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"Not that simple. Maybe folks tried once but it was not the right person, so did not like it but still curious and wanting to try again with someone else. If an opportunity does not appear for long, that person can be bicurious for a very long time. Other folks may use it to mean, for them, that they like full sex with the opposite gender but still trying soft sex with the same gender, curious about exploring different things. In the end, whatever people have in their profile should be taken only as a guidance about what they are about, but not as a contractual commitment of their preferences. If two profiles like each other, they should chat, instead of assume stuff based on some nonsense box ticked on the profile that people can interpret in many different ways." I would totally agree with this I have Bi curious on my profile as I've had experience with a guy but wasn't sure he was right but I'm chatting to other guys | |||
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"I’m curious but for women. I’ve never been with a woman but the urge to do so is getting stronger all the time" Why don't you try it and find out? | |||
"Interesting responses. I have plenty of encounters with women that weren't for me but I knew that I liked sex with women." _ If you got aroused, even if those women were not for you, clearly you like women. Same when you tried with males and you liked it. But for some, the desire is not 50/50 as it may be for you, and more like 95/5 women/men e.g. a male feels curiosity and tries with another male, but does not get aroused or feels much pleasure from contact, yet he still has some curiosity or an inclination to try again. As a bisex OP, surely you would prefer that these males that are 95/5 bi declare as bicurious, so that you know not to expect of them a full sex meet, as you would expect if they declare bisex, because then you would be here worrying instead of why so many men that declare as bisex but do not want to have full intercourse. I have read many forum posts of bi men and bi women complaining about that, and that people are liars in profiles. | |||
"I’m curious but for women. I’ve never been with a woman but the urge to do so is getting stronger all the time Why don't you try it and find out?" I’m actively seeking out bi couples but I think my inexperience puts the woman off | |||
"I’m curious but for women. I’ve never been with a woman but the urge to do so is getting stronger all the time Why don't you try it and find out? I’m actively seeking out bi couples but I think my inexperience puts the woman off" I think the issue is that what appeals to men on a profile, such as cum shots and cock, is much less likely to appeal to women. You also state that you're gay rather than bi-curious. You could maybe use Fab guys for meeting men and change this one to appeal more to couples and women. Nita | |||
"I’m curious but for women. I’ve never been with a woman but the urge to do so is getting stronger all the time Why don't you try it and find out? I’m actively seeking out bi couples but I think my inexperience puts the woman off I think the issue is that what appeals to men on a profile, such as cum shots and cock, is much less likely to appeal to women. You also state that you're gay rather than bi-curious. You could maybe use Fab guys for meeting men and change this one to appeal more to couples and women. Nita" Thank you so much for that profile feedback 3 | |||
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Sadly many are simply not very honest about their sexual comfort levels which is a shame as we should all be much more open, honest and accepting of others xx.
"Just been reading a few threads here and some folks have declared themselves as being curious. How long can you be curious for? Saying that some one who is bi, I pretty much realised I was no longer curious after having sex with a man, I enjoyed it and wanted more. So surely after having a same sex encounter you would know if you liked it or not?" | |||
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Nice thread, interesting to read the reponses.
Both myself and my wife are more situationally bi and fab doesn't give you that option. That said; we do enjoy Bi play  it adds a different dimension to meets, especially MMF meets, but we would never go as far as classing ourselves as Bi sexual... Neither of us would have a relationship with a person of the same gender if we separated.. | |||
"Interesting responses. I have plenty of encounters with women that weren't for me but I knew that I liked sex with women. _ If you got aroused, even if those women were not for you, clearly you like women. Same when you tried with males and you liked it. But for some, the desire is not 50/50 as it may be for you, and more like 95/5 women/men e.g. a male feels curiosity and tries with another male, but does not get aroused or feels much pleasure from contact, yet he still has some curiosity or an inclination to try again. As a bisex OP, surely you would prefer that these males that are 95/5 bi declare as bicurious, so that you know not to expect of them a full sex meet, as you would expect if they declare bisex, because then you would be here worrying instead of why so many men that declare as bisex but do not want to have full intercourse. I have read many forum posts of bi men and bi women complaining about that, and that people are liars in profiles." I don't prescribe to a percentage thing to determine one's sexuallity. Out of a 100 encounters I might have 99 of them with women and one with a man. But if I did enjoy that encounter with a man and wanted more, I'd describe myself as being bi. I just wonder that once to have had a same sex encounter you might have a reasonable idea that you enjoyed it or not and would be going back for round two. And maybe a quick d*unken kiss with mate may not be a definitive encounter to fully change your out look on life, but my first encounter with a guy was a lightswitch moment where I thought 'fuck, that was amazing' yeh i was 100% confused about my feelings but I knew I would be going back for more. | |||
"Interesting responses. I have plenty of encounters with women that weren't for me but I knew that I liked sex with women. _ If you got aroused, even if those women were not for you, clearly you like women. Same when you tried with males and you liked it. But for some, the desire is not 50/50 as it may be for you, and more like 95/5 women/men e.g. a male feels curiosity and tries with another male, but does not get aroused or feels much pleasure from contact, yet he still has some curiosity or an inclination to try again. As a bisex OP, surely you would prefer that these males that are 95/5 bi declare as bicurious, so that you know not to expect of them a full sex meet, as you would expect if they declare bisex, because then you would be here worrying instead of why so many men that declare as bisex but do not want to have full intercourse. I have read many forum posts of bi men and bi women complaining about that, and that people are liars in profiles. I don't prescribe to a percentage thing to determine one's sexuallity. Out of a 100 encounters I might have 99 of them with women and one with a man. But if I did enjoy that encounter with a man and wanted more, I'd describe myself as being bi. I just wonder that once to have had a same sex encounter you might have a reasonable idea that you enjoyed it or not and would be going back for round two. And maybe a quick d*unken kiss with mate may not be a definitive encounter to fully change your out look on life, but my first encounter with a guy was a lightswitch moment where I thought 'fuck, that was amazing' yeh i was 100% confused about my feelings but I knew I would be going back for more." _ I am really glad that you had that opportunity to better understand your feelings and your sexuality. Likewise, I have never had any curiosity or inclination to try with a man, nothing in them arouses me, so I guess I am lucky that have never felt any confusion. However, partly my intuition and partly my personal experience on conversations with members of my family, and swinging friends, who are bi or gay, it is not that crystal clear for everyone, and it is quite normal for people to take a bit of time experimenting with before the confusion fog disappears. I think of it as beer. Rarely anyone goes WOW on the first try, it's a mixture of I like it but not sure about the bitter taste, so takes a few beers to start liking it, but after that, drinking beer is awesome. | |||
