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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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why do.people feel the need to send rude messages when u remove them from your friends list is beyond.
personally i would not meet someone without
seeing a face pic. which i never see after being promised. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why do.people feel the need to send rude messages when u remove them from your friends list is beyond.
personally i would not meet someone without
seeing a face pic. which i never see after being promised. "
Ive removed people from my friends just because we havent chatted for ages. Ive been lucky I guess in that they havent sent me rude messages but Ive sometimes been asked why. Pathetic reason I know but I like to chat. I need a face pic with my messages, which is probably why I dont get many now. Stick to your guns and dont worry about them, they are just ignorant  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Peoplevwho get arsey after being removed take the site and whole swinging scene way too serious.
I have had been removed in past never gave a second thought as we all are free to do what we wish. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Peoplevwho get arsey after being removed take the site and whole swinging scene way too serious.
I have had been removed in past never gave a second thought as we all are free to do what we wish."
to be honest i forgot about them until.they messaged this morning lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Peoplevwho get arsey after being removed take the site and whole swinging scene way too serious.
I have had been removed in past never gave a second thought as we all are free to do what we wish."
to be honest i forgot about them until.they messaged this morning lol |
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Im (mrs) quite active on keeping our friends list clear if people (sorry but mainly men  ) dont talk to us for a while.
Weve had a few arsey messages when weve removed them and theyve even gone as far as to ignore/block when they clearly arent intending to meet us just want a perv/cam fun. |
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if we have not spoken , usually since they have added us or we have added them as friends and some time passes by, the delete button comes into play . whether they are pic collectors or just ignorant but i suppose we could be to blame some times , but if some 1 deletes us we don't take offence we just carry on having fun  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im glad im not the only one. this guy in particular was moaning I never sent him a face pic either. when i clearly said I would send him one when I receive one off him. People just dont listen, and then went on to accuse me of not having a professional job because im on fab alot. What ever runs through peoples minds is beyond me. after his outburst I realised no matter what he looked like he wouldnt be the meet for me. |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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How many people state that they can only email you or text a picture? Too many I think x
The friends list is only so they can have a perv at your friend only pics. If they don't have any, I don't see the point. I just hotlist them instead x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im glad im not the only one. this guy in particular was moaning I never sent him a face pic either. when i clearly said I would send him one when I receive one off him. People just dont listen, and then went on to accuse me of not having a professional job because im on fab alot. What ever runs through peoples minds is beyond me. after his outburst I realised no matter what he looked like he wouldnt be the meet for me."
Can I just ask why he had to send pic first? Was it him that messaged you first in which case I would expect a face pic first or did you message him first meaning to me I would send face pic first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im glad im not the only one. this guy in particular was moaning I never sent him a face pic either. when i clearly said I would send him one when I receive one off him. People just dont listen, and then went on to accuse me of not having a professional job because im on fab alot. What ever runs through peoples minds is beyond me. after his outburst I realised no matter what he looked like he wouldnt be the meet for me.
Can I just ask why he had to send pic first? Was ithim that messaged you first in which case I would expect a face pic first or did you message him first meaning to me I would send face pic first. "
i don't agree with this etiquette .we always check people have face pics and where are they really from before we send face pics.this is because so many still don't have face pics in private to send or in friends and we have lots.i would never send pics with a first message cos of my job.we have to be care ful.poppyxx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP - with respect, you need to learn the tools the site has to offer in more detail. It could be that the way you are using those tools is leading to the reactions you are getting when you delete someone from your friends list (which I personally think is a completely wrong name for it).
As an earlier poster has said, there is no need to add anyone to friends just so you can see their face pics if they are in their private gallery - they can always attach to a message. That's what I do - you won't find any of my face pics in either my public or private galleries for good reason!
The other aspect is understanding that a Friends List on here is NOT like one on that well-known social networking site (Bookface or summat!!?? Lol). It needs a cit of thought 'how' you are going to use it and what 'you' want to get from putting someone on it. I am VERY choosy who goes on my friends list and, as a result, it is quite short. My block list has way more on it!!!!
Just a few observations, based on what you have said in your thread, which I hope give you food for thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP - with respect, you need to learn the tools the site has to offer in more detail. It could be that the way you are using those tools is leading to the reactions you are getting when you delete someone from your friends list (which I personally think is a completely wrong name for it).
