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By *bi HaiveMan 42 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Why do straight profiles message bi profile
Then the bs I'm curious
I want to
What would I have to do
Why not just message other straight people "
Because as they've said, they're curious.
Some people aren't yet comfortable having it on their profile and have to start somewhere. Of course some use it as a means of getting access to a woman, but that's very easily tested at the time. |
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"Why do straight profiles message bi profile
Then the bs I'm curious
I want to
What would I have to do
Why not just message other straight people
Because as they've said, they're curious.
Some people aren't yet comfortable having it on their profile and have to start somewhere. Of course some use it as a means of getting access to a woman, but that's very easily tested at the time. "
We get that
But bi curious
Tends to be all for female
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By *bi HaiveMan 42 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Why do straight profiles message bi profile
Then the bs I'm curious
I want to
What would I have to do
Why not just message other straight people
Because as they've said, they're curious.
Some people aren't yet comfortable having it on their profile and have to start somewhere. Of course some use it as a means of getting access to a woman, but that's very easily tested at the time.
We get that
But bi curious
Tends to be all for female
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Not always. I had straight on my profile the first time I met a bi couple.
Look at the verifications of many bi couples and you'll find plenty of encounters with straight men.
Doesn't mean what went on in private was always 100% straight....... |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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They usually say to us "I'm bi but have to put straight on my profile" then give a reason, usually either because people they know are on here or because they claim women wont respond to bi profiles |
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"Why do straight profiles message bi profile
Then the bs I'm curious
I want to
What would I have to do
Why not just message other straight people
Because as they've said, they're curious.
Some people aren't yet comfortable having it on their profile and have to start somewhere. Of course some use it as a means of getting access to a woman, but that's very easily tested at the time.
We get that
But bi curious
Tends to be all for female
Not always. I had straight on my profile the first time I met a bi couple.
Look at the verifications of many bi couples and you'll find plenty of encounters with straight men.
Doesn't mean what went on in private was always 100% straight......."
Yes we understand
But it's the men who are absolutely not interested in males
But they still want to meet
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"They usually say to us "I'm bi but have to put straight on my profile" then give a reason, usually either because people they know are on here or because they claim women wont respond to bi profiles"
Thats another one
We have had numerous conversations with straight couples
And couple with straight men
Said we do not meet straight men
Or straight away into a swap
But they want to meet but are adamant that bi isn't for them |
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"Just chancing their luck as so many single guys do. As they so often say "if you don't ask then you don't get""
Totally
But surely just message a straight couple
Why do straight couple want to meet bi couples when they want different things x |
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I guess there is the question of does every encounter have to be bi?
I (Mrs) am bi.... but in an FMF or MFMF I don't have to play with the woman.
So perhaps they're just looking for a straight swap?
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By *rs BxxWoman 42 weeks ago
Chippenham, Wiltshire. |
"Just chancing their luck as so many single guys do. As they so often say "if you don't ask then you don't get"
Totally
But surely just message a straight couple
Why do straight couple want to meet bi couples when they want different things x"
They messages numerous profiles regardless just hoping to get lucky, probably never even reading your profile. I have on my profile Tuesday afternoons only but that doesn't stop messages other days and other times... "Just chancing my luck" unfortunately it will never change, just delete and move on. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 42 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"They usually say to us "I'm bi but have to put straight on my profile" then give a reason, usually either because people they know are on here or because they claim women wont respond to bi profiles
Thats another one
We have had numerous conversations with straight couples
And couple with straight men
Said we do not meet straight men
Or straight away into a swap
But they want to meet but are adamant that bi isn't for them "
Maybe, just maybe, they saw your profile, liked what they saw, then read your verifications and saw that you have met single, straight men before. So got in touch.
Just a thought......... |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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Im down as straight on my profile purely for the reason that when I had it listed as bi, was completely overwhelmed with messages from guys (bi, MM couples etc). From that, I can only imagine what it's like on here for the females being overwhelmed with messages!
To me, as a single guy that enjoys threesomes with couples, there is an element of bi involvement, and I do stress in any messages what my limits are  |
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"Why do straight profiles message bi profile
Then the bs I'm curious
I want to
What would I have to do
Why not just message other straight people "
If you read through the forum topics of newbie of bisexuality you’ll find that most guys would love to explore it with understanding couple and seems they are taking you for one. But clearly by this kind of topic on here you aren’t. Just put disclaimer you are looking for experienced bi guys. |
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"Why do straight profiles message bi profile
Then the bs I'm curious
I want to
What would I have to do
Why not just message other straight people
If you read through the forum topics of newbie of bisexuality you’ll find that most guys would love to explore it with understanding couple and seems they are taking you for one. But clearly by this kind of topic on here you aren’t. Just put disclaimer you are looking for experienced bi guys."
That's utter bs
So a straight male message us
We say sorry we don't meet straight males
He says no worries
Then an hour later ok he can suck me
You ask is it t female preferably
Yes
Or straight males message
I want to come over and do xyz to Mrs
He can watch
We say no we don't do that
Ok what do I have to do then
Or straight couple want to meet bi couple
But don't like what we do
So it's nothing to do with what you said |
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By *rs BxxWoman 42 weeks ago
Chippenham, Wiltshire. |
I've got a couples profile and we are both straight, not fab straight we are straight, not even curious. We get the same guys messaging wanting to meet us for what ever is on offer, they'll offer to suck hubby if it gets a meet even though we are straight. They are just chancing their luck, just delete, block and move on. |
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"I've got a couples profile and we are both straight, not fab straight we are straight, not even curious. We get the same guys messaging wanting to meet us for what ever is on offer, they'll offer to suck hubby if it gets a meet even though we are straight. They are just chancing their luck, just delete, block and move on."
