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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe the attitude that comes across in that post comes across with potential meets and puts them off?
Out of interest, just how do you define "a disgrace"? |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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better they say not for us than nothing
depends on how you approach others in your message
I am not a fan of overly explicit pussy pics, others are
hope your luck improves, all the best |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have had 6 meets this year so far"
 maybe that all your veris are from different people? Some couples are looking for more than a one night only event. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have had 6 meets this year so far"
Exactly. How many do you expect to get? Were you looking for the swinging equivalent of Corrie? Three or four times a week???
Bit concerned at your use of the word 'disgrace' tbh...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im going to word this carefully.
Ive had a little peek at the pics. Imagine a porn ladys foo foo area. Now look at the pics of your your good ladys foo foo area. There are differences...and those differences may be off putting. |
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"Im going to word this carefully.
Ive had a little peek at the pics. Imagine a porn ladys foo foo area. Now look at the pics of your your good ladys foo foo area. There are differences...and those differences may be off putting. "
nicely put - i was struggling with how to phrase it - but of course it doesn't put everyone off so i probably would leave them on Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im going to word this carefully.
Ive had a little peek at the pics. Imagine a porn ladys foo foo area. Now look at the pics of your your good ladys foo foo area. There are differences...and those differences may be off putting.
nicely put - i was struggling with how to phrase it - but of course it doesn't put everyone off so i probably would leave them on Z"
Not as bad as the profile pics with the lady suffering from a wicked case of botty grapes ..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im going to word this carefully.
Ive had a little peek at the pics. Imagine a porn ladys foo foo area. Now look at the pics of your your good ladys foo foo area. There are differences...and those differences may be off putting.
nicely put - i was struggling with how to phrase it - but of course it doesn't put everyone off so i probably would leave them on Z
Not as bad as the profile pics with the lady suffering from a wicked case of botty grapes ..... "
Omg that's really made me laugh!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you are kidding? botty grapes... (quickly checks her own pics closely)"
Yep... A roman emperor could feast off them, then have to pay the peeler compo for repetitive strain injury..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you messaged us i would be put of, due to all the close up nudey pictures. That is obviously just my opinion and im sure people out there like that as you have had meets.
Concentrate on the meets you have had and be positive rather then focus on those who dont want to meet you. There are plenty of couples and singles on this site who are dying to have meets and yet to have one.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you are kidding? botty grapes... (quickly checks her own pics closely)
Yep... A roman emperor could feast off them, then have to pay the peeler compo for repetitive strain injury....."
Just wasted a good glass of scotch as IO spat it out reading that!!!!!!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't like your profile photos and don't care much for your attitude either, so if that's how you come across to others as well as us then perhaps there is your answer ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you are kidding? botty grapes... (quickly checks her own pics closely)
Yep... A roman emperor could feast off them, then have to pay the peeler compo for repetitive strain injury.....
Just wasted a good glass of scotch as IO spat it out reading that!!!!!!!!!!! "
Not a single malt I hope? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you are kidding? botty grapes... (quickly checks her own pics closely) all clear xxx no nipsy knot in _iew xxxx"
I had the mirror and my head inbetween my legs checking too!
I wont be posting a foofoo pic at the moment, as i had an ingrown hair which has caused a little tiny wee spot. I got the bugger out though tonight in the bath. Was like a contortionist but got it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't like your profile photos and don't care much for your attitude either, so if that's how you come across to others as well as us then perhaps there is your answer ??"
I was gonna put that... But I decided to go down the spiteful route instead |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you are kidding? botty grapes... (quickly checks her own pics closely)
Yep... A roman emperor could feast off them, then have to pay the peeler compo for repetitive strain injury.....
Just wasted a good glass of scotch as IO spat it out reading that!!!!!!!!!!!
Not a single malt I hope?"
16yr old Lagavullin actually. Bugger. lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you are kidding? botty grapes... (quickly checks her own pics closely) all clear xxx no nipsy knot in _iew xxxx
I had the mirror and my head inbetween my legs checking too!
I wont be posting a foofoo pic at the moment, as i had an ingrown hair which has caused a little tiny wee spot. I got the bugger out though tonight in the bath. Was like a contortionist but got it! "
Good girl..... It's amazing the amount of hairy bum 'oles ya see on here euuugh |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"you are kidding? botty grapes... (quickly checks her own pics closely)
Yep... A roman emperor could feast off them, then have to pay the peeler compo for repetitive strain injury.....
