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Struggling to get out there as you may say

By *heHornySpark28 OP Man over a year ago

Newcastle

Any tips from the ladies on where my profile may be a miss as I’m not having much luck with you ladies any ideas all help appreciated

By *ope_kisses22Couple over a year ago

Hyde

Hey hey....

I would say spend some time looking at other guys profiles for ideas.

I can give advice but remember that it's my opinion and others have their own.... so take what you think is good and ignore the rest.

1- change your profile name... it's not alluring, sexy or funny

2- Add wayyyyy more bio.... more about you, your personality, what you like, can offer and what you're looking for

3- add some more pics

4- remember that the content of your msg matters, read their profile and make it relevant.

Also as an aside (as your update asks) I generally ignore winks... or bulk delete

Good luck

By *heHornySpark28 OP Man over a year ago

Newcastle

You think my profile looks a bit more appealing kow ?

By *reyToTheFairiesWoman over a year ago

Carlisle usually

To me it looks very everyman and trying so hard to not put anyone off that there's nothing left to appeal.

But good luck OP

By *inkForLifeCouple over a year ago

North Shields

I'd probably drop your first pic, looks a bit immature.

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd probably drop your first pic, looks a bit immature.

Agree

By *elkieWoman over a year ago

Durham

Proofread. You like to dominate but you always like to be a bit submissive? Really?

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It actually doesn't tell me much about you.

Just feels like your trying to appeal to everyone which I always find strange.

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pity you only ask ladies for advice.

There are many successful men on here who can also offer advice, surely it’s them you need the advice for as it works for them.

But good luck