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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi guys personally we think that if you have a couple profile on here you should have pics of both halfs and not just the female, theres so many couples who only show the female in the pics, we like to know what they both look like as we wont meet a couple just on the basis of having an attractive wife, maybe some couples who have this could explain the reasons for it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me Mr doesn't have an active role in play so it isn't that important. I do send pics to those I'm interested in though!
also I can't have pics of him cause he will make me look bad  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi kitten i can see why you dont do it which is perfectly understandable its the couples wanting to meet couples with only the fem on show, even if u had 1s in private of ur fella why not have them on your profile, baffles us lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi kitten i can see why you dont do it which is perfectly understandable its the couples wanting to meet couples with only the fem on show, even if u had 1s in private of ur fella why not have them on your profile, baffles us lol x"
i agree.. btw i love ur batman/girl pic  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In an ideal world there'd be pics on every profile - singles and couples - of all parties! Body shots - clothed and naked, face pics and if wanted - play pics!
Sadly the world's not ideal. Some won't post pics full stop. Others are not body confident. Others will highlight their best assets and hide those they think will deter others from contact. Some will be happy to post faces - others want to maintain more discretion.
Some couples use the 'he/she is the good looking half' argument thinking that pics of the more attractive partner will provide better results than a combination of what they percieve as 'the hottie' - and the one people may view as 'taking one for the team' !!
It would be great if all couples posted pics of both so people (singles and couples) could see them before making initial contact. But it's true this is often not the case. Those that do show both are giving people more detail about themselves and enabling there's to make a more informed choice. They may well get better quality messages and quicker interest from those that like what they see. Those that only show one half leave themselves open to disappointment at a later stage if the initial message flow ceases once its apparent that there isn't attraction to both. And cannot complain at such an occurrence and accuse people of backtracking or time wasting as they are themselves largely responsible.
It's true personality is key as well as physical attraction - but in the 'two dimensional' world of Internet sites, those that are clear and open will generally have more success and less disappointment than those that aren't!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We never had any pics of the mr on our profile except for a full clothes pic we sent in private as he never liked having his picture taking. He said he felt like a twat posing for pictures. Only recently managed to convince him to put some on. Now he gets excited when he gets a fab. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We never had any pics of the mr on our profile except for a full clothes pic we sent in private as he never liked having his picture taking. He said he felt like a twat posing for pictures. Only recently managed to convince him to put some on. Now he gets excited when he gets a fab. Lol"
See that's a perfect example! A change in viewpoint and now he enjoys it!
And having had a quick perve - sorry - peek - a good example of clear, easy to 'evaluate' pics. Variety, well taken, a touch of humour - and without showing faces giving others a clear idea of body types!
Big thumbs up guys!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We never had any pics of the mr on our profile except for a full clothes pic we sent in private as he never liked having his picture taking. He said he felt like a twat posing for pictures. Only recently managed to convince him to put some on. Now he gets excited when he gets a fab. Lol
See that's a perfect example! A change in viewpoint and now he enjoys it!
And having had a quick perve - sorry - peek - a good example of clear, easy to 'evaluate' pics. Variety, well taken, a touch of humour - and without showing faces giving others a clear idea of body types!
Big thumbs up guys!! "
Thank you very much |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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instead of concentrating on the profiles you dont like,why not concentrate on the ones you do.
or better still,why not offer to rewrite the profiles you dont like |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"instead of concentrating on the profiles you dont like,why not concentrate on the ones you do.
or better still,why not offer to rewrite the profiles you dont like"
By asking a question of why some people do this doesn't mean they aren't concentrating on the profiles they like  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"instead of concentrating on the profiles you dont like,why not concentrate on the ones you do.
or better still,why not offer to rewrite the profiles you dont like
By asking a question of why some people do this doesn't mean they aren't concentrating on the profiles they like "
no it doesnt,but why should someone be concerned about another persons profile,if the profile isnt to their liking,that person may not be to their liking either,so perhaps best not to dwell on it and move on to one more favourable |
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We don't have a lot of pics of both of us in public profile but we have both in friends only pics for interested party.s only. I got spotted on here some how and before i knew it people were spreading rumours all around the job i was on. Denial is great but when people think they know some think you become very weary on who you actually allow on your friend list in case its some 1 else from work  |
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Yeah I have to say I have got a lot of me on our profile just as he is nearly always behind the camera. Also some one he works with us on here so decide ones he in to make friends only. If we do meet though people always get to see all the goodies beforehand xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"instead of concentrating on the profiles you dont like,why not concentrate on the ones you do.
or better still,why not offer to rewrite the profiles you dont like
By asking a question of why some people do this doesn't mean they aren't concentrating on the profiles they like
no it doesnt,but why should someone be concerned about another persons profile,if the profile isnt to their liking,that person may not be to their liking either,so perhaps best not to dwell on it and move on to one more favourable"
I'm confused!
