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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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hi Fabbers
long time users, years ago we had several ffms, now we have been trying for 3 years and no luck, whats happend to us , we try so hard and get no where haha |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
somerset |
it used to be so easy to find bi women on this scene as they years have gone by they have slowly disappered .... alot of bi women no longer want the man watching or invovled as it feels its all about him and of coruse this stupid unicorn tag for a bi woman ..
i no longer meet bi women via the scene i find it very false n fake |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"it used to be so easy to find bi women on this scene as they years have gone by they have slowly disappered .... alot of bi women no longer want the man watching or invovled as it feels its all about him and of coruse this stupid unicorn tag for a bi woman ..
i no longer meet bi women via the scene i find it very false n fake "
hmm for us it would be all about her, 2 people pleasuring her with all focus on her as my wife loves eating pussy as do i, she would
be getting best of both worlds in our minds but i can see how it may also seem like a trophy to some ladies |
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"it used to be so easy to find bi women on this scene as they years have gone by they have slowly disappered .... alot of bi women no longer want the man watching or invovled as it feels its all about him and of coruse this stupid unicorn tag for a bi woman ..
i no longer meet bi women via the scene i find it very false n fake "
Personally have only ever had group meets where the ladies have been the centre of attention, the chaps have been quite neglected! |
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You have stylish pics of Mrs but only two pics of Mr - both the standard for guys on FAB - a cock pic and the mirror selfie with phone still in hand.
Based on your pics your profile is going to attract guys more than girls.
K
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"You have stylish pics of Mrs but only two pics of Mr - both the standard for guys on FAB - a cock pic and the mirror selfie with phone still in hand.
Based on your pics your profile is going to attract guys more than girls.
K
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Your photos are the gold standard for a couple. Fair play. |
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I'd suggest a few photos of you as a couple in more casual, friendly "couple-y" poses.
Also perhaps something in your profile (and messages if you don't already) about the FFM being mutual three way fun. |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
3 years ago was December 2020 when a lot of the country was in lockdown and we weren’t allowed to spend Christmas with all our family. Seems like a strange time to start looking to meet up with people…. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"3 years ago was December 2020 when a lot of the country was in lockdown and we weren’t allowed to spend Christmas with all our family. Seems like a strange time to start looking to meet up with people…."
just a generalisation bud, we have been on and off since 2015/2016 but thanks for taking the years to a literal point instead of critique on our profile  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd suggest a few photos of you as a couple in more casual, friendly "couple-y" poses.
Also perhaps something in your profile (and messages if you don't already) about the FFM being mutual three way fun. "
taken note, good idea thank you  |
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A couple of things:
- your text says interested in meeting couples but not ticked under "looking for". Are you really looking for couples or just a way to get to the lady? 
- personally don't like the pixelated face pics but maybe that's just me
- basically pretty much every couple on here is looking for a single lady and there aren't many who meet couples so will be incredibly hard. You've met somebody as per your veri so done well! I've met quite a few with my partner but in almost every case the initial contact was at a party, club, social, group chat, etc. Very hard directly from here although not impossible. I would get out there into the real world as much as you can.
Best of luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd look at altering the age range you want to meet. Would you really have fun with people in their 80s or 90s?  "
ohh thats because we noticed some younger people put ages way up so they get missed out from the general like people saying their 105 etc |
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I'm not sure if there is much wrong with the your profile? Your bio seems to express yourselves fine. Naturally there maybe some words/phases that put some off but also attract some people. But that's part of the course as we can't be everones cup of tea. Likewise photos seem fine. They give us a bit of a flavour for you both. Nothing explicit, which people can often take or leave. But most importantly they show both of you and give us enough full body to get an insight into what you may look life in real life. Don't really see much wrong.
Stating an intrest in single females is find, we want to find what we're looking for. However sometimes a couples profile can come across too fixated on that aim to a point it can sort of scare single women off. It can trigger the unicorn complex. Not that I think you've stated your aims badly. You have tried to sell the respect, mutuality and joint enterprise factor. However ironically I think this sometimes come across as trying too hard to sell yourselves to single ladies which can likewise be off putting to some (as crazy as that sounds). I think maybe because it should go without saying and many ladies like to be their own judge on if they are equally valued or just seen as a human sex toy for experimentation. Many are dubious of if people are what they claim or just trying to say the right words to bed them. Of which Im not saying you're anything but genuine, just many do cast a critical eye (often from bitter experience). So I'm a little mixed on if your bit on single ladies is helpful or should just be cut out? Maybe the single ladies out there can help us with that one?
But on the whole not a bad profile. So if its not the profile maybe there something to be examined somewhere in the process between initial contact and getting into the bedroom? |
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By *ossannCouple
over a year ago
London |
"Met a couple last night, neither of us are verified. How can we verify each other?"
One set of couples verify on cam in the chat room (says the couple who mean to do this every day but never do) |
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