. Little "manbags" are used for all not only for "toys". We used to go often to loads of clubs and got some times strange messages. At the beginning my partner "freaked" but she then just dismissed all and enjoyed the atmosphere in clubs. Except one club were a fellow serving jury member walked in, result a quick retreat and long drive home.
Just a very frustrating and unsettling experience "
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