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Hey quick question I don’t think I will Ver get a meet due to my age if someone could tell me if I have a chance that would be great cause to be honest I have only had 1 chance but I don’t know to stay because my age definitely effects alot of people. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Yeah I know but even when the age is 18 and above they give me the “your young” or I have a relative your age "
I was trying to point out that will be many around your own age as well and just above |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Age is but a number! You have a good profile. You have as much chance as any man on here. Good luck!
Thanks but I think I could add more things don’t know about what though"
IMO I don't think you need to add anything, you are clear what you have to offer and what you are looking for  |
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"Hey quick question I don’t think I will Ver get a meet due to my age if someone could tell me if I have a chance that would be great cause to be honest I have only had 1 chance but I don’t know to stay because my age definitely effects alot of people."
I would focus on being fun and positive. Green arrow shows you’ve started 6 threads in the last few days all asking for profile type advice in various guises and with a bit of a negative vibe and not commented on any other threads. Perhaps start a more positive thread or join in on a fun topic. The negativity if you carry on will be a big turn off for anybody who sees it. Try to be fun and positive. Best of luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have only been here a month, you can't expect everything to happen right away. Participate on more forum threads, join in some games, chat to people, get youself known. Maybe try going to a club? You'll meet lots of people there, and even if it's just to chat, you'll get more acclimatised to the lifestyle and start to enjoy this experience for what it is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would get involved with the forums and get to any of the arranged socials. Clubs are good but expensive for single guys.
What I've found is people may have certain preferences online but aface to face and a get to know you these can become more relaxed. |
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"I would get involved with the forums and get to any of the arranged socials. Clubs are good but expensive for single guys.
What I've found is people may have certain preferences online but aface to face and a get to know you these can become more relaxed. "
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"You have only been here a month, you can't expect everything to happen right away. Participate on more forum threads, join in some games, chat to people, get youself known. Maybe try going to a club? You'll meet lots of people there, and even if it's just to chat, you'll get more acclimatised to the lifestyle and start to enjoy this experience for what it is."
Yeah I understand thanks |
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"Hey quick question I don’t think I will Ver get a meet due to my age if someone could tell me if I have a chance that would be great cause to be honest I have only had 1 chance but I don’t know to stay because my age definitely effects alot of people.
I would focus on being fun and positive. Green arrow shows you’ve started 6 threads in the last few days all asking for profile type advice in various guises and with a bit of a negative vibe and not commented on any other threads. Perhaps start a more positive thread or join in on a fun topic. The negativity if you carry on will be a big turn off for anybody who sees it. Try to be fun and positive. Best of luck. "
Will do |
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"Hey quick question I don’t think I will Ver get a meet due to my age if someone could tell me if I have a chance that would be great cause to be honest I have only had 1 chance but I don’t know to stay because my age definitely effects alot of people.
I would focus on being fun and positive. Green arrow shows you’ve started 6 threads in the last few days all asking for profile type advice in various guises and with a bit of a negative vibe and not commented on any other threads. Perhaps start a more positive thread or join in on a fun topic. The negativity if you carry on will be a big turn off for anybody who sees it. Try to be fun and positive. Best of luck. "
Agree with the poster above. Nothing is going to happen overnight. It all feels a bit frantic and desperate at the minute. Relax. Get involved. Perhaps look for socials in your area. But most of all, recognise that Fab can be a very very slow burn |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You are in a tough spot but not as tough as it was before covid. Back then many clubs had an over 25's policy and they only dropped it for cubs and couger events. Now most have dropped it to 21 and some down to 18 so clubs are a valid option for getting into the scene.
As for personal meets its a coin toss. We have kids near your age so Penny wouldn't go near you even if you were a young Brad Pitt. On the other hand plenty prefer the lure of youth so you will be well within their search window. Good luck OP. |
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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago
taunton |
Out here in the countryside we have young farmers clubs for young people to join and meet up socially for all sorts of events and entertainment you don't have to be connected to farming, older members tend to supervise and keep an eye on things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women get hundreds of messages so trying to stand out is hard.
I’ve been on here for 5 weeks and no meet yet.
Remain patient although a rejection is hard don’t take it to heart because they don’t really know you.
I’m straight so this is from a straight man’s experience on here. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
The green arrow next to your name suggests you are rather desperate for things to happen immediately as you have started new threads on this theme multiple times.
The majority of swingers on here are quite a bit older than you and your age will not suit everyone.
Try to attend any organised socials in your area and join discussions in the forum posts....not just focusing on yourself. People can then see if you are fun, mature and see a bit more of your personality.
Look put for anyone advertising for meets in your area, perhaps a cafe meet, or put one as your status and see if that helps.
But there are 100 gents on here for every woman, so you really need to be patient and adjust your expectations if you thought you would find meets easily.
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No reason why you should meet and be verified. It can however take a lot of time and chats so don’t expect women to just say yes. A few of my verified meets took over a year before we met. Am do glad we did as lots of fun. Don’t give up |
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"Women get hundreds of messages so trying to stand out is hard.
I’ve been on here for 5 weeks and no meet yet.
Remain patient although a rejection is hard don’t take it to heart because they don’t really know you.
I’m straight so this is from a straight man’s experience on here. "
Thanks just patience |
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I think you come across very well. Certainly a lot of people on here won't go down to the age you are, but I think you've got to be in with a reasonable chance with those that do and you don't rule yourself out like many single men do by having a poor profile. |
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"You have the same chance as most guys on here. None."
Plenty of us do. I don’t just expect results. I respect people and talk to them about what like or not. You can have a lot of fun then and all enjoy. |
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Seriously - you’ve obviously put a lot of work into your profile and it looks fine to me. Good luck 
