"This is in fact totally normal, but something you can overcome with enough persistence"
i just seem to clam up there’s been numerous nights where i’ve not spoke to anyone due to being nervous then i’ve p*saed myself off then |
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"Have you tried any of the social meet ups in your area? They are a good way to get used to talking to swingers without the pressure"
yes had a decent night at one social but a terrible might at a different one x |
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Talking comfortably to strangers can be a learned skill.
Try going to a pub in town and beginning conversations with strangers.
It doesn’t have to be weird.
Most people want to talk about themselves and their lives if you let them so make some general comments and than ask some non intrusive questions.
You’ll soon feel comfortable and it can be an eye opener just how much people are willing to share. |
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