Why ask for help when you've never bothered to act on any advice given previously?
Of course no-one is beholden to take advice, but to continually ask the same question over and over just screams "look at me" |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
|
You're one man in a quite a few thousand. An estimate, but the ratio of men to women across practically all apps and sites are a minimum of 10:1, more I'd say.
This is absolutely normal and you're better off just putting feelers out, send the odd message, ignoring this, getting on with your life and not expecting much.
Lack of a response counts as a no here, due to having to sort out a huge amount of messages every day and not having enough time to do it.
If you hope and pray too much, you'll end up disappointed. It's a harsh reality, but it is reality nonetheless. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I’m not getting any messages "
As you appear to have been told multiple times before I would suggest going back to one of the many threads you’ve posted before on this and taking some of the advice.
You have a decent range of pics but your bio is crap. You need to actually write about what you are looking for and, more importantly, what you can offer potential partners. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
If you’re sending messages which aren’t being replied to, which are like your many forum posts (ie brief and entitled-sounding) - I’m not surprised.
If you’re waiting for people to message you on the ‘strength’ of your profile text - I’m also not surprised.
Added to this would be the problem of anyone checking your forum history and the fact you’ve not really taken any of the kindly-offered advice to date, to which point, I don’t really know why I’m bothering typing this…. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Why should people message you, OP? What have you got to offer that others can't? And are you making it clear on your profile what you can offer rather than just using generic "I'm looking to meet women/couples" or similar, or worse still have a list of your demands without anything else?
Most of the time, the profile is the reason why the person doesn't get any messages. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Unlucky.
99% of all the single male profiles on this site state they're "Looking to explore and try new things".
Sure you have a decent selection of different pictures but your profile message is crap. It gives absolutely no clue as to what you're actually looking for, or wanting, from this site bar obviously wanting sex.
Flesh your profile text out a bit more, give potential partners something to go off.
With the huge ratio of single men on here people aren't going to waste their time messaging you to find out what it is you're after when there's a queue of other single males behind you. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
