"We've been involved in far more orgies at house parties than at clubs."
Yes would tend to agree with that in general especially house parties with a selected group of people rather than the completely open ones. Often just one or two bedrooms and lots of people so have to get squashed up  Saying that some where not a lot happening (especially the open invite more social ones) and more likely to happen at a club in an "orgy room" or "couples room". |
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"We've been involved in far more orgies at house parties than at clubs.
Thanks. That what I was suspecting.
Looking to set one up in the future and just wondering the best way. "
Well you've got your profile hidden so can't really comment but generally hard as a single man to get a party going. Some manage it if they are making their place available and they know lots of people. Best advice if you haven't done to already is to get out to other parties, socials, etc and network and make friends. |
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PS I've arranged with my partner and always on the look out for anybody including single men within an hour or so who have the space but not the contacts and we can arrange something if potentially a good party venue. If anybody seeing this fits the bill then message me |
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By *ired_up OP Man
over a year ago
ashton |
"We've been involved in far more orgies at house parties than at clubs.
Thanks. That what I was suspecting.
Looking to set one up in the future and just wondering the best way.
Well you've got your profile hidden so can't really comment but generally hard as a single man to get a party going. Some manage it if they are making their place available and they know lots of people. Best advice if you haven't done to already is to get out to other parties, socials, etc and network and make friends. "
Yes, this is my single profile. Got a couples one ready to rock n roll. There are a few things on our list and doing some planning ahead so when the time comes we are ready to go.
Probably attend a house party thrown by someone else then maybe our own. But that's down the line for later this year. |
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By *impcuckMan
over a year ago
edge of taunton |
the problem with orgys and indeed gang bangs is many men think its a free for all and for alot its not
ive organised a few with my wife and its very much sexual attraction or its not happening now thats easy with gangbangs but orgys a little more complicated
ive watched mrs in a few orgys in clubs also seen quite a few guys get pissy when they are told no you cant join in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never seen an orgy at a club. In my experience orgies tend to be between a group of people that have built a social group and know each other and everyone is comfortable with who's involved.
Consent is key and it's not the free for all that some think.
I think single guys think they might stumble across an orgy and can just dive in. That's very unlikely to be the case. |
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"This time last year we’d participated in none. Now we have been involved in around 5 or 6.
Our advice is cultivate your friends and contacts and get them all in one place at the same time! "
Yep totally agree with this. And if your friends start to trust you to mix with good fun people then becomes easier and easier. People don't even ask who else is coming - they just assume it will be a fun crowd. |
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Our experience of parties is limited so I can't talk with much party experience but the conditions/vibe/atmosphere is definitely more conducive to this at a smaller party’s. However we go to a lot of clubs and it happens at clubs. Often in spaces aimed at larger group play and where people go looking for it. In clubs it tends to be more spontaneous with people you may not have talked to or even seen each other all night. These tend to kick of when you have just the right mix of people, a tension in the air and someone brave enough to make a spark. Love it when this happens and everything is just right, its awesome. But it's so rare for everything to line up perfectly with the right people, especially in a club. And unfortunately sometimes when not all people are right it can interrupt the flow/vibe or maybe kill it off.
Ironically our first and our most memorable was really early on when we were very new to clubs. A few couples and singles around us, everyone just chilling out nice and chatting. We started getting it on in and before we knew it we'd ended up kicking off an orgy and finding ourselves in the middle of it. We'd totally not expected this, but sometimes things just feel right and we had a great time. It seems the best club experiences are rare, unexpected but awesome when they happen. |
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By *p4fun60Couple 50 weeks ago
Hampshire |
Wtaf - why would you ask for advise then hide your profile 
Yes orgies do happen in clubs, normally ones that has a large bed or room specifically for this but still expect to have to ask or be invited to join in the fun |
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"Wtaf - why would you ask for advise then hide your profile
Yes orgies do happen in clubs, normally ones that has a large bed or room specifically for this but still expect to have to ask or be invited to join in the fun"
Probably cos he asked 3 weeks ago and circumstances can change? |
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