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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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All depends what you arrange. Most of the socials we have done were just a drink in a country pub. Some went well and led to a second meet to play, some were not so good and we made our excuses and left. |
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We go to a regular monthly social called a "munch" in Leicester, but it's for kink not swing. Trying to setup a regular group social for swing as well, currently looking at venues. When it gets off the ground I'm sure it will be plastered all over the forums like a huge facial. |
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By *ucka39Man 52 weeks ago
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If you've connected with someone via messages then arrange a social for a drink.
these can lead anywhere if both happy and comfortable with on the day depending upon the level of conversation prior or on the occasion of meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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"Hi. All new to this. Can you explain what happens at a social ?
People meet up in a big room, everyone gets naked and fucks!"
Oh thank you for your comments. Wish I had your sense of humour  |
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When I do a social, we usually chat a bit about what sex both parties are into. Usually I do coffee meets but occasionally evening beer meets.
You can chat about what expectations you all have. Sometimes a social can lead to same day fun but generally I don't go intending to have sex that day
You can check if you fancy them and visa versa.
I don't know about organised socials, as I have never been to one. |
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"What about the group organised social ?
People meet at an agreed location and socialise. Its often in a pub or similar so people behave as they would in any social setting.  "
Yep this and in most cases "social means social". Seen cases of people expecting more before, even a bit of a snog and touchy feely, but even that rarely happens. At some there might be a hotel nearby and a few people peel off for a small after party but wouldn't expect it. Just expect to chat and meet people and hopefully make contacts for the future.
Arranged one before where ended up with maybe 12 left and open invite for everybody to come to a room of which 8 did. Some genuinely thought it was just for a nigthtcap and metaphorically shat themselves and left |
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"What about the group organised social ?
People meet at an agreed location and socialise. Its often in a pub or similar so people behave as they would in any social setting.
Yep this and in most cases "social means social". Seen cases of people expecting more before, even a bit of a snog and touchy feely, but even that rarely happens. At some there might be a hotel nearby and a few people peel off for a small after party but wouldn't expect it. Just expect to chat and meet people and hopefully make contacts for the future.
Arranged one before where ended up with maybe 12 left and open invite for everybody to come to a room of which 8 did. Some genuinely thought it was just for a nigthtcap and metaphorically shat themselves and left "
That's surely part of the earlier conversation? Back to our hotel for naked playtime? Help yourselves to condoms & lube.
Pretty sure people won't mistake that for a drink. |
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"What about the group organised social ?
People meet at an agreed location and socialise. Its often in a pub or similar so people behave as they would in any social setting.
Yep this and in most cases "social means social". Seen cases of people expecting more before, even a bit of a snog and touchy feely, but even that rarely happens. At some there might be a hotel nearby and a few people peel off for a small after party but wouldn't expect it. Just expect to chat and meet people and hopefully make contacts for the future.
Arranged one before where ended up with maybe 12 left and open invite for everybody to come to a room of which 8 did. Some genuinely thought it was just for a nigthtcap and metaphorically shat themselves and left
That's surely part of the earlier conversation? Back to our hotel for naked playtime? Help yourselves to condoms & lube.
Pretty sure people won't mistake that for a drink."
No some did. We were in a pub garden and being turfed out but some people still had drinks. Some just left but then my partner said "ok everyone welcome back to our room" and off people went. Then it was slightly awkward in the room as people looked at eachother. My partner said right enough of this let's all get naked. 60 seconds later us two naked and six clothed. That was even more awkward. It was a slightly naive bunch looking back Luckily most joined in soon after. |
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No some did. We were in a pub garden and being turfed out but some people still had drinks. Some just left but then my partner said "ok everyone welcome back to our room" and off people went. Then it was slightly awkward in the room as people looked at eachother. My partner said right enough of this let's all get naked. 60 seconds later us two naked and six clothed. That was even more awkward. It was a slightly naive bunch looking back Luckily most joined in soon after. "
After 30 seconds of you getting naked you would be still removing your socks to find the pair of us already naked. Velcro pants like the Chippendales |
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"What about the group organised social ?
People meet at an agreed location and socialise. Its often in a pub or similar so people behave as they would in any social setting. "
Exactly this. The Manchester Social were excellent. Loads of people having a chat and having a drink, just like you would in any pub or club. If you meet someone/a couple then arrange something later that day or in the future. Made some great friends at socials. |
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