We both are very much interested in attending a club and we have one in mind but although the rules are clear in the website I would love a real opinion on what to actually expect please
We're happy to go and enjoy the atmosphere and have agreed for it just to be us two if we feel it but what do we expect really though am so nervous x   |
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It depends on the club as to what to expect a little tbh.
Your location would suggest your closest larger clubs are Pandora in Leeds and Cupids, both good clubs although one you can stay dressed in the bar area and the other is immediate dress down.
Eitherway there will be people in the play areas doing their thing, but in either you can just chill, have a drink, chat to people in the bar and just soak up the atmosphere. When you are ready go mooch the playrooms and join in if you are the people playing are all are agreeable. Or make plans with someone you chat to in the bar area.
I host large parties at Pandora and Alchemy currently and have a Telegram chat for attendees in order to ease folks in and break the ice beforehand so that could be of interest maybe?  |
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We've been to lots of clubs, and never felt the slightest pressure to play. They generally have lots of rooms with people moving about so it's actually quite difficult to tell who's playing and who isn't unless you catch them in the act.
It's worth having some way of signalling to each other whether you're interested in a couple you're chatting with. |
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There's really no presume at any decent club. It's a great place to hang out, chat to like minded folk, dress a bit sexy and observe whats going on. You are under no pressure to dive in. A good club is a great night out without the swinging. Often people don't swing, you don't always find what your looking for. In fact Sometimes you get couples who don't actually swing with others, just get off on watching or being watched or simply looking for a place to have sex away from the kids. So it really is a place to go enjoy and do things your way.
So really just go with no expectations and enjoy. |
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Be sure both of you are clear with each other, concerning your limits, should something happen.
Never feel pressured to play, we only played with each other for our first three visits to clubs, softplay only for another few visits after that, before we where comfortable going further, even then has to be with the right people.
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