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By *an and wifey OP Couple over a year ago

n lincs

We have had some great meets and been to the odd party but recently i have been struggling with erections. Not got a clue why because the heads in the game but its like i have some 1 else's appendage in my pants. I don't usually have problems with the misses and feel Im letting her down at meets as well as my self. And good advice out there guys as i feel a little embarrassed oh ok a lot embarrassed

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

Firstly well done for posting.

Maybe speak to your doctor, always best to get checked.

The pressure to perform all the time is immense, relax it happens to a lot more than you think.

Condoms can cause an issue if not used to them, try wan king in them, or the wider ones.

Good luck

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

Wanking*

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

Sometimes just being excited causes pressure which affects performance. It happens, it will affect you more than your playmates.

I know it's easier said than done but relax, use your fingers, tongue, concentrate on the lady and you'll soon be yourself.

I hope all goes well.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Don't worry about it. Use your other body parts such as fingers and tongue.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

my hubby struggles to have full sex with a fem,if i,or her hubby r in the same room.so we play soft swing till its time to "finish off".its a bloody nusance,but we have learnt to accept it,and concentrate on extra fun.

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By *an and wifey OP Couple over a year ago

n lincs

Cheers guys. Think i might get my self checked out to be on the safe side . If its just me then my tongue will be on overtime lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had loads of instances where this has happened to guys. I just take it as stage fright. I know my bf takes kamagra when we go out playing so doesn't happen to him.

Go to docs for sure he may prescribe u Viagra which may not be a bad idea.

Hope all is well for u

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By *ercedes62Woman over a year ago

Northampton

As others have said "well done" for posting.

Its far more common than a lot will admit to.

I have seen it on a 121 basis and when watching play inside a club.

The pressure on guys is immense and there are lots of other ways of giving pleasure to a women.

The problem is i guess once it happens the next time the pressure becomes worse.

Go to doc and see what he suggests to help if possible but dont go buying over the internet as if you take any other medications it can cause real problems.

Good luckx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a mixture of the pressure to perform and the coldness of the situation ie no spontanaity

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By *an and wifey OP Couple over a year ago

n lincs

thanks guys, much apreciated

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It may be the environment is just not right...we are finding that having a social night that leads to a sex session is far more natural and enjoyable.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't consider buying pills online......large percentage aren't what they say they are

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