Just wasted a good glass of scotch as IO spat it out reading that!!!!!!!!!!!
Not a single malt I hope?
16yr old Lagavullin actually. Bugger. lol "
Sir for that I'm sorry.... Never ment to hurt a single malt |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you are kidding? botty grapes... (quickly checks her own pics closely) all clear xxx no nipsy knot in _iew xxxx
I had the mirror and my head inbetween my legs checking too!
I wont be posting a foofoo pic at the moment, as i had an ingrown hair which has caused a little tiny wee spot. I got the bugger out though tonight in the bath. Was like a contortionist but got it!
Good girl..... It's amazing the amount of hairy bum 'oles ya see on here euuugh"
And that's a second mouthful of Lagavullin wasted!!!! Grrrr!!! PMSL! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you are kidding? botty grapes... (quickly checks her own pics closely)
Yep... A roman emperor could feast off them, then have to pay the peeler compo for repetitive strain injury.....
Just wasted a good glass of scotch as IO spat it out reading that!!!!!!!!!!!
Not a single malt I hope?
16yr old Lagavullin actually. Bugger. lol
Sir for that I'm sorry.... Never ment to hurt a single malt"
You are forgiven young Padowan... Specially if ya send round another bottle.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you are kidding? botty grapes... (quickly checks her own pics closely) all clear xxx no nipsy knot in _iew xxxx
I had the mirror and my head inbetween my legs checking too!
I wont be posting a foofoo pic at the moment, as i had an ingrown hair which has caused a little tiny wee spot. I got the bugger out though tonight in the bath. Was like a contortionist but got it!
Good girl..... It's amazing the amount of hairy bum 'oles ya see on here euuugh
And that's a second mouthful of Lagavullin wasted!!!! Grrrr!!! PMSL! "
Ffs ..... That's about £9 a tot? That's 18 quid in loose change I owe u.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im going to word this carefully.
Ive had a little peek at the pics. Imagine a porn ladys foo foo area. Now look at the pics of your your good ladys foo foo area. There are differences...and those differences may be off putting. "
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"Im going to word this carefully.
Ive had a little peek at the pics. Imagine a porn ladys foo foo area. Now look at the pics of your your good ladys foo foo area. There are differences...and those differences may be off putting.
No one likes a spotty clunge"
But obviously there are those that do like a spotty clunge! Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To put it as nicely as I can, you profile picture is really not to my taste so I'd never even look at your profile (unless prompted like right now).
Also you said you delete all messages off people who do not send a face pic straight away. I wouldn't send a face pic with the first message, and you don't have clear face pics on your profile so why should I send you one? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We r sick to death of people saying not for us I mean I/we see us as an average looking couple far from the disgraces that r out there can someone tell us why we get no meets ???? 
Thinking that you're better than "the disgraces out there" wont help you!
And im hoping you mean "crack" as in a laugh on your profile."
Isn't that craic? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you are kidding? botty grapes... (quickly checks her own pics closely) all clear xxx no nipsy knot in _iew xxxx
I had the mirror and my head inbetween my legs checking too!
I wont be posting a foofoo pic at the moment, as i had an ingrown hair which has caused a little tiny wee spot. I got the bugger out though tonight in the bath. Was like a contortionist but got it!
Good girl..... It's amazing the amount of hairy bum 'oles ya see on here euuugh
And that's a second mouthful of Lagavullin wasted!!!! Grrrr!!! PMSL!
Ffs ..... That's about £9 a tot? That's 18 quid in loose change I owe u.... "
In a bar, yes. At home... lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We r sick to death of people saying not for us I mean I/we see us as an average looking couple far from the disgraces that r out there can someone tell us why we get no meets ????
Thinking that you're better than "the disgraces out there" wont help you!
And im hoping you mean "crack" as in a laugh on your profile.
Isn't that craic?"
Well i was hoping it was a spelling mistake  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here's me without a meet or veris and this couple are moaning when they have the meets and veris, sorry but that's a joke."
ah but you only been on 7 weeks - give yourself time. Quality not quantity! |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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FFS I actually find this laughable, how many meets do you expect to have to make you feel successful?
Myself, as a single female has only had 1 meet this year so far and that is with a regular friend of mine (yes I am fussy!), and no offence I think my pics are more tantalising, sometimes more is better  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"FFS I actually find this laughable, how many meets do you expect to have to make you feel successful?
