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Issue with condoms
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok bit of an embarressing issue this but need some advice if possible
As we've been together a good few years bit out of practice with condoms but now swinging obviously we're going to be using them but I can't keep it up with 1 on 
Tried the durex featherlite ones but still no good
Anyone else have this issue and can you recommend any alternatives or tips that may help erradicate this issue as very frustrating and demoralising for all involved!!
P xx |
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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago
taunton |
"Ok bit of an embarressing issue this but need some advice if possible
As we've been together a good few years bit out of practice with condoms but now swinging obviously we're going to be using them but I can't keep it up with 1 on
Tried the durex featherlite ones but still no good
Anyone else have this issue and can you recommend any alternatives or tips that may help erradicate this issue as very frustrating and demoralising for all involved!!
P xx"
Viagra lol.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok bit of an embarressing issue this but need some advice if possible
As we've been together a good few years bit out of practice with condoms but now swinging obviously we're going to be using them but I can't keep it up with 1 on
Tried the durex featherlite ones but still no good
Anyone else have this issue and can you recommend any alternatives or tips that may help erradicate this issue as very frustrating and demoralising for all involved!!
P xx
Viagra lol. "
Haha prefer a way to do it without medication or a way of training to do it without as have no problem without |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First off I would stop worrying about it happening, nothing will get you droopy quicker than thinking it will happen.
Some can be so tight that they remove any sensation and cause you to go soft. I'll admit it has happened to me occasionally, i dont let it get to me too much. whip it off and get pleasing the lady instead. |
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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago
taunton |
"Ok bit of an embarressing issue this but need some advice if possible
As we've been together a good few years bit out of practice with condoms but now swinging obviously we're going to be using them but I can't keep it up with 1 on
Tried the durex featherlite ones but still no good
Anyone else have this issue and can you recommend any alternatives or tips that may help erradicate this issue as very frustrating and demoralising for all involved!!
P xx
Viagra lol.
Haha prefer a way to do it without medication or a way of training to do it without as have no problem without "
What about a cock ring, never used one but think theyhelp keep you hard. |
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"Have you tried the non latex ones?
From experience, they are horrible. Tried some once, and by the time i got the things halfway rolled down my member, i had lost my hard on."
Oh! I'm allergic to latex and the guys have told me that they have more sensation with them but clearly they don't suit everyone. |
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Someone once suggested training yourself. Even when having a want put one on to get used to it.
And put on when with the OH and if it wilts then it doesn't get another go till the condom is back on - frustrating but may work.
Btw GUM usually have other sizes. Also try flavoured ones for oral to perk him back up without taking it off, the vanilla ones aren't bad and the chocolate ones are chocolatey and the mint ones have a little tingle. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Someone once suggested training yourself. Even when having a want put one on to get used to it.
And put on when with the OH and if it wilts then it doesn't get another go till the condom is back on - frustrating but may work.
Btw GUM usually have other sizes. Also try flavoured ones for oral to perk him back up without taking it off, the vanilla ones aren't bad and the chocolate ones are chocolatey and the mint ones have a little tingle."
We were think of getting some from climic and trying diff types see if its just the 1 type I'm no good with, fingers crossed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone once suggested training yourself. Even when having a want put one on to get used to it.
And put on when with the OH and if it wilts then it doesn't get another go till the condom is back on - frustrating but may work.
Btw GUM usually have other sizes. Also try flavoured ones for oral to perk him back up without taking it off, the vanilla ones aren't bad and the chocolate ones are chocolatey and the mint ones have a little tingle.
We were think of getting some from climic and trying diff types see if its just the 1 type I'm no good with, fingers crossed "
Try getting your OH to put it on with her mouth, works for most guys I do it with as long as the flavoured ones are used. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its not a problem getting it up or getting condom on
It's just once it's on even with featherlite ones there's no sensation so lose the old boy haha"
Femidoms. Condoms for females that fit inside her. Worth a try. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Again it's not an issue with OH just on meets and how many women use them? "
Not many unfortunately, they used to be a bit noisy but so much better now, if you try them and they work you could always discuss with your potential meets before hand and bring some along to try.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Again it's not an issue with OH just on meets and how many women use them? Not many unfortunately, they used to be a bit noisy but so much better now, if you try them and they work you could always discuss with your potential meets before hand and bring some along to try. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Again it's not an issue with OH just on meets and how many women use them? Not many unfortunately, they used to be a bit noisy but so much better now, if you try them and they work you could always discuss with your potential meets before hand and bring some along to try.
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You can get them from SH clinics for free so worth a try. Good luck. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like others have said, I'd suggest you try wanking using them (known as a posh wank lol)
The other thing you can do is to put a pea sized amount of water based lube on the end of your cock before putting the condom on (known as gel charging)
Hope this helps! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So the problem may not be to do with condoms but with trying to keep it up on meets?"
Doubt its that as when doing other stuff was stood to attention and was amazing, once runner went on lost all feeling and it went |
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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago
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"I had a similar problem until I got a bigger size condom. Make sure it's got a bigger circumference and not just length though!
This guys probably hit the nail the head for you. X"
I should add that it worked for me and I've never looked back. The bigger Boots stores have a good collection |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I had a similar problem until I got a bigger size condom. Make sure it's got a bigger circumference and not just length though!
This guys probably hit the nail the head for you. X
I should add that it worked for me and I've never looked back. The bigger Boots stores have a good collection"
Cheers will give that a go  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had similar problems with condoms that were too tight in circumference but I have now swapped to Mates Skyns Large size and now have no problem whatsoever. My other issue with condoms for extended sessions is soreness and like a previous poster has said gel charging really helps with that |
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"Ok bit of an embarressing issue this but need some advice if possible
As we've been together a good few years bit out of practice with condoms but now swinging obviously we're going to be using them but I can't keep it up with 1 on
Tried the durex featherlite ones but still no good
Anyone else have this issue and can you recommend any alternatives or tips that may help erradicate this issue as very frustrating and demoralising for all involved!!
P xx
Viagra lol.
Haha prefer a way to do it without medication or a way of training to do it without as have no problem without
What about a cock ring, never used one but think theyhelp keep you hard. "
Cock rings are wonderful. Takes away any worries I am told and from a female perspective, i love the feel of the metal against me.... |
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