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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What are people's views on when sex is always one sided?
She loves it anywhere ad everywhere.
She gets want she wants.
I love giving her oral, I love pleasing her.
But when I want something I.e blowjob/ her on top it's just a blunt NO!
Turns me off and normally ends up with us stopping and arguing.
What are people views on this??? |
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By * n zCouple
over a year ago
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Don't understand this ....... She should want to please you, its a two way thing, the more horny he gets the more horny I get and vice versa.
I can't stand double standards and view this as being very selfish 
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";) I love to please a woman, but a simple thing as a blowjob or her riding me on top isn't hard in my mind. "
Not hard in her either by the sounds. Ask her why? Compromise? Like doing it sideways? |
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over a year ago
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I truly believe it is worth taking the time to get to know a person prior to meeting him/her for sexy fun.
I make a point in finding out a potential new gent's likes and dislikes prior to meeting him. In turn, I would let him know my own likes and dislikes.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Talk to the lady in question, maybe she feels inhibited and you expecting certain things will make her more so. Don't discuss "her" with strangers discuss her with her."
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in life there will always be the "givers" and the "takers" . some people only think about themsleves be it pleasure or forwarding their career. best to be frank with the lady in question . if they are your partner they should care about your needs as well ,if not maybe time to reconsider the relationship. if they are a swing meet why are you even arguing?? move on to someone who understands sex is a two way thing and enjoy! |
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I agree with this comment the most.....
"in life there will always be the "givers" and the "takers" . some people only think about themsleves be it pleasure or forwarding their career. best to be frank with the lady in question . if they are your partner they should care about your needs as well ,if not maybe time to reconsider the relationship. if they are a swing meet why are you even arguing?? move on to someone who understands sex is a two way thing and enjoy! "
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I rarely go on top. I just don't particularly enjoy it and if it's not fun i can't get a good rhythm going. Very occasionally it works.
So if i was with someone and that was a big thong for home then we wouldn't be compatible. But that's a conversation to have either out of bed or maybe if you're lying there with a cup of tea all chilled and relaxed to chat - not during!
If you're not able to talk about these things away from sex then you have three choices: make it clear you need to talk about this, move on, or accept how things are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What are people's views on when sex is always one sided?
She loves it anywhere ad everywhere.
She gets want she wants.
I love giving her oral, I love pleasing her.
But when I want something I.e blowjob/ her on top it's just a blunt NO!
Turns me off and normally ends up with us stopping and arguing.
What are people views on this???"
I'm a great believer in approaching sex from the point of view of wanting to please your partner. If both of you do that your chances of a great time are improved.
If one of you pleases herself then you need to decide is what you've got with her worthwhile, or would you be happier elsewhere? |
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