Myself, as a single female has only had 1 meet this year so far and that is with a regular friend of mine (yes I am fussy!), and no offence I think my pics are more tantalising, sometimes more is better "
Completley of topic but i love your body suit it is soooo pretty and looks great in your pictures.
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Here are some of the the reasons I'm not interested: Profile text not very well thought out. Lots of spelling mistakes and no public pics. I really hope you don't want crack before any action because that's a bit hard core...and you are too short. Apart from that no problems as far as I'm concerned. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"FFS I actually find this laughable, how many meets do you expect to have to make you feel successful?
Myself, as a single female has only had 1 meet this year so far and that is with a regular friend of mine (yes I am fussy!), and no offence I think my pics are more tantalising, sometimes more is better
Completley of topic but i love your body suit it is soooo pretty and looks great in your pictures.
MissD "
Thank You Miss D! I thought so as well, and I can actually tell you where it is from for once lol, it is from LoveHoney and a recent purchase x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A not for me/us i would say is a honest reply.
Far better than sorry youre dogs etc or mmm yes cannot wait to meet,string you along and let you down reply.
We cannot all fancy everyone.
Quicker folk accept that the better......onwards we go.!!! |
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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago
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I'm sorry, do you expect everyone that you contact to jump at the chance of meeting you?
Can you not accept that some people might not find you attractive? No one is bound to do anything on this site. If they want to say no then that is their prerogative. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"pics are there if you click right hand side - says gallery 12
How's the ingrown hair xx"
covered in savlon - i smell sexay - for anyone with a doctors room fetish |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"..well your profile has some " not for us" criteria so each to their own i say and get over it!!"
Precisely. I'm not for them based on their text. Maybe I should start a thread about it....
*sniff* |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"We r sick to death of people saying not for us I mean I/we see us as an average looking couple far from the disgraces that r out there can someone tell us why we get no meets ???? "
no offence.... when i see a post like this... i always go and look at the profile to see if anything glaring sticks out... and then i saw this beaut:
"We arent into TV/TS or blacks sorry just not for us"
see any irony in there anywhere....
absolutely fine to have preferences since you have some of your own... but i thought you would have been understanding of others having their own preferences as well.... and as other have said, its not like you haven't had any meets at all.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We r sick to death of people saying not for us I mean I/we see us as an average looking couple far from the disgraces that r out there can someone tell us why we get no meets ????
no offence.... when i see a post like this... i always go and look at the profile to see if anything glaring sticks out... and then i saw this beaut:
"We arent into TV/TS or blacks sorry just not for us"
see any irony in there anywhere....
absolutely fine to have preferences since you have some of your own... but i thought you would have been understanding of others having their own preferences as well.... and as other have said, its not like you haven't had any meets at all...."
FFS Fabio, you are forgetting the first rule of preferences - preferences are fine when they are your own and everyone should abide with them without question but clearly they are totally wrong and unjust when they exclude you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We r sick to death of people saying not for us I mean I/we see us as an average looking couple far from the disgraces that r out there can someone tell us why we get no meets ????
no offence.... when i see a post like this... i always go and look at the profile to see if anything glaring sticks out... and then i saw this beaut:
"We arent into TV/TS or blacks sorry just not for us"
see any irony in there anywhere....
absolutely fine to have preferences since you have some of your own... but i thought you would have been understanding of others having their own preferences as well.... and as other have said, its not like you haven't had any meets at all....
FFS Fabio, you are forgetting the first rule of preferences - preferences are fine when they are your own and everyone should abide with them without question but clearly they are totally wrong and unjust when they exclude you!"
Well said. Besides, we both fail to see the 'irony'. Please explain Fab x |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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FFS Fabio, you are forgetting the first rule of preferences - preferences are fine when they are your own and everyone should abide with them without question but clearly they are totally wrong and unjust when they exclude you!"
Whooooooooooooooooooosh!!!
That went right over someones head |
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By (user no longer on site)
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FFS Fabio, you are forgetting the first rule of preferences - preferences are fine when they are your own and everyone should abide with them without question but clearly they are totally wrong and unjust when they exclude you!
Whooooooooooooooooooosh!!!
That went right over someones head "
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By (user no longer on site)
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FFS Fabio, you are forgetting the first rule of preferences - preferences are fine when they are your own and everyone should abide with them without question but clearly they are totally wrong and unjust when they exclude you!
Whooooooooooooooooooosh!!!
