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18 people no messages lol
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People have to look to see if there's anything that interests or excites them.
You're not doing anything wrong just by not being the right fit for everyone.
Most women and couples live in ninja mode to avoid getting the I saw you looking messages from people they looked at and weren't interested in connecting with. None appearing on the list doesn't mean there are none looking  |
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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago
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You could try a forum search for the coutless other threads asking exactly the same question.
While you're at it, you might also want to search for profile advice.
You've only been here 9 weeks.
What really were you expecting when you joined?
That all you need do is jot down a single line and upload a couple of cock pics and be figthing off offers of the sex by lunchtime?
I'm afraid I have some bad news for you.
Most single guys can wait up to a year before they get their first meet. Some take even longer. Some have been here several years and still had no joy.
And just because someone has looked at your profile, doesn't translate into them being interested. Think of it this way, if you look at a menu in the window of a restaurant, does it mean that you will definitely be going inside to eat?
No, but you don't know that until you've looked to see what is on offer.
By the way, you've likely had far more than 18 views as most women and many couples view in  mode, meaning you won't know anything about it. |
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The site is a swinging site not really a place for single guys. Been on here years as a couple and had lots of interest and fun meets. It the past few months I have messaged 2 girls who lived in my area that were only looking for friendships, networking etc (same as me) They were polite messages and just asking for possible social meets or munches in the area.
I got no reply. I get messages daily from gay guys but I'm not gay. Don't get your hopes up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have 3 pictures, 2 of them are dick pics and a bio that has less excitement than magnolia paint. Jazz it up a bit any maybe you'll get some messages. |
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"The site is a swinging site not really a place for single guys. Been on here years as a couple and had lots of interest and fun meets. It the past few months I have messaged 2 girls who lived in my area that were only looking for friendships, networking etc (same as me) They were polite messages and just asking for possible social meets or munches in the area.
I got no reply. I get messages daily from gay guys but I'm not gay. Don't get your hopes up"
I disagree with you there. It's a site for single blokes as well...I am only interested in single blokes.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do you care, use this site as a time pass and if something comes up great. As many state the ratio women to men is huge, and most women have never received or will receive attention like they do on the site, so it goes to their heads. Come away from your screen, get out and try your luck that way. |
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From my personal experience I'd say forget Fab as a single guy. There are multiple things which will go against you, some of which you have absolutely no control over.
A) The massive imbalance of single guys over couples and in particular single females.
B) The enormous amount of brain-dead and pond life single men who create suspicion and a lack of trust/goodwill by their poor approach and attitude, which having seen the messages of my female friends is largely a disgrace.
C) Women have the pick of who they want, despite having to wade through a sea of crap and no matter how good a guy you are you're likely to get swallowed up in that and go unnoticed for the most part. The frustrations for the women are in the obnoxious ocean of dross in their inboxes, which is unfair on them.
D) No matter how many good boxes you tick it's hugely unlikely to make a scrap of difference. I'm VERY successful in clubs, (borne out by my verifications) on Discord and in having built up a fabulous social/play circle by getting out there and having women and couples see who I really am - not just an anonymous profile. (As a comparison I haven't had a single reply to a message in three years, nor a message that's not a reply in five). My reputation built up in person tells me who I am, so it also tells me Fab is never going to be a good option for single guys. Might sound a tad bitter, but I'd love it if every quality single guy binned Fab and went down more positive routes. Would be interesting to read the forums if only the wasters were left.
Get to a good club fella! Check out the reputations of them and go to a good event. It's WAY better - in every single way. On here the only thing guaranteed is frustration. You've got better things to do with your life!
Believe in yourself and give yourself a break. There are better options. Fab is oy consistently good for women and couples - and then it's far from perfect.
Good luck!
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"Why do you care, use this site as a time pass and if something comes up great. As many state the ratio women to men is huge, and most women have never received or will receive attention like they do on the site, so it goes to their heads. Come away from your screen, get out and try your luck that way."
Absolutely top way to approach it.   |
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Most people are not mutually compatible with most other people. It's better to be checked out and found unsuitablez than wasting effort flogging a dead horse.
Decide on realistic expectations. Focus your efforts on those things that will maximize your potential engagement with matching people. Be efficient and effective |
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"Had 18 people look at my profile, ok most were men and im straight lol. Any tips the funnier the better ??. "
the only tip is expect to never have any success on here. Not impossible,but it's very unlikely.
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"People just window shopping that’s all"
Go to the profiles with the heading saying ‘Please read bio’ etc and ignore everything and send a message with your penis, always a successful tactic or with bbc only and just send them a googled image with a white micropenis and the social invites will fly in
lol in all seriousness just take this site as a pinch of salt. Or you’ll start updating your status telling everyone you’re taking a break or done with fab, then sign in more than ever. |
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"Stuff a dress on, you wil get "hi" & "can i fuck you" messages within minutes x
Sad, but true. The moron magnet will no doubt go into overdrive! 
Totally true. 90% of my world... 
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I'm surprised it's as low as 90%!  |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"Stuff a dress on, you wil get "hi" & "can i fuck you" messages within minutes x "
Believe me I've had those messages from men too! I suppose I should be honoured. |
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I get around 150 views a day, more if I’m online and active. That leads to around 10 messages a day, but most are from w*nkers who want a dirty chat while they knock one out. I’m lucky if I find one or two interesting prospects a week. |
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