The OP was stating a preference and personal opinion - with no rant or moan or evidence that it concerns them in any way or that it was something they dwell on. They were asking the opinions of others who choose a different approach - and have had a variety of reasons as to why!
It's a forum. Opinions and questions are what it's all about! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us it's simply a case of hubby is the one normally taking the pics ( it tends to be a male thing lol) so he doesn't tend to be in them, however there are pics of him in our private folder |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"instead of concentrating on the profiles you dont like,why not concentrate on the ones you do.
or better still,why not offer to rewrite the profiles you dont like
By asking a question of why some people do this doesn't mean they aren't concentrating on the profiles they like
no it doesnt,but why should someone be concerned about another persons profile,if the profile isnt to their liking,that person may not be to their liking either,so perhaps best not to dwell on it and move on to one more favourable
I'm confused!
The OP was stating a preference and personal opinion - with no rant or moan or evidence that it concerns them in any way or that it was something they dwell on. They were asking the opinions of others who choose a different approach - and have had a variety of reasons as to why!
It's a forum. Opinions and questions are what it's all about! "
Exactly right! We wernt moaning or comlaining i was asking a simple question as to why alot of couples have fem only pics, we dont dwell on a profile if they have fem only pics and why would i want to rewrite some1 elses profile? Why dont you read the OP again before you get on your high horse saying we are doing this and that, was a simple question to which we have had simple answers thats all we asked go find another post to pick at |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"instead of concentrating on the profiles you dont like,why not concentrate on the ones you do.
or better still,why not offer to rewrite the profiles you dont like
By asking a question of why some people do this doesn't mean they aren't concentrating on the profiles they like
no it doesnt,but why should someone be concerned about another persons profile,if the profile isnt to their liking,that person may not be to their liking either,so perhaps best not to dwell on it and move on to one more favourable"
and if that is your veiw on things why would you write a post that has no relative infomation to the original question that was asked? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"instead of concentrating on the profiles you dont like,why not concentrate on the ones you do.
or better still,why not offer to rewrite the profiles you dont like
By asking a question of why some people do this doesn't mean they aren't concentrating on the profiles they like
no it doesnt,but why should someone be concerned about another persons profile,if the profile isnt to their liking,that person may not be to their liking either,so perhaps best not to dwell on it and move on to one more favourable and if that is your veiw on things why would you write a post that has no relative infomation to the original question that was asked? "
Because they like to concentrate on the posts that they have nothing to add to. Maybe they would like to rewrite all the posts for us  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have both on our couples profile but we have them all set to friends only for personal reasons involving previous bad experiences so its an attempt to avoid unpleasantness we do always send pics of both of us tho wen messaging |
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As men tend to be more visual, you'll probably find them behind the camera more often than not, it's certainly the case with us. I'm always saying "hold on, i want a picture of that" and a fair few of them end up on here. We do have some of me on our profile, public and private, but she just gets snapped way more than i do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow. We can see the headlines now.
"Forum in everyone has personal preference and does things the way they want. No right or wrong answer exists" shocker.
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"Wow. We can see the headlines now.
"Forum in everyone has personal preference and does things the way they want. No right or wrong answer exists" shocker.
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is this true? bloody hell, i was just about to take a shedload of photos and saturate our profile with ted picks  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wow. We can see the headlines now.
"Forum in everyone has personal preference and does things the way they want. No right or wrong answer exists" shocker.
is this true? bloody hell, i was just about to take a shedload of photos and saturate our profile with ted picks "
You clearly dont grasp the concept pf the question... |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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You get couples saying they can never get a meet with the single bi fems and dont see why.
I wonder if they ever think that the single lady may want to see visual pics of both people when she views the profile if face pics not attached to first message. She may wish to see that what he looks like is just as important as what he looks like. If you want to catch the fish you want you need to dangle the correct bait.
Thats what often puts me off.
I get messages saying he is so many feet tall with grey eyes and short hair...as if I will have a meet without seeing his pictures.
Alot of people have their face pics in private as I do. When I was a couple recently we had visible pics of both of us. Afterall I know how to hold a camera too.
Fruit x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You get couples saying they can never get a meet with the single bi fems and dont see why.