That went right over someones head "
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"no offence.... when i see a post like this... i always go and look at the profile to see if anything glaring sticks out... and then i saw this beaut:
"We arent into TV/TS or blacks sorry just not for us"
see any irony in there anywhere....
absolutely fine to have preferences since you have some of your own... but i thought you would have been understanding of others having their own preferences as well.... and as other have said, its not like you haven't had any meets at all...."
Game. Set. Match. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"no offence.... when i see a post like this... i always go and look at the profile to see if anything glaring sticks out... and then i saw this beaut:
"We arent into TV/TS or blacks sorry just not for us"
see any irony in there anywhere....
absolutely fine to have preferences since you have some of your own... but i thought you would have been understanding of others having their own preferences as well.... and as other have said, its not like you haven't had any meets at all....
Game. Set. Match. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your pics are a bit naff.. IMHO !!
OH I dunno... Comparing a penis to a plasma screen is a new one for me. Tres innovative. And the footie was on.
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I meant the quality, Oops! My bad.. No offence OP just make them a little more adventurous too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your pics are a bit naff.. IMHO !!
OH I dunno... Comparing a penis to a plasma screen is a new one for me. Tres innovative. And the footie was on.
I meant the quality, Oops! My bad.. No offence OP just make them a little more adventurous too"
Woohoo.
Compare your cock to the new Mercedes E Class for instance.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't like your profile photos and don't care much for your attitude either, so if that's how you come across to others as well as us then perhaps there is your answer ??"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey OP where thou art you lol.
You should be here defending yourselves, I personally think that you should rewrite your profile take some different pic's of the lady. But you must be doing something right because 6 meets so far this year is better than most of us do.
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i don't really think that people should take pics off just because some people don't like them - they're supposed to be a true representation of the person in the profile - same with profile wording etc - you liek what you see and read - go for it - you don't - you leave alone! Z |
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"i don't really think that people should take pics off just because some people don't like them - they're supposed to be a true representation of the person in the profile - same with profile wording etc - you liek what you see and read - go for it - you don't - you leave alone! Z"
Exactly.. not really the idea to change your profile to what people want to see more than what you really are. people are gonna be pretty upset to turn up and find not what they thought and i would imagine it would be even more devastating to have a meet turn up and then say no thanks and leave than it would be to get a message from an honest profile that says not for us thanks. I know which i would prefer out of the two.
But saying what gets meets rather than the truth seems to be the way alot decide to go. Removing the pics doesnt change things it just stops people who might be put off from walking away with least pain to everyone.
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"Im going to word this carefully.
Ive had a little peek at the pics. Imagine a porn ladys foo foo area. Now look at the pics of your your good ladys foo foo area. There are differences...and those differences may be off putting. "
Took the words right out of my mouth! |
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"We r sick to death of people saying not for us I mean I/we see us as an average looking couple far from the disgraces that r out there can someone tell us why we get no meets ???? "
In addition to all the other comments, reading the profile, does it seem a little hypocritical to expect to cum on the face and in the mouth of a playmate when your other half isn't prepared to have the same done to her?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We r sick to death of people saying not for us I mean I/we see us as an average looking couple far from the disgraces that r out there can someone tell us why we get no meets ????
In addition to all the other comments, reading the profile, does it seem a little hypocritical to expect to cum on the face and in the mouth of a playmate when your other half isn't prepared to have the same done to her?
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That would put us off. We have very few rules but we play on a like for like basis and expect equality. |
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would never ever think about saying "some of the disgraces out there" remember you might read the replys in this post and all will not be to your liking some may even hurt you , so imo a not for us is much better than someone explaining exactley why they dont want to meet, and imo dont like the way you worded no TV/TS or blacks the latter part sounds as though they are alien others have felling to remember,anyway good luck in the future |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have had 6 meets this year so far"
thats not a big amount of meets.we can do that in a weekend or two weeks.you said that it like its huge its march now?poppyxx  |
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Just goes to show you can't please all the people all the time! People complain at not getting responses to their messages not even a no thanks! The op is moaning receiving such messages! 
Op you have preferences, why do you begrudge others theirs?!! If it's because it excludes you, you REALLY need to get over yourselves: BIG time! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People on this forum are like a bloody pack of hyenas.
Laughing all the time ?
I used to lovw Big Cat Diaries"
Hyenas are related to dogs and bears and are not a big cat. Just saying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Everyone has some preferences and an honest response is the best.we are not for everyone either.we all get told not for us at some point on here.poppyxc |
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