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By *jlondon78 OP   Man 49 weeks ago

Suffolk

I am struggling.

Maybe it's because iam older but coming backe to fab aftet a lengthy time away the siyr seems to be less active or is this just me.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple 49 weeks ago

Cumbria

You’re more likely to use the site to its full potential if you post in the right forum.

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By *jlondon78 OP   Man 49 weeks ago

Suffolk

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By *jlondon78 OP   Man 49 weeks ago

Suffolk

It seems a lot harder to find genuine people and meets

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By *inger_SnapWoman 49 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Try posting in the appropriate forum

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By *jlondon78 OP   Man 49 weeks ago

Suffolk

Which forum would you suggest

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple 49 weeks ago

Weymouth

Maybe Swinging Support and Advice

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By *rpeggioCouple 49 weeks ago

Baughurst


"You’re more likely to use the site to its full potential if you post in the right forum."

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By *rpeggioCouple 49 weeks ago

Baughurst

Maybe Swingers chat?

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By *icecouple561Couple 49 weeks ago
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East Sussex

Moved for you op. Hopefully you'll get some helpful answers .

We've been here a long time and it seems to us that opportunities*for us* are fewer due to our age (that isn't a complaint just an acknowledgement of fact). Could it be possible that if you've been away a while things have changed for you rather than the site in general?

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By *entle_lover_xMan 49 weeks ago

Great Dunmow


"I am struggling.

Maybe it's because iam older but coming backe to fab aftet a lengthy time away the siyr seems to be less active or is this just me. "

Think it might be you that has changed - saying that looks like most of your veris are Jaydees so did you get private meets from here before? It obviously can get harder the older you get but you are still young and in your prime and lots of people in 40/50/60s having a great time. I know the advice coming soon from many will be clubs and socials. I think there is a regular one in Ipswich and perhaps back to Jaydees although I know a trek for you and more local fun is so much better if you can find it.

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By *oxy jWoman 49 weeks ago

taunton somerset

it gets harder for men as the years go on more and more men flood in and less n less women and couples swing online or at all ... the site is 95 % or more just men even half the women are menb and half the couples profiles are men so its alway only ever going to get harder for men...

its just a blunt fact the number one problem for guys is men

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By *ipstick KissesWoman 49 weeks ago

There and Here

If Fab has changed in 5 years, it's possible you have too, so maybe some up to date photos might be a good place to start

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By *entle_lover_xMan 49 weeks ago

Great Dunmow

And OP buckle in for bucket load of sarcasm coming your way I suspect

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

In all honesty during lockdown and covid as people had more time the site seemed busier then.

That said it’s as busy as you want it to be dependent on your version of busy

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By *cnugatugMan 49 weeks ago

Chatham

Not poking fun but perhaps getting the spelling right would help your post op

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By *ophieslutTV/TS 49 weeks ago

Central

If you're an active swinger, you can use Fab to supplement this lifestyle. The site gives back to single men commensurate with what they invest in swinging. Site Supporter gives more features and choice too.

Invest in swinging and Fab, getting our profiles so that they sell us to the max, is the best way I see for men here

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By *adCherriesCouple 49 weeks ago

Cheshire/Northwest


"I am struggling.

Maybe it's because iam older but coming backe to fab aftet a lengthy time away the siyr seems to be less active or is this just me. "

Looks like all your verifications are from club meets. So why not stick with a winning formula? You're only 45 so not exactly past it!

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By *jlondon78 OP   Man 49 weeks ago

Suffolk


"Moved for you op. Hopefully you'll get some helpful answers .

We've been here a long time and it seems to us that opportunities*for us* are fewer due to our age (that isn't a complaint just an acknowledgement of fact). Could it be possible that if you've been away a while things have changed for you rather than the site in general?"

The only thing that's really changed is I've got older then it seems a lot people couples women on this site restrict single men and just use venues rather than social as it used to be

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By *jlondon78 OP   Man 49 weeks ago

Suffolk

When I was only before I used to have regular private meets with couples and singles around the area it seems that now a lot of couples will view single men's profile but not allow you to message I don't know whether this has because a lot of people have been inappropriate and disrespectful to couples therefore they can't be bothered to be bombarded with dick pics and idiots just trying to use this site as a quick f***

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By *hMeOhMyOhCouple 49 weeks ago

Gloucestershire


"it gets harder for men as the years go on more and more men flood in and less n less women and couples swing online or at all ... the site is 95 % or more just men even half the women are menb and half the couples profiles are men so its alway only ever going to get harder for men...

its just a blunt fact the number one problem for guys is men

"

Has there ever been any stats produced on the male/female/couples split on the site? (Recognising this would only show what was claimed…)

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago


"When I was only before I used to have regular private meets with couples and singles around the area it seems that now a lot of couples will view single men's profile but not allow you to message I don't know whether this has because a lot of people have been inappropriate and disrespectful to couples therefore they can't be bothered to be bombarded with dick pics and idiots just trying to use this site as a quick f***"

Maybe contact the people you met before to get yourself going again?

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By *mooth shaftMan 49 weeks ago

Edinburgh

You're wearing a mask! Not good. No body pic's or sick pics. Not selling yourself mate

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By *jlondon78 OP   Man 49 weeks ago

Suffolk


"You're wearing a mask! Not good. No body pic's or sick pics. Not selling yourself mate"

Thank you ill change it

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By *lik and PaulCouple 49 weeks ago

cahoots


"it gets harder for men as the years go on more and more men flood in and less n less women and couples swing online or at all ... the site is 95 % or more just men even half the women are menb and half the couples profiles are men so its alway only ever going to get harder for men...

its just a blunt fact the number one problem for guys is men

Has there ever been any stats produced on the male/female/couples split on the site? (Recognising this would only show what was claimed…)"

I check periodically, usually with threads like this by checking the who's near feature but it's usually very similar numbers. Currently the ratio is 10 men to 1 woman and 3 couples.

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