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By *udematt OP   Man  over a year ago

sleaford

I know their are lots of these kinda posts and I am sorry to put another one up!

But I would love to know peoples opinions on my profile (preferably Womens view). I am not complaining about lack of interest I just want to maximise my chances. So thank you in advance

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I know their are lots of these kinda posts and I am sorry to put another one up!

But I would love to know peoples opinions on my profile (preferably Womens view). I am not complaining about lack of interest I just want to maximise my chances. So thank you in advance "

Only thing I'd suggest is change the close up cock pic, but that's just my personal preferance.

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By *am123Man  over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"I know their are lots of these kinda posts and I am sorry to put another one up!

But I would love to know peoples opinions on my profile (preferably Womens view). I am not complaining about lack of interest I just want to maximise my chances. So thank you in advance "

total rethink/rewrite its not great, and u need more pics

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Why not just view guys profiles in stealth mode and see what others are doing that your not! That way you wouldn't need to ask for ppl to check you out!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Profile looks ok to me. Some more varied pics would certainly help.

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By *udematt OP   Man  over a year ago

sleaford

Thanks for the help I have made some changes hope they are an improvement

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The text of your profile sounds like it has been written by a young lad who would shag a damp loaf if the opportunity arose, so look at how you sell yourself.

The fact you can't accom will always put some people off despite your reasons being totally viable (I would lose the bit about your mates being prudes tho)

As others have said, the pics you have could be better. They are clear but do they show you in your best light ?

That's why it is always good to have extra pics so that people can make comparions.

The close up pic of your cock looks like the foreskin doesn't retract fully - that will be an issue to some people, not all, but some.

As for your body shot, now this is not meant to sound mean (because I happen to like your build and fur), but you are on the stocky / chunky side and you do have a lot of body hair.

Those two things are likely to put more people off than they attract (they're a fickle lot these swinging women ya know ), so no real need to change it but accept that no-one is attractive to everyone.

So be yourself but market yourself better in terms of how you describe what you like and what you seek and more importantly what you can give back.

Avoid spelling it out too crudely tho

Good Luck

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By *ttoriCouple  over a year ago

milton keynes

Hope my inbox message helped xx T xx

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By *udematt OP   Man  over a year ago

sleaford

Thank you that helps.

Yes I do realise that I am not every ones type I am working on becoming more toned, and their is no way I am shaving/waxing as you said to much hair lol.

T thank you your message was great x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Thank you that helps.

Yes I do realise that I am not every ones type I am working on becoming more toned, and their is no way I am shaving/waxing as you said to much hair lol "

Yeah, its ok for now but I would also suggest looking at other profiles where the guys are successful and u might pick up some tips. Photo not too bad but the hairy cock would put me off straight away. Eww.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The text of your profile sounds like it has been written by a young lad who would shag a damp loaf if the opportunity arose, so look at how you sell yourself.

The fact you can't accom will always put some people off despite your reasons being totally viable (I would lose the bit about your mates being prudes tho)

As others have said, the pics you have could be better. They are clear but do they show you in your best light ?

That's why it is always good to have extra pics so that people can make comparions.

The close up pic of your cock looks like the foreskin doesn't retract fully - that will be an issue to some people, not all, but some.

As for your body shot, now this is not meant to sound mean (because I happen to like your build and fur), but you are on the stocky / chunky side and you do have a lot of body hair.

Those two things are likely to put more people off than they attract (they're a fickle lot these swinging women ya know ), so no real need to change it but accept that no-one is attractive to everyone.

So be yourself but market yourself better in terms of how you describe what you like and what you seek and more importantly what you can give back.

Avoid spelling it out too crudely tho

Good Luck "

Like the bit about shagging damp loaf but if he did and parents caught him he would not be his mothers pride anymore

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Thank you that helps.

Yes I do realise that I am not every ones type I am working on becoming more toned, and their is no way I am shaving/waxing as you said to much hair lol.

T thank you your message was great x"

The body shot doesn't do you any favours as it's taken when you were sitting. Retake it standing and you will instantly look more 'toned'... Simples.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Thank you that helps.

Yes I do realise that I am not every ones type I am working on becoming more toned, and their is no way I am shaving/waxing as you said to much hair lol.

T thank you your message was great x

The body shot doesn't do you any favours as it's taken when you were sitting. Retake it standing and you will instantly look more 'toned'... Simples."

hey look at you lettin all the trade secrets outta the bag

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Thank you that helps.

Yes I do realise that I am not every ones type I am working on becoming more toned, and their is no way I am shaving/waxing as you said to much hair lol.

T thank you your message was great x

The body shot doesn't do you any favours as it's taken when you were sitting. Retake it standing and you will instantly look more 'toned'... Simples.

hey look at you lettin all the trade secrets outta the bag "

Yep, I'll be drummed out of the Fab Magic Circle next...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

like the previous people said...stand up taking the pic or just take the cock shot off all together and make it a bit more of a seductive pic... As for the body hair...hey, not all body hair turns people off but just do a bit of trimming down below....that IS an instant turn off. Good Luck!

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By *r and mrs naughty 69Couple  over a year ago

nottingham

personally i like a man that will be happy to meet socially first, to see if there is any chemistry there before thinking about meeting to play, single women need to know this for certain due to safety ect, maybe you should consider saying this if its how you feel??????

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By *udematt OP   Man  over a year ago

sleaford


"personally i like a man that will be happy to meet socially first, to see if there is any chemistry there before thinking about meeting to play, single women need to know this for certain due to safety ect, maybe you should consider saying this if its how you feel??????"

Cheers I will add that as it is, I want to have a good time and for me to have that I need to know the lady is as well.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You arent too hairy and thats coming from someone who isnt keen on body hair. Ive been with a larger guy than you but not gross large. do have some standards. Agree with shaving your cock though its nicer. Just one thing that would put me off is your profile name - maybe change it? just a suggestion. have fun anyway. you had one meet so im sure more will follow

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By *r and mrs naughty 69Couple  over a year ago

nottingham


"personally i like a man that will be happy to meet socially first, to see if there is any chemistry there before thinking about meeting to play, single women need to know this for certain due to safety ect, maybe you should consider saying this if its how you feel??????

Cheers I will add that as it is, I want to have a good time and for me to have that I need to know the lady is as well."

good luck and may we wish you all the best with your endeavours x

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By *udematt OP   Man  over a year ago

sleaford


"personally i like a man that will be happy to meet socially first, to see if there is any chemistry there before thinking about meeting to play, single women need to know this for certain due to safety ect, maybe you should consider saying this if its how you feel??????

Cheers I will add that as it is, I want to have a good time and for me to have that I need to know the lady is as well.

good luck and may we wish you all the best with your endeavours x "

Thanks I hope I do to xx

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