Clothing I think maybe a bit subjective. However the concept of making an effort to be clean, fresh and presentable (whatever your look) is universal. I don't think anyone is impressed when people don't make any effort and don't come across as at least clean. It's a little disrespectful and I don't see how they expect to someone to want to have sex with them in that state. I wouldn't be impressed. |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
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"Has anyone had issues with bad body odour and scruffy clothes from the other couple at a meet? "
Was it both partners in the couple that had bad body odour and dirty/scruffy clothes or just one of them? |
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"Has anyone had issues with bad body odour and scruffy clothes from the other couple at a meet?
Was it both partners in the couple that had bad body odour and dirty/scruffy clothes or just one of them?"
LOL, surely even just the one of them dirty and stinky is enough for a ‘no means no’ |
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over a year ago
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"The issue was they weren’t just scruffy but dirty as well. I always make sure I wear nice clothes and smell nice before I go to a meet as you wouldn’t make a really good impression if you didn’t "
What did you do? |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
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"The issue was they weren’t just scruffy but dirty as well. I always make sure I wear nice clothes and smell nice before I go to a meet as you wouldn’t make a really good impression if you didn’t
What did you do?"
Simple solution would be, everyone gets naked which solves the scruffy/dirty clothes issue, everyone has a shower together which solves the bad body odour issue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The issue was they weren’t just scruffy but dirty as well. I always make sure I wear nice clothes and smell nice before I go to a meet as you wouldn’t make a really good impression if you didn’t
What did you do?
Simple solution would be, everyone gets naked which solves the scruffy/dirty clothes issue, everyone has a shower together which solves the bad body odour issue. "
I would leave. If the person can't have a shower beforehand they are not for me.  |
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It was just him, though it only seemed that after we had had some fun that he really started to smell but the thing is he apparently went for a ‘shower’ but I think he maybe just climbed under the shower wet himself and got out. |
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Me and his partner had some fun but then it all seemed to fizzle out which in a way I was glad of. When they had gone I had a bath but when I came out the whole hotel room stank of BO so it was a good thing I had some deodorant. I stuck it out because I was meant to be at ‘Aqua’ so couldn’t go home back to my mum early lol. Let’s just say I don’t think I’ll be meeting them again  |
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Yep at one party there was a terrible BO smell. We realised it was a guy we were talking to who was dressed nicely and chatting well.
And worse a lady I met years back who was 20 years younger and gorgeous. Met in a swish London hotel and she was very well dressed. But the smell down below was vomit inducing. She really needed to see a doctor. |
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Worst meet i have had was due to BO, the lady was beautiful I understand she had driven to hotel . However I honestly couldn't even kiss her due to one being poisoned by deodorant and secondly the BO.
It was clear no shower was had!
Offered to go into the shower to wash each other before playing which she took offence of.
I have or would never go to someone not freshly showered full groom pack done and if shower facilities were available I'd re-shower if I had travelled.
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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago
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Thankfully I don't recall having had any such disasters, though I do worry how some people can be so self-unaware, on a date/private meet is one thing but especially when they're going into an environment like a club where people make an obvious effort. |
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I have OCD about these things and due to the nature of my job I need to shower 2-3 times a day. Its something I'm used to. But when you join the party scene you realise there are people who don’t know the meaning of water nor soap.
I can usually handle guys and will definitely tell them straight up if the BO is too strong. But for girls its a little more tricky. How do you explain nicely that someone stinks in the love below?
I usually carry a roller or a deodorant for anyone that needs it. Also the food you eat has serious impact. Sometimes people genuinely forget. I had a young lady who came straight from the gym and she came to my flat and quickly asked for a shower. It was a relief bc I got the whiff of the oh dear as she came thru the front door.  |
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