As an earlier poster has said, there is no need to add anyone to friends just so you can see their face pics if they are in their private gallery - they can always attach to a message. That's what I do - you won't find any of my face pics in either my public or private galleries for good reason!
The other aspect is understanding that a Friends List on here is NOT like one on that well-known social networking site (Bookface or summat!!?? Lol). It needs a cit of thought 'how' you are going to use it and what 'you' want to get from putting someone on it. I am VERY choosy who goes on my friends list and, as a result, it is quite short. My block list has way more on it!!!!
Just a few observations, based on what you have said in your thread, which I hope give you food for thought."
That should, of course, say 'bit of thought'... derrrr! I am such a keyboard dickhead sometimes.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you remove someone from your list block them too. However.. blocking does not all together stop them from sending friend invites.."
we remove people if they don't reply to messages and just delete .which I think is quite rude.politeness costs nothing.we also block if we want our veri removed as these same people are quite happy to show your veri .people have told us they met peope on the strength of our veries about them and then realised what we did.you can still be nice to people and not swing with them again we have.some just like to perv at your pics and haveno intrest meeting again which is fine onlythey often don't put up pervy pics themselves.lol.so if someone moans at being removed we do take on board what they say but in general they stay removed and sometimes even blocked to prevent wasting time on them.this site is for fun after all .but you can be nice and have fun too.poppyxx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is a little annoying when people knock you off their friends list a minute or two after adding you, once they have checked out your private pictures. But this a swinging site and we're all here for fun, so i never take offence or get arsey about it. had it done to me a few times and i still talk to most if them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"derrrr! I am such a keyboard dickhead sometimes....
Not usually in my experience...
Wolf
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Yes, but I spotted it! Now where's my Opus Dei flaggelation tool....?????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many people state that they can only email you or text a picture? Too many I think x
The friends list is only so they can have a perv at your friend only pics. If they don't have any, I don't see the point. I just hotlist them instead x"
You perving again lol |
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"How many people state that they can only email you or text a picture? Too many I think x
The friends list is only so they can have a perv at your friend only pics. If they don't have any, I don't see the point. I just hotlist them instead x"
Email us a picture is a great one lately! Irritates the shit out of me but Mr C is a sucker for it. Of course were still waiting for all of these emails..  Mrs x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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sorry OP harshly putting this on what I hate:-
adding friends when u dont even know if theres an attraction......why?..
ppl giving kik/bbm etc- so they can receive dirty msgs knowing nothing about who's sending them....bizarre!?
adding ppl to facebook who are clearly only using fb as a sex extension to fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow!!! Do people really check who's removed them from a virtual friends list AND get upset by it?!! 
Honestly?!!
i miss ur spunky face pics xxxxxxxxx"
yes they do .usually cos they can can no longer perv at your pics you put up which is why some people ask to be friends or stay friends with you with no intention of meeting.cant be everyone's cup of tea can you.and one persons treasure is another
persons junk.poppyxx ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow!!! Do people really check who's removed them from a virtual friends list AND get upset by it?!!
Honestly?!!
i miss ur spunky face pics xxxxxxxxx"
yes they do .usually cos they can can no longer perv at your pics you put up which is why some people ask to be friends or stay friends with you with no intention of meeting.cant be everyone's cup of tea can you.and one persons treasure is another
persons junk.poppyxx ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many people state that they can only email you or text a picture? Too many I think x
The friends list is only so they can have a perv at your friend only pics. If they don't have any, I don't see the point. I just hotlist them instead x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many people state that they can only email you or text a picture? Too many I think x
The friends list is only so they can have a perv at your friend only pics. If they don't have any, I don't see the point. I just hotlist them instead x "
me too .here here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im glad im not the only one. this guy in particular was moaning I never sent him a face pic either. when i clearly said I would send him one when I receive one off him. People just dont listen, and then went on to accuse me of not having a professional job because im on fab alot. What ever runs through peoples minds is beyond me. after his outburst I realised no matter what he looked like he wouldnt be the meet for me.
Can I just ask why he had to send pic first? Was it him that messaged you first in which case I would expect a face pic first or did you message him first meaning to me I would send face pic first. "
I asked him if I could see a face pic he said he would sort one and week later no pic appeared so i deleted him |
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