I wonder if they ever think that the single lady may want to see visual pics of both people when she views the profile if face pics not attached to first message. She may wish to see that what he looks like is just as important as what he looks like. If you want to catch the fish you want you need to dangle the correct bait.
Thats what often puts me off.
I get messages saying he is so many feet tall with grey eyes and short hair...as if I will have a meet without seeing his pictures.
Alot of people have their face pics in private as I do. When I was a couple recently we had visible pics of both of us. Afterall I know how to hold a camera too.
Fruit x"
Now thats quite a good point, we dont just mean for public veiw theres so many without any in private also but is is nice too see both parties that are advertised |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have to agree, as the fem nothing I hate more than lots of lovely pics of wife, but none of him! How am I supposed to see if there's an attraction? Ok no face pics, but at least some of him, and not just the cock! We have both, and in private face pics and body pics. For us physical attraction, and personality count. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have to agree, as the fem nothing I hate more than lots of lovely pics of wife, but none of him! How am I supposed to see if there's an attraction? Ok no face pics, but at least some of him, and not just the cock! We have both, and in private face pics and body pics. For us physical attraction, and personality count. "
Totally agree, alot of people complain about single guys with cock pics on profiles yet theres so many couples with pics of the fem and a cock pic thats basically the same and it goes for single girls too who have say 1 pic of a close up of their tits, they all have every right to have that and we arnt moaning about them as we agree its up to yourself what you have on your profile we are just curious as to why and weve had some good answers |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The reason we don't have any public ones of Mr are solely because he does not want any of him visible for people to be nosy at. We always send pics of him to people who we feel may be genuine in their approach to meet us.
I'm an exhibitionist. I like pictures of me showing. We do not take action pictures.
We get responses from those we are interested in and we exchange pics then. We do ok with our profile the way it is and have no plans to change it. |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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I dont think anyone is suggesting anyone change how people use their profile.
I like to think if a couple is intetested in me they want to see pics of me on my profile.
Same goes for a couple. If your a couple and you swing together but only advertise one of you really it feels to me that he isnt important and I need to be intetested about both parties. X |
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"Hi guys personally we think that if you have a couple profile on here you should have pics of both halfs and not just the female, theres so many couples who only show the female in the pics, we like to know what they both look like as we wont meet a couple just on the basis of having an attractive wife, maybe some couples who have this could explain the reasons for it? "
Because we only meet single men,we do not meet other couples and mr is straight so guys will only be playing with mrs with mr joining in with mrs.
No male on male mind you.
Any guy we plan to meet will get sent a pic of mr before we meet. as far as we are concerned we dont need to have a pic of both on here we have meet in person veris as a couple. and to be honest there is enough bi men contacting us and gay ones without his pic on here.
If a couple on here are looking to meet couples and all play with others then fair enough yes they probably should have pic of both. but we dont and wont. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi guys personally we think that if you have a couple profile on here you should have pics of both halfs and not just the female, theres so many couples who only show the female in the pics, we like to know what they both look like as we wont meet a couple just on the basis of having an attractive wife, maybe some couples who have this could explain the reasons for it?
Because we only meet single men,we do not meet other couples and mr is straight so guys will only be playing with mrs with mr joining in with mrs.
No male on male mind you.
Any guy we plan to meet will get sent a pic of mr before we meet. as far as we are concerned we dont need to have a pic of both on here we have meet in person veris as a couple. and to be honest there is enough bi men contacting us and gay ones without his pic on here.
If a couple on here are looking to meet couples and all play with others then fair enough yes they probably should have pic of both. but we dont and wont."
Perfectly logical argument!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I take all the pictures of Lorraine, normally of the cuff, when we are sat in the pub for example, I will get an upskirt shot. We have pictures of both of us, as and when required. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had this conversation with my partner (on our couple's profile) about this, saying we need more of him. They're mainly me, with one of us having sex so his body is shown. I wouldn't want to meet someone without knowing what they look like.and surely it's easier to view a profile and rule someone out, then to ask for a pic, then rule them out. Not face pics tho as that's different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Third times a charm lol
We have pics of both, although more of Sarah, partly because she is crap with a camera!
That being said we don't meet anyone until we have seen pis of both, no pics no meet.
As for the OP's original question, choice we suppose, but we are sure there are other couples like us, that don't meet until everyone knows what the others look like.
In general when we browse the site together, we are more inclined to ignore winks from couples that only have femme pics up, we are a COUPLE looking for other COUPLES and Sarah likes to see what's on offer x |
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