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By *adgerMan 45 weeks ago
york |
"Think it's because a lot people have let themselves go once hit 45/50 - however should really go on looks and personality rather than age!"
Totally agree… I must admit I do chuckle when comparing pics to states ages on this site! My age is real but I’m fit and slim… yoga twice a week walking and mountain biking… not bad looking either! But a huge no of profile have 60 as a cut off … rant over lol |
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By *oss25Man 45 weeks ago
Flitwick and Fakenham |
"Think it's because a lot people have let themselves go once hit 45/50 - however should really go on looks and personality rather than age!"
Very true, I’m fitter and stronger with more stamina than ever before and still fun to be around! If you know you know! |
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"Is there any ladies that like the older man"
Most definitely.
Age is but a number, its how you present yourself that is the key.
Yes there are those who will take you as you are, but there will be limitations there away are.
George Clooney is 62!! Think of it this way. If you act and live like a modern 40 year old you'll attract a younger audience. And thus expand potential partners.
That means staying in shape physically and mentally, dressing like a daper older gent. You will expand your options.
Just saying.
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I think people, men especially, tend to fixate on one aspect rather than look at things holistically. The amount of threads you see on here from men saying ‘who likes big cocks?’ ‘Who likes dad bods?’ ‘Who likes heavy cummers?’ Etc.
A woman is not going to fuck you because you were born 20 years before she was, she’s not going to fuck you because you have a dad bod. Fab isn’t a video game where you have to do things in a certain way, there is no walkthrough. Sexual attraction is far more complex than that, and the sooner men realise it, the sooner they will start having a better experience on here. |
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By *1876Man 45 weeks ago
Dudley |
It's a wee bit strange...I find that younger ladies on most websites don't seem to "go" for older guys. They write you off because of your age, yet away from sites I've met and played with lots of ladies in their 20s and 30s. Even when you've made the connection and I tell them my age, it doesn't matter to them. I think in some cases the number is just an upfront barrier online. I've seen that there are some younger ladies on here who like older guys though, so it's not universal |
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"Is there any ladies that like the older man"
Yes my mrs love age gap, she has shagged a lot younger but really loves much older business gents.
Her first threesome was with two men late 50s early 60s when she was 19.
More recently a 78 year old shagged her and his condom broke. Shot a huge load in her. Had to take the morning after pil. |
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I’ve never seen age as a barrier to anything , I’m still in good working order
With good manners and a positive outlook on life
As a teenager I was attracted to older lady’s especially my aunt who used to tease me lol |
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I’ve been on the site for around 4 years now, I’m 62 and I only got any interest when I changed my age to 52!
It didn’t sit well with me so I’ve changed it back and would you believe it, zero interest again lol. Good luck all. |
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"I’ve been on the site for around 4 years now, I’m 62 and I only got any interest when I changed my age to 52!
It didn’t sit well with me so I’ve changed it back and would you believe it, zero interest again lol. Good luck all."
That means I've got no chance! |
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By *oss25Man 45 weeks ago
Flitwick and Fakenham |
I’m 62 and get a fair bit of attention (some good some not so good), get on the forums and join into threads with like minded folk, plenty of great people on here if you go looking. |
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Mature guys are usually more reliable, more thoughtful and not so full of themselves.
Please don't think I'm putting a downer on younger guys but we can only go from experience.
I think the age as a number can give an incorrect picture of maturity.
Some younger guys are very mature and some older guys are the equivalent of a child's mind wrapped in an old body.
Nothing worse.
For us, we judge people as they come, usually takes a few minutes, generally at a party, club or swingers holiday.
The difficulty at a party is being chatty and pleasant to a guy but not wanting to go upstairs with him.
Don't like to be rude or build expectations.
Then again, I never like to think I'm anything more than a mature lady of a certain age.
It's a difficult one.
Best idea.
Go with a smile on your face, an open mind and realistic expectations.  |
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By *outhbelMan 45 weeks ago
Near Carryduff |
Reached a milestone very recently. I do notice that 45 seems to be a big cut off date for a lot of people. Now have discovered that there are profiles looking for gents with their starting age of 50 |
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"I think people, men especially, tend to fixate on one aspect rather than look at things holistically. The amount of threads you see on here from men saying ‘who likes big cocks?’ ‘Who likes dad bods?’ ‘Who likes heavy cummers?’ Etc.
A woman is not going to fuck you because you were born 20 years before she was, she’s not going to fuck you because you have a dad bod. Fab isn’t a video game where you have to do things in a certain way, there is no walkthrough. Sexual attraction is far more complex than that, and the sooner men realise it, the sooner they will start having a better experience on here."
I like this answer. |
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