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By (user no longer on site) OP 34 weeks ago
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Hi does anyone have any tips on messaging women on here.
This is a typical sort of message I would send
Hey how are you
Hope you don’t mind the out of the blue message
Just thought I’d see if you maybe would like to chat sometime when your free
I’m Noel by the way
Too much ??
Too less ??? |
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Bear in mind that women get hundreds of messages a day.
There's nothing in your message personalised to the profile you've just read.
Why do you like their profile?
Why should someone speak to you instead of the thousands of other men on here? |
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By *izzy.Woman 34 weeks ago
Stoke area |
The majority of people have a look at someone's profile, before deciding whether to reply to a message. So is your profile as good as it could be. Check your headline makes sense, add some photos and make it interesting.
As someone else has already said, mention their profile and explain why you are interested in the person you are contacting.....rather than just a message that you could have sent to 50 ladies |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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From our point of view.
You have no profile picture, you can't put a face pic for work and that's fine, but you can put another kind of picture. The lack of a pic would likely have your message deleted by us.
Also women/couples on here get dozens of messages a day so it is pot luck.
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"Hi does anyone have any tips on messaging women on here.
This is a typical sort of message I would send
Hey how are you
Hope you don’t mind the out of the blue message
Just thought I’d see if you maybe would like to chat sometime when your free
I’m Noel by the way
Too much ??
Too less ???"
The suggestion of "chatting" puts the onus on the recipient of the message to....well....chat. To me it's lazy - Xeno |
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By *ony MannMan 34 weeks ago
New York City New York USA |
In the past I chatted in the chat rooms and somehow that turned into an exchange of messages by mail.
What do I say now. I say something different. that gets me noticed. Don't me afraid of saying something they may not like. The lady will discover anything you hide.
If you have verifications display them, why would you hide them? I body or face pic is good, cock pics is a put off.
That is my advice for what it is worth. |
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No offense but your message as said by others comes across as generic and a bit dull.
Add a picture to your profile for a start- not a cock shot please.
Asking how people are is very cliche and dull way to start.
Be a bit more assertive, add a bit pf humor, dont make it too long or be beggy. |
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"I’m not looking for me I’m looking for women "
I was responding to the poster above, whose post I quoted in my reply  pointing out that his advice might not help a man who is looking to meet women on fab. |
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By *orny-DJMan 34 weeks ago
Leigh-on-Sea |
"The majority of people have a look at someone's profile, before deciding whether to reply to a message. So is your profile as good as it could be. Check your headline makes sense, add some photos and make it interesting.
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Exactly this. And most won't even bother going that far if you haven't even got a profile picture up |
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