Hello and welcome  .
I always think it's useful to imagine what would attract the type of person you're interested in. Your pictures could do with a little work, they're not very clear.
Your text is ok too but doesn't stand out. Have a look at a few profiles of men who do have verifications and *without* copying try to get a bit of an idea of what an appealing profile looks like.
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Hi, looking for profile advice, not had an an account on here before and new so you can be as constructive as possible please
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Try and be a bit more imaginative than a divk piv.  |
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Afternoon bud, the grim reality of this site is there's about 5k men to 1 woman.
The majority of couples want the single females aswell.
Even when you're in convo with a female, (bare in mind, she's getting about 200+ from other pursuers) the smallest thing like the wind changing direction or that its just a new day she'll blank you or just lose you in the sheer number of mails.
PS....there ain't nothing wrong with
your profile.
Good luck
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More pics would be a good start.
Loose the age bit it's already on your profile.
Maybe a bit more about what it is you are wanting to try as none vanilla could mean a lot of different things & would put me off.
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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You say you want to experiment more as previous partners have been vanilla.
Personally I don’t like hearing about what previous partners were like even sexually, for me that’s private to the relationship you had with them.
Maybe try and explain what this experimental is that you’d like to try |
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The advice above about looking at other guys profiles is the best advice.
Have a look at the guys who have verified the profiles your interested.
Good photos are important and a bio that has both enough information and reflects your personality is just as important.
Be confident and be bold. And ignore anyone who says your wasting your time. |
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Yes the volume of men far exceeds women, perhaps women get more messages than men, setting the available filters helps a lot. I see this a lot as a reason men feel they not replied to.
My experience is most men make no effort with reading a profile and contacting only if they match. Mail from unreasonable miles away, one word or line message and no face photo etc. In other words pay attention to who you message and the quality of that as well as the advice from others about the quality of your profile. |
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