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over a year ago
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Well don't get him to just ram his fist in...that hurts lol
it takes time care and coordination...not everyone can do it ...start off slowly and use plenty lube...both on the pussy and the hand...start with one finger at a time..easing in another and so forth...the girl has to be fully relaxed ..take it slowly and just ease in to see how far the hand can go....and take it from there also keep adding extra lube as you go...hope this help x !  |
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Don't expect to take it all on your first 'sitting' so to speak..it may take a while to get there,
Relaxation really is the key...and lube...you can never have too much lube with fisting..
The orgasm can be extremely intense too so beware for tears...lol |
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"Don't expect to take it all on your first 'sitting' so to speak..it may take a while to get there,
Relaxation really is the key...and lube...you can never have too much lube with fisting..
The orgasm can be extremely intense too so beware for tears...lol"
That is very true the one time me and Silky properly did it after months of trying i was a wreck. It took me to a different place i felt like it was an out of body expieriance it was a very spiritual expieriance. I know i sound like a hippy right now lol!!! But honestly i felt so close to him it was crazy!!!
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"Don't expect to take it all on your first 'sitting' so to speak..it may take a while to get there,
Relaxation really is the key...and lube...you can never have too much lube with fisting..
The orgasm can be extremely intense too so beware for tears...lol
That is very true the one time me and Silky properly did it after months of trying i was a wreck. It took me to a different place i felt like it was an out of body expieriance it was a very spiritual expieriance. I know i sound like a hippy right now lol!!! But honestly i felt so close to him it was crazy!!!
MissD "
It does sound hippy but I completely agree..it IS an out of body experience...I get very very teary and all proceedings stop until I get a cuddle for 5 minutes to bring me down...
It is a very sensual experience.. |
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amazing orgasms from fisting....also so painful when your woo clamps down on his fist, timing (for me ) is crucial.....having fist in as i start to clamp kills, but take it out too early orgasm goes.....
lots of lube, relaxation.....not something id do with a meet though as its very intimate and really important the person knows how close you are to orgasming |
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"Don't expect to take it all on your first 'sitting' so to speak..it may take a while to get there,
Relaxation really is the key...and lube...you can never have too much lube with fisting..
The orgasm can be extremely intense too so beware for tears...lol
That is very true the one time me and Silky properly did it after months of trying i was a wreck. It took me to a different place i felt like it was an out of body expieriance it was a very spiritual expieriance. I know i sound like a hippy right now lol!!! But honestly i felt so close to him it was crazy!!!
MissD
It does sound hippy but I completely agree..it IS an out of body experience...I get very very teary and all proceedings stop until I get a cuddle for 5 minutes to bring me down...
It is a very sensual experience.."
I know exactly where you are coming from it was totally unexpected that it would provoke such a strong emotional response. |
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over a year ago
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I love this, but it does need to be done slowly, one finger at a time, alot of wetness or lube and i like to be kissed while i am having it done, but when it makes me cum it is totally amazing, completely different to any other orgasm. x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i dont like fisting, i really cant take a fist, i find it really painful if they put 3 fingers in and dont even want to get past that "
Feck! Any more than 1 finger and I am wincing!  |
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over a year ago
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I've had all five digits in but had to stop cos it hurt like a bitch, tried many times but I can't take a fist.. no fun if you don't enjoy somethin and it makes you tense. I much prefer to do the things I get pleasure from. |
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I had this done a few weeks ago, and found it pleasurable, then a guy I met last night thought he'd try and he couldn't get anywhere near and it really was quite unbearable, the first guy must of had very small hands  |
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I've not done this before, in fact its on my "no list" (purely because it scares the hell out of me, i can barely get 2/3 in let alone a fist?!) but saying that now reading some of the comments its something i might look in to lol. Try anything once i guess  . Mrs x |
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"I had this done a few weeks ago, and found it pleasurable, then a guy I met last night thought he'd try and he couldn't get anywhere near and it really was quite unbearable, the first guy must of had very small hands "
It's more to do with how u do it. I love it! |
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"what is fisting and does it huet x  loads of good advice given here but when it's done to me it always makes me squirt so would pay u to have a towel under u. have fun "
I have to agree with the towel it can get a bit wet and just take your time and relax |
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My last FWB was into fisting in a big way, but she had the ability to relax to such an extent that she could dilate almost like she was giving birth!
For a man, I have relatively small hands so it may have been easier, as I was able to get inside up to about three inches above the wrist - seriously! She is the only woman I have ever come across who could do it to that extent.
It's one of those areas of kink (??) for which you really need to be as 'in touch with your body' as it's possible to get. |
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"Not if it's done properly, the guy is considerate and respectful, and plenty lube is available."
Or a woman? I did this for the first time last week, it was the first time for both of us and the lady loved it, so did both male playmates watching it. No lube needed! |
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"Or a woman? I did this for the first time last week, it was the first time for both of us and the lady loved it, so did both male playmates watching it. No lube needed! "
I've only done it once, so far, but the lady concerned didn't need lube either.
There's a lot said about the lady being able or unable to take it, but I think it's probably much more of a joint thing. The guy being slow and considerate, aware of the lady's response/reaction, the lady being relaxed and really 'turned on'.
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"Or a woman? I did this for the first time last week, it was the first time for both of us and the lady loved it, so did both male playmates watching it. No lube needed!
I've only done it once, so far, but the lady concerned didn't need lube either.
There's a lot said about the lady being able or unable to take it, but I think it's probably much more of a joint thing. The guy being slow and considerate, aware of the lady's response/reaction, the lady being relaxed and really 'turned on'.
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Right , we are off to try this .
Have obviously been doing this wrong and will let you know how it was . |
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"Don't expect to take it all on your first 'sitting' so to speak..it may take a while to get there,
Relaxation really is the key...and lube...you can never have too much lube with fisting..
The orgasm can be extremely intense too so beware for tears...lol
It is a fabulous experience if done properly, I float away with the orgasim ..
That is very true the one time me and Silky properly did it after months of trying i was a wreck. It took me to a different place i felt like it was an out of body expieriance it was a very spiritual expieriance. I know i sound like a hippy right now lol!!! But honestly i felt so close to him it was crazy!!!
MissD
It does sound hippy but I completely agree..it IS an out of body experience...I get very very teary and all proceedings stop until I get a cuddle for 5 minutes to bring me down...
It is a very sensual experience.."
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Lots of lube, and trust cockrobin and I love it, it is an amazing experience, time and paitence are key elements, rush it and spoil it ... take care and enjoy |
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"Or a woman? I did this for the first time last week, it was the first time for both of us and the lady loved it, so did both male playmates watching it. No lube needed!
I've only done it once, so far, but the lady concerned didn't need lube either.
There's a lot said about the lady being able or unable to take it, but I think it's probably much more of a joint thing. The guy being slow and considerate, aware of the lady's response/reaction, the lady being relaxed and really 'turned on'.
Right , we are off to try this .
Have obviously been doing this wrong and will let you know how it was ."
Heh!! , that got me some more brownie points ,just go to show that you never stop learning .
Cheers for that . |
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