This is just a ramble, a brain fart to try and make sense of this whole thing.
I am a Ts switch (obvz lol). At 43, it can be difficult to date anyway. Add being trans and kinky into the mix and it gets worse.
When I was living as a cis man, it was easier to get a partner, and who was also a swinging kinky switch/sub lady. But now, it has reversed.
As a trans woman, who is currently more of a sub looking for her Domme partner.. omg.
I have been medically transitioning for 5 years. I have real hormone grown 30D boobs and I'm told I pass.
I'm NOT a sissy (I occasionally wear chastity because it helps with my dysphoria), CD or TV. But whilst currently being more submissive I feel like I'm maybe getting brushed in those categories.
Will I find a Lady I can connect to? Who is more Domminant and enjoys the same things? I don't know.
Brain fart (makes raspberry noise).
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I somewhat feel that pain of being lumped in with other groups like sissies or transvestites. Its just part of sites like this where people's only education in sex and certain terms comes from pornography where people lump trans people, femboys and sissies into the same category for some reason (Even though the differences between all 3 groups are insanely different). Like, if I never get called a sissy or a woman again I'll be the happiest man to live.
As for what you're looking for. There are loads of avenues for that. I mean, I've met dominant women on here so they do exist! You just have to live life because for some reason our treasure is always found when we're least expecting it.
Anyway, I hope you find what you're looking for OP. :3 |
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Thank you. I agree with you that they get their info from porn too.
It's like if I never get called a sissy again I will be the happiest woman on site.
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"I somewhat feel that pain of being lumped in with other groups like sissies or transvestites. Its just part of sites like this where people's only education in sex and certain terms comes from pornography where people lump trans people, femboys and sissies into the same category for some reason (Even though the differences between all 3 groups are insanely different). Like, if I never get called a sissy or a woman again I'll be the happiest man to live.
As for what you're looking for. There are loads of avenues for that. I mean, I've met dominant women on here so they do exist! You just have to live life because for some reason our treasure is always found when we're least expecting it.
Anyway, I hope you find what you're looking for OP. :3"
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*Femboy Uzui, what a lovely supportive post.. a beautiful femboy with matching soul.. so warming to see..
*DanniellaBiTS I feel for you & your predicament, I wonder whether there is a site with more pronounced differences in genders, where very different people don’t get lumped in together.. from my kinky experience I know that munches for sub groups of sub groups have happened & I wonder whether you might find similar.. I wish you good luck finding your Domme
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Thank you. I am on a kink community site and have posted personals on there too.
Unfortunately I don't get a chance to go to lunches very often. But it's a good idea.
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"*Femboy Uzui, what a lovely supportive post.. a beautiful femboy with matching soul.. so warming to see..
*DanniellaBiTS I feel for you & your predicament, I wonder whether there is a site with more pronounced differences in genders, where very different people don’t get lumped in together.. from my kinky experience I know that munches for sub groups of sub groups have happened & I wonder whether you might find similar.. I wish you good luck finding your Domme
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No, that was my issue, especially since COVID locked everything down getting back to munches, workshops or even just out is difficult..
I find here and the other fetish lifestyle place to be quite complimentary in some ways, but it’s so hard trying to accommodate all of our facets in one place with one word..
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"Lol. Glad you liked it 
P.S. Danniella, fabulous video on the 13th.. right down to the cheeky spank.. Class!  "
You have a fabulous profile, love your style & the video showed a little teasing extra.. |
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"Lol. Glad you liked it
P.S. Danniella, fabulous video on the 13th.. right down to the cheeky spank.. Class!
You have a fabulous profile, love your style & the video showed a little teasing extra.. "
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