Perhaps it's difficult for males to understand
The annoying part was when they said they would like to try it
Sort meet then say actually we don't x |
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By *rs BxxWoman 42 weeks ago
Chippenham, Wiltshire. |
"I've got a couples profile and we are both straight, not fab straight we are straight, not even curious. We get the same guys messaging wanting to meet us for what ever is on offer, they'll offer to suck hubby if it gets a meet even though we are straight. They are just chancing their luck, just delete, block and move on.
Perhaps it's difficult for males to understand
The annoying part was when they said they would like to try it
Sort meet then say actually we don't x"
Some guys will do and say anything to get a meet. Yes bloody annoying but that's single guys and Fab for you. |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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As said before, maybe they saw you've got straight male veris and took the chance. You must have changed your filter or messaged straight male first though? |
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By *ickD80Man 41 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
According to your profile you’re a bi couple who are looking to meet MF couples and Females (not males!), according to your bio you won’t meet straight males but you have 2 verifications from meeting straight males and in one of your posts you have stated that you meet straight men who claim to want to try bi for the first time. Don’t you think you’re sending out mixed messages? It’s a bit hypocritical for a couple who say in their bio that they don’t meet straight men but have verifications from straight men to complain about straight men contacting them and that straight men aren’t clear about what they are looking for. It seems to me that you’re the ones who are unclear about what you’re looking for. |
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"According to your profile you’re a bi couple who are looking to meet MF couples and Females (not males!), according to your bio you won’t meet straight males but you have 2 verifications from meeting straight males and in one of your posts you have stated that you meet straight men who claim to want to try bi for the first time. Don’t you think you’re sending out mixed messages? It’s a bit hypocritical for a couple who say in their bio that they don’t meet straight men but have verifications from straight men to complain about straight men contacting them and that straight men aren’t clear about what they are looking for. It seems to me that you’re the ones who are unclear about what you’re looking for. "
Ok so Mr know it all
Those men messaged and straight away said they were bi
Thanks for taking the time to go through our profile
I have said if a male says I'm straight,no internet in male
We will be polite and say that doesn't work for us.
Then they say fine what would I have to do
Why would you do something you do not like
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By *ickD80Man 41 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
"According to your profile you’re a bi couple who are looking to meet MF couples and Females (not males!), according to your bio you won’t meet straight males but you have 2 verifications from meeting straight males and in one of your posts you have stated that you meet straight men who claim to want to try bi for the first time. Don’t you think you’re sending out mixed messages? It’s a bit hypocritical for a couple who say in their bio that they don’t meet straight men but have verifications from straight men to complain about straight men contacting them and that straight men aren’t clear about what they are looking for. It seems to me that you’re the ones who are unclear about what you’re looking for.
Ok so Mr know it all
Those men messaged and straight away said they were bi
Thanks for taking the time to go through our profile
I have said if a male says I'm straight,no internet in male
We will be polite and say that doesn't work for us.
Then they say fine what would I have to do
Why would you do something you do not like
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So are you saying they’re lying when they say they have no interest in men because they go on to ask you what they have to do with the man? |
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"According to your profile you’re a bi couple who are looking to meet MF couples and Females (not males!), according to your bio you won’t meet straight males but you have 2 verifications from meeting straight males and in one of your posts you have stated that you meet straight men who claim to want to try bi for the first time. Don’t you think you’re sending out mixed messages? It’s a bit hypocritical for a couple who say in their bio that they don’t meet straight men but have verifications from straight men to complain about straight men contacting them and that straight men aren’t clear about what they are looking for. It seems to me that you’re the ones who are unclear about what you’re looking for.
Ok so Mr know it all
Those men messaged and straight away said they were bi
Thanks for taking the time to go through our profile
I have said if a male says I'm straight,no internet in male
We will be polite and say that doesn't work for us.
Then they say fine what would I have to do
Why would you do something you do not like
So are you saying they’re lying when they say they have no interest in men because they go on to ask you what they have to do with the man?"
Do not speak to me
I have no internet in your vile opinion of us
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By *ickD80Man 41 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
"According to your profile you’re a bi couple who are looking to meet MF couples and Females (not males!), according to your bio you won’t meet straight males but you have 2 verifications from meeting straight males and in one of your posts you have stated that you meet straight men who claim to want to try bi for the first time. Don’t you think you’re sending out mixed messages? It’s a bit hypocritical for a couple who say in their bio that they don’t meet straight men but have verifications from straight men to complain about straight men contacting them and that straight men aren’t clear about what they are looking for. It seems to me that you’re the ones who are unclear about what you’re looking for.
Ok so Mr know it all
Those men messaged and straight away said they were bi
Thanks for taking the time to go through our profile
I have said if a male says I'm straight,no internet in male
We will be polite and say that doesn't work for us.
Then they say fine what would I have to do
Why would you do something you do not like
So are you saying they’re lying when they say they have no interest in men because they go on to ask you what they have to do with the man?
Do not speak to me
I have no internet in your vile opinion of us
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I asked you a question, I didn’t state an opinion. |
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