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So…other half has asked for an MFF with a friend we both know, like and flirt with. She lives very close by, so we would need to discuss at length with the other F about all our/her boundaries before even thinking of entering into this territory at all.
What I really need advice on is how to feel totally involved in this situation when it’s someone that my husband has picked and I am not particularly bi? I like and appreciate females and have in the past snogged/fondled and licked pussy when we have had females involved so don’t have a problem with female play at all but I do it more for the viewer, female/female worship is not what really gets my rocks off! What kind of variations in this situation can people think of that would still be satisfying for everybody involved… |
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"So…other half has asked for an MFF with a friend we both know, like and flirt with. She lives very close by, so we would need to discuss at length with the other F about all our/her boundaries before even thinking of entering into this territory at all.
What I really need advice on is how to feel totally involved in this situation when it’s someone that my husband has picked and I am not particularly bi? I like and appreciate females and have in the past snogged/fondled and licked pussy when we have had females involved so don’t have a problem with female play at all but I do it more for the viewer, female/female worship is not what really gets my rocks off! What kind of variations in this situation can people think of that would still be satisfying for everybody involved…"
Do you really want to do it ? Or maybe you both need to have a playmate who you’re both as driven to play with ? |
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"So…other half has asked for an MFF with a friend we both know, like and flirt with. She lives very close by, so we would need to discuss at length with the other F about all our/her boundaries before even thinking of entering into this territory at all.
What I really need advice on is how to feel totally involved in this situation when it’s someone that my husband has picked and I am not particularly bi? I like and appreciate females and have in the past snogged/fondled and licked pussy when we have had females involved so don’t have a problem with female play at all but I do it more for the viewer, female/female worship is not what really gets my rocks off! What kind of variations in this situation can people think of that would still be satisfying for everybody involved…"
It sounds like your not into it...
And from a phrase I've nicked.
If it's not a fuck yes...it's a fuck no. |
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"So…other half has asked for an MFF with a friend we both know, like and flirt with. She lives very close by, so we would need to discuss at length with the other F about all our/her boundaries before even thinking of entering into this territory at all.
What I really need advice on is how to feel totally involved in this situation when it’s someone that my husband has picked and I am not particularly bi? I like and appreciate females and have in the past snogged/fondled and licked pussy when we have had females involved so don’t have a problem with female play at all but I do it more for the viewer, female/female worship is not what really gets my rocks off! What kind of variations in this situation can people think of that would still be satisfying for everybody involved…
Do you really want to do it ? Or maybe you both need to have a playmate who you’re both as driven to play with ? "
I have been asked the question and want to give it fair consideration for my husband. |
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"So…other half has asked for an MFF with a friend we both know, like and flirt with. She lives very close by, so we would need to discuss at length with the other F about all our/her boundaries before even thinking of entering into this territory at all.
What I really need advice on is how to feel totally involved in this situation when it’s someone that my husband has picked and I am not particularly bi? I like and appreciate females and have in the past snogged/fondled and licked pussy when we have had females involved so don’t have a problem with female play at all but I do it more for the viewer, female/female worship is not what really gets my rocks off! What kind of variations in this situation can people think of that would still be satisfying for everybody involved…"
I think in this situation he needs to understand he has a big job as it's not just two women pleasuring him. He has the job of pleasuring two women. |
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"So…other half has asked for an MFF with a friend we both know, like and flirt with. She lives very close by, so we would need to discuss at length with the other F about all our/her boundaries before even thinking of entering into this territory at all.
What I really need advice on is how to feel totally involved in this situation when it’s someone that my husband has picked and I am not particularly bi? I like and appreciate females and have in the past snogged/fondled and licked pussy when we have had females involved so don’t have a problem with female play at all but I do it more for the viewer, female/female worship is not what really gets my rocks off! What kind of variations in this situation can people think of that would still be satisfying for everybody involved…
It sounds like your not into it...
And from a phrase I've nicked.
If it's not a fuck yes...it's a fuck no."
Thanks-I do like this quote, however as a couple I do think there are more grey areas that have to have fair consideration so you can give a reason for a ‘fuck yes’ or a ‘fuck no’…. |
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"And from a phrase I've nicked.
If it's not a fuck yes...it's a fuck no.
Thanks-I do like this quote, however as a couple I do think there are more grey areas that have to have fair consideration so you can give a reason for a ‘fuck yes’ or a ‘fuck no’…."
If I was invited to an MFF and one of the people wasn't actually interested in me, I'd be disappointed.
When it comes to sexual partners, I thoroughly stand by that if it's not a fuck yes then it's a fuck no.
I'd hate to sleep with someone who just thought I'd do. And I wouldn't want to make anyone else to feel that way 
If you're not actually into it with her it's probably better if they go do their own thing. |
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I love 3sums and they are always my first preference but always discuss at length with both about what I want and what they expect from me. What their boundaries are.
The communication and build up adds to the meet for me.
I only play with couples that play together
Regardless of what scenario or combination communication is key !!  |
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"And from a phrase I've nicked.
If it's not a fuck yes...it's a fuck no.
Thanks-I do like this quote, however as a couple I do think there are more grey areas that have to have fair consideration so you can give a reason for a ‘fuck yes’ or a ‘fuck no’….
If I was invited to an MFF and one of the people wasn't actually interested in me, I'd be disappointed.
When it comes to sexual partners, I thoroughly stand by that if it's not a fuck yes then it's a fuck no.
I'd hate to sleep with someone who just thought I'd do. And I wouldn't want to make anyone else to feel that way
If you're not actually into it with her it's probably better if they go do their own thing."
I love that line fuck yes !!! Or fuck off might still that for my next update on my profile |
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"And from a phrase I've nicked.
If it's not a fuck yes...it's a fuck no.
Thanks-I do like this quote, however as a couple I do think there are more grey areas that have to have fair consideration so you can give a reason for a ‘fuck yes’ or a ‘fuck no’….
If I was invited to an MFF and one of the people wasn't actually interested in me, I'd be disappointed.
When it comes to sexual partners, I thoroughly stand by that if it's not a fuck yes then it's a fuck no.
I'd hate to sleep with someone who just thought I'd do. And I wouldn't want to make anyone else to feel that way
If you're not actually into it with her it's probably better if they go do their own thing.
I love that line fuck yes !!! Or fuck off might still that for my next update on my profile "
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Is she up for a 3 sum op ?
You don't