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hi my wife recently told me she would like to try dogging, starting off slow just us making out in the car whilst being watched. the thing is none of us have done this before so wondering where do we start. any tips and advice guys and girls? |
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be warned its winter and we've been to a few in londo a couple of years ago on a hot summers day, no one around - possibly we were early, 7ish pm
imgo, safer to meet a guy from here and tell them they can only watch at their place etc, no gurantees other than a meet |
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"be warned its winter and we've been to a few in londo a couple of years ago on a hot summers day, no one around - possibly we were early, 7ish pm
imgo, safer to meet a guy from here and tell them they can only watch at their place etc, no gurantees other than a meet"
Winter is better. Less chancers about and more genuine doggers. |
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"be warned its winter and we've been to a few in londo a couple of years ago on a hot summers day, no one around - possibly we were early, 7ish pm
imgo, safer to meet a guy from here and tell them they can only watch at their place etc, no gurantees other than a meet
Winter is better. Less chancers about and more genuine doggers."
Yep - this is very true - also there’s ways of warming up that are very enjoyable.. |
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The suggestion about setting up your own meet sounds quite sensible and more likely to result in a good first experience. I once went to a car park known for dogging, and at night it was tricky to tell if there was dogging action or some sort of illegal trading or just a car meet going on... I didn't bother investigating as personal safety got the better of curiosity.
Also depends what is attracting your wife to the idea of dogging... Is it sex outdoors, being watched by strangers, the uncertainty and spontinaity of an unplanned encounter, etc? You might be able to achieve that thrill without freezing yourselves in the wrong carpark whilst boy racers do donuts around your car as you make out (surprised that wasn't a fast and furious plot).
I know of two spots near-ish to you, not sure I would want to be at either one of them after dark... But as already mentioned I am clearly not brave enough (or is it outgoing enough) for dogging. |
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"hi my wife recently told me she would like to try dogging, starting off slow just us making out in the car whilst being watched. the thing is none of us have done this before so wondering where do we start. any tips and advice guys and girls?"
Probably best not telling where you're going to be or lots people
If you get out the car watch out for the dog ones .. |
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"Also - swot-up on the law with regard to Dogging and the Sex Offenders Register.
'The times they are a changin''. - Bob Dylan."
Thanks for the heads up .. anyone found any new legislation... I've looked around and consulted Google but to avail. |
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over a year ago
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"Also - swot-up on the law with regard to Dogging and the Sex Offenders Register.
'The times they are a changin''. - Bob Dylan.
Thanks for the heads up .. anyone found any new legislation... I've looked around and consulted Google but to avail. "
There are a number of stories in the press - one even mentions swingers trying to get themselves off the SOR for Dogging, but it was refused.
Just type dogging and the law. You will find them.
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"be warned its winter and we've been to a few in londo a couple of years ago on a hot summers day, no one around - possibly we were early, 7ish pm
imgo, safer to meet a guy from here and tell them they can only watch at their place etc, no gurantees other than a meet
Winter is better. Less chancers about and more genuine doggers.
Yep - this is very true - also there’s ways of warming up that are very enjoyable.."
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Our first and only experience was spontaneous.
We don’t drive especially so sometimes stop off on the way home from somewhere else.
This particular night we were driving to a known location and was followed by another car into the car park.
We were parked next to each other. The guy got out of his car and stood near to us so we started to put on a show. Once she was comfortable and relaxed bearing in mind this was a first experience she opened the window and sucked him off just in time before another guy rolled up.
Who knows what would have happened if he’d arrived a few moments earlier. |
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"Also - swot-up on the law with regard to Dogging and the Sex Offenders Register.
'The times they are a changin''. - Bob Dylan.
Thanks for the heads up .. anyone found any new legislation... I've looked around and consulted Google but to avail.
There are a number of stories in the press - one even mentions swingers trying to get themselves off the SOR for Dogging, but it was refused.
Just type dogging and the law. You will find them.
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Nobody is on the SOR for dogging as no law regarding this exists.
However, laws regarding outraging public decency and indecent exposure, amongst by others do exist. They may have ended up on the SOR for offences committed whilst they were out dogging though.
So if you think it’s ok to go to a carpark and go for it in some sort of wanton abandon, be prepared for the potential consequences.
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By *atEvolutionCouple
over a year ago
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"Also - swot-up on the law with regard to Dogging and the Sex Offenders Register.
'The times they are a changin''. - Bob Dylan.
Thanks for the heads up .. anyone found any new legislation... I've looked around and consulted Google but to avail.
There are a number of stories in the press - one even mentions swingers trying to get themselves off the SOR for Dogging, but it was refused.
Just type dogging and the law. You will find them.
Nobody is on the SOR for dogging as no law regarding this exists.
However, laws regarding outraging public decency and indecent exposure, amongst by others do exist. They may have ended up on the SOR for offences committed whilst they were out dogging though.
So if you think it’s ok to go to a carpark and go for it in some sort of wanton abandon, be prepared for the potential consequences.
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Car park dogging pair lose fight to be taken off the sex register
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A PAIR of doggers caught having sex in a car park have lost a landmark legal bid to be taken off the sex offenders register.
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"Also - swot-up on the law with regard to Dogging and the Sex Offenders Register.
'The times they are a changin''. - Bob Dylan.
Thanks for the heads up .. anyone found any new legislation... I've looked around and consulted Google but to avail.
There are a number of stories in the press - one even mentions swingers trying to get themselves off the SOR for Dogging, but it was refused.
Just type dogging and the law. You will find them.
Nobody is on the SOR for dogging as no law regarding this exists.
However, laws regarding outraging public decency and indecent exposure, amongst by others do exist. They may have ended up on the SOR for offences committed whilst they were out dogging though.
So if you think it’s ok to go to a carpark and go for it in some sort of wanton abandon, be prepared for the potential consequences.
Car park dogging pair lose fight to be taken off the sex register
SEARCH . . . Google for . . .
A PAIR of doggers caught having sex in a car park have lost a landmark legal bid to be taken off the sex offenders register.
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So, couple dogging in Scotland were having sex outside of their car during the daytime on a beach a car park that was being used by parents with children and horse riders.
A quote from the sherif “Sheriff Iona McDonald said: "There were people in the area walking, riding horses and able to see this activity. "If it had even been a more secluded spot or if they had remained in the vehicle, that would have been a different matter."
They were charged with public indecency. Not dogging, as no specific law regarding dogging actually exists.
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By *atEvolutionCouple
over a year ago
Christmas is Coming YAY! |
"Also - swot-up on the law with regard to Dogging and the Sex Offenders Register.
'The times they are a changin''. - Bob Dylan.
Thanks for the heads up .. anyone found any new legislation... I've looked around and consulted Google but to avail.
There are a number of stories in the press - one even mentions swingers trying to get themselves off the SOR for Dogging, but it was refused.
Just type dogging and the law. You will find them.
Nobody is on the SOR for dogging as no law regarding this exists.
However, laws regarding outraging public decency and indecent exposure, amongst by others do exist. They may have ended up on the SOR for offences committed whilst they were out dogging though.
So if you think it’s ok to go to a carpark and go for it in some sort of wanton abandon, be prepared for the potential consequences.
Car park dogging pair lose fight to be taken off the sex register
SEARCH . . . Google for . . .
A PAIR of doggers caught having sex in a car park have lost a landmark legal bid to be taken off the sex offenders register.
So, couple dogging in Scotland were having sex outside of their car during the daytime on a beach a car park that was being used by parents with children and horse riders.
A quote from the sherif “Sheriff Iona McDonald said: "There were people in the area walking, riding horses and able to see this activity. "If it had even been a more secluded spot or if they had remained in the vehicle, that would have been a different matter."
They were charged with public indecency. Not dogging, as no specific law regarding dogging actually exists.
"
Because they were dogging they are now on the sex offenders register. |
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"Also - swot-up on the law with regard to Dogging and the Sex Offenders Register.
'The times they are a changin''. - Bob Dylan.
Thanks for the heads up .. anyone found any new legislation... I've looked around and consulted Google but to avail.
There are a number of stories in the press - one even mentions swingers trying to get themselves off the SOR for Dogging, but it was refused.
Just type dogging and the law. You will find them.
Nobody is on the SOR for dogging as no law regarding this exists.
However, laws regarding outraging public decency and indecent exposure, amongst by others do exist. They may have ended up on the SOR for offences committed whilst they were out dogging though.
So if you think it’s ok to go to a carpark and go for it in some sort of wanton abandon, be prepared for the potential consequences.
Car park dogging pair lose fight to be taken off the sex register
SEARCH . . . Google for . . .
A PAIR of doggers caught having sex in a car park have lost a landmark legal bid to be taken off the sex offenders register.
So, couple dogging in Scotland were having sex outside of their car during the daytime on a beach a car park that was being used by parents with children and horse riders.
A quote from the sherif “Sheriff Iona McDonald said: "There were people in the area walking, riding horses and able to see this activity. "If it had even been a more secluded spot or if they had remained in the vehicle, that would have been a different matter."
They were charged with public indecency. Not dogging, as no specific law regarding dogging actually exists.
Because they were dogging they are now on the sex offenders register. "
Did you read the judges comment?
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By *atEvolutionCouple
over a year ago
Christmas is Coming YAY! |
"Also - swot-up on the law with regard to Dogging and the Sex Offenders Register.
'The times they are a changin''. - Bob Dylan.
Thanks for the heads up .. anyone found any new legislation... I've looked around and consulted Google but to avail.
There are a number of stories in the press - one even mentions swingers trying to get themselves off the SOR for Dogging, but it was refused.
Just type dogging and the law. You will find them.
Nobody is on the SOR for dogging as no law regarding this exists.
However, laws regarding outraging public decency and indecent exposure, amongst by others do exist. They may have ended up on the SOR for offences committed whilst they were out dogging though.
So if you think it’s ok to go to a carpark and go for it in some sort of wanton abandon, be prepared for the potential consequences.
Car park dogging pair lose fight to be taken off the sex register
SEARCH . . . Google for . . .
A PAIR of doggers caught having sex in a car park have lost a landmark legal bid to be taken off the sex offenders register.
So, couple dogging in Scotland were having sex outside of their car during the daytime on a beach a car park that was being used by parents with children and horse riders.
A quote from the sherif “Sheriff Iona McDonald said: "There were people in the area walking, riding horses and able to see this activity. "If it had even been a more secluded spot or if they had remained in the vehicle, that would have been a different matter."
They were charged with public indecency. Not dogging, as no specific law regarding dogging actually exists.
Because they were dogging they are now on the sex offenders register.
Did you read the judges comment?
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Nobody has posted that there is a particular offence of dogging.
I posted search with regard to the sex offenders register and dogging. A couple are now on the sex offenders register because they were dogging.
It's irrefutable.
I asked doggers here to consider that fact.
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"Also - swot-up on the law with regard to Dogging and the Sex Offenders Register.
'The times they are a changin''. - Bob Dylan.
Thanks for the heads up .. anyone found any new legislation... I've looked around and consulted Google but to avail.
There are a number of stories in the press - one even mentions swingers trying to get themselves off the SOR for Dogging, but it was refused.
Just type dogging and the law. You will find them.
Nobody is on the SOR for dogging as no law regarding this exists.
However, laws regarding outraging public decency and indecent exposure, amongst by others do exist. They may have ended up on the SOR for offences committed whilst they were out dogging though.
So if you think it’s ok to go to a carpark and go for it in some sort of wanton abandon, be prepared for the potential consequences.
Car park dogging pair lose fight to be taken off the sex register
SEARCH . . . Google for . . .
A PAIR of doggers caught having sex in a car park have lost a landmark legal bid to be taken off the sex offenders register.
So, couple dogging in Scotland were having sex outside of their car during the daytime on a beach a car park that was being used by parents with children and horse riders.
A quote from the sherif “Sheriff Iona McDonald said: "There were people in the area walking, riding horses and able to see this activity. "If it had even been a more secluded spot or if they had remained in the vehicle, that would have been a different matter."
They were charged with public indecency. Not dogging, as no specific law regarding dogging actually exists.
Because they were dogging they are now on the sex offenders register.
Did you read the judges comment?
Nobody has posted that there is a particular offence of dogging.
I posted search with regard to the sex offenders register and dogging. A couple are now on the sex offenders register because they were dogging.
It's irrefutable.
I asked doggers here to consider that fact.
"
It is true what you say, but in the same way that if someone committed a crime at a sex club, they could end up on the SOR because they were clubbing.
Clubbing or dogging wasn’t the offence, it was the public indecency in front of people who didn’t want to see it.
You warned people of potential consequences, as did I in my post. |
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"Cat evolution or whatever you’re called… morons..
No offence of dogging..
Crawl back under your hole..
Their really is no need to be so rude."
* There *
But yes, I apologise, maybe, but some people just want to argue the toss.. as a couple of posters have said there is no offence of ‘dogging’ if a couple have sex in front of families on a beach then that is obvs public indecency. It isn’t dogging.. doh. |
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Can someone teach me dogging rules?? Etiquette? I’m a solo male, like the idea of enjoying watching others, not sure about the idea of getting out of the car - I think I’d feel much more comfortable staying in my car and watching. Is this allowed/acceptable? |
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"Can someone teach me dogging rules?? Etiquette? I’m a solo male, like the idea of enjoying watching others, not sure about the idea of getting out of the car - I think I’d feel much more comfortable staying in my car and watching. Is this allowed/acceptable? "
Ok what do you think you’re going to be able to see from your car?
Might be best sticking to porn for the time being..
In short there are very few ‘rules’
DON’T be a nob, respect people’s boundaries.
DO be friendly and sociable. Talk to folk if they want to talk.. goes a long way
DON’T have false expectations or turn up expecting it to be like a porn film.
DO Be prepared to sit around a looong time.. true dogging means no pre arranged meets.. I reckon about 1/10 (and that’s being optimistic) nights lead to any kind of action..
DON’T expect people to do all the hard work for you,
Hope this helps. |
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This just isn't true dogging in my book, the magic of dogging is the unknown. Its kinda like fishing, waiting for a catch is half the fun! And the buzz when it actually starts to kick off!! Outdoor prearranged group is great too though, don't get me wrong lol! |
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