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By *arby n Ken OP Couple 43 weeks ago
Milton Keynes & Murcia, Spain |
Hi
We were wondering what examples couples use as a secret code to indicate discretely to each other that they are interested in another swinging couple, whilst in their company… perhaps at a swingers club?
Be interested to read how you do it?
Thanks in advance |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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"Hi
We were wondering what examples couples use as a secret code to indicate discretely to each other that they are interested in another swinging couple, whilst in their company… perhaps at a swingers club?
Be interested to read how you do it?
Thanks in advance"
No secret codes needed at a swingers club, just ask, all pretty much there for the same thing.
We went to Hotwife Club at Libs and they did have coloured wrist bands at the bar.
Different colours signified you were looking for different things but can’t remember what any of them were and also don’t remember seeing anyone actually wearing them.
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By *lan157Man 42 weeks ago
a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex |
A former playmate partner had a code arranged with me if she was not feeling in with any couple we talked to . When she used the code word in conversation I knew it was time for us to move on to someone else . |
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By *rpeggioCouple 42 weeks ago
Baughurst |
"If we are interested we say "Did you remember to feed the dog?"
It is something completely normal to say in company so it doesn't get picked up on"
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If either of you asks the question then that signals interest from one of you, the one asking, but your other half has to respond something. Yes means green light? No means no play? That about right? |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"If we are interested we say "Did you remember to feed the dog?"
It is something completely normal to say in company so it doesn't get picked up on
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If either of you asks the question then that signals interest from one of you, the one asking, but your other half has to respond something. Yes means green light? No means no play? That about right?"
Thats correct  |
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We do a "can I have a word with my partner in private" thing like they do in Dragon's Den
Just kidding, we usually just know from each other's body language and to be sure we have different touches for yes, no and if it is "let's get the hell out" from either of us then there is no need to ask the question whoever first thought "hell no" just says something which means moving on. |
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By *aomilatteCouple 42 weeks ago
Visiting Blackpool |
"Hi
We were wondering what examples couples use as a secret code to indicate discretely to each other that they are interested in another swinging couple, whilst in their company… perhaps at a swingers club?
Be interested to read how you do it?
Thanks in advance"
We don't need a code to tell each other we're interested, we know each other so well and can tell by how the conversation is going. Maybe you could raise your eyebrows when you look at each other? |
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By *rpeggioCouple 42 weeks ago
Baughurst |
"If we are interested we say "Did you remember to feed the dog?"
It is something completely normal to say in company so it doesn't get picked up on
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If either of you asks the question then that signals interest from one of you, the one asking, but your other half has to respond something. Yes means green light? No means no play? That about right?
Thats correct "
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LOL, Have you ever had anyone going worried about your poor puppy starving and alone at home? |
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By *rpeggioCouple 42 weeks ago
Baughurst |
"I think more importantly to have code to let the other half know they don't want to play
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For us the default assumption is no play unless both of us confirm YES with each other. A look is unusually enough for that. Confirmation is important, we are very social so sometimes we are enjoying the chat with the other couple a lot but not necessarily are keen on playing with them.
Also for us no need of any code to say NO to play among us, or any need for discussion, because NO play, if one of us does not want to play, is not up for discussion, if you see what l mean. So any hint from either of us to move on with our night is enough to politely leave the couple. |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"If we are interested we say "Did you remember to feed the dog?"
It is something completely normal to say in company so it doesn't get picked up on
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If either of you asks the question then that signals interest from one of you, the one asking, but your other half has to respond something. Yes means green light? No means no play? That about right?
Thats correct
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LOL, Have you ever had anyone going worried about your poor puppy starving and alone at home? "
Not yet because the answer has always been yes so far  |
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By * and BCouple 42 weeks ago
Durham |
"Hi
We were wondering what examples couples use as a secret code to indicate discretely to each other that they are interested in another swinging couple, whilst in their company… perhaps at a swingers club?
Be interested to read how you do it?
Thanks in advance
We don't need a code to tell each other we're interested, we know each other so well and can tell by how the conversation is going. Maybe you could raise your eyebrows when you look at each other?"
That's exactly what we were just saying, we know each other so well we would know what one of us was thinking. Body language is all we need  |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"Hi
We were wondering what examples couples use as a secret code to indicate discretely to each other that they are interested in another swinging couple, whilst in their company… perhaps at a swingers club?
Be interested to read how you do it?
Thanks in advance"
No secret code for those we are interested in, however those that we are not, that’s a different story ha |
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By *aomilatteCouple 42 weeks ago
Visiting Blackpool |
"We have a 'no' code .... but not sharing it "
We'll happily share our "no" code, arm around around the shoulder and a rub of the others ear lobe, shortly followed by "We'll go and get a drink, we'll see you later"  |
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We tend to know from each others body language. If we're both engaged and open then we know we're both into the couple. If one of us has switched off a bit then we know it's time to bail. It's all unspoken and us usually resolved with a quick eye contact. |
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