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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi guys.one of us appears to have a stalker. Getting phone calls and threatening answer phone messages and texts. Can see everything we do on fab yet we blocked. Messaging people we have met etc. Knows where we live as well.
Have reported it to admin requesting to block the ip address is this possible? And would it be ok to see the police or will they not do anything. Thanks for any advice in advance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go straight to the police.
Threats to you or your family/friends are always taken seriously by the police.
Admin will assist the police, but can not give you information regarding other users for obvious reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi guys.one of us appears to have a stalker. Getting phone calls and threatening answer phone messages and texts. Can see everything we do on fab yet we blocked. Messaging people we have met etc. Knows where we live as well.
Have reported it to admin requesting to block the ip address is this possible? And would it be ok to see the police or will they not do anything. Thanks for any advice in advance"
Any threats left are evidence the police can work on and best left to them. Contact them and let them know the situation and good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Start making a log of all the calls, pm's, messages etc.
Inform the police, they will take it seriously, they don't care if it's a swinging site or not, they'll still investigate. "
Good advice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All really good advice from everyone. Have you considered going into your message filters and blocking mail from any new site members? He could open as many profiles as he liked but at least he can't message you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Deffo block new members from contacting you via filters, also contact your phone network provider and get the number blocked.. Certainly would inform the police as he knows where you live... Besides that coppers are hot in uniform, maybe you would get a new swinger playmate if the investigating cop is nice  good luck x x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Harassment via social media, text and email is against the law these days and is a public order offence of some sort I believe. I had a similar problem and after furnishing the boys in blue with the person in questions email, screen name on the site we were on and his phone no. , the whole thing went away very quickly.
Just make a record of times, dates, what happened, how you felt intimidated..... And away ye go.
He only has the control over you which you let him have.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All really good advice from everyone. Have you considered going into your message filters and blocking mail from any new site members? He could open as many profiles as he liked but at least he can't message you x"
or block messages from non site supporters, that way it will cost him/her £5 to send you a message  |
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"Hi guys.one of us appears to have a stalker. Getting phone calls and threatening answer phone messages and texts. Can see everything we do on fab yet we blocked. Messaging people we have met etc. Knows where we live as well.
Have reported it to admin requesting to block the ip address is this possible? And would it be ok to see the police or will they not do anything. Thanks for any advice in advance"
Tell them if they don't stop you will get the police involved. |
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"Start making a log of all the calls, pm's, messages etc.
Inform the police, they will take it seriously, they don't care if it's a swinging site or not, they'll still investigate. "
This.
The police can take their PC, laptop or mobile phone for forensic investigation.
Also your Internet Service Provider has to keep a copy of every website you visit for a year. They also have to keep a copy of every email you send and receive. So the police will be easily able to find out if he has been making lots of profiles.
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"Hi guys.one of us appears to have a stalker. Getting phone calls and threatening answer phone messages and texts. Can see everything we do on fab yet we blocked. Messaging people we have met etc. Knows where we live as well.
Have reported it to admin requesting to block the ip address is this possible? And would it be ok to see the police or will they not do anything. Thanks for any advice in advance"
Call into your local Police Station and report it ASAP.
There's some right nutters out there.
Also, keep a detailed diary.
The Police may be able to use it as evidence if they prosecute the offender.
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Stalkers get off on having power over their victims and by invading your privacy. Cut him off as best you can and you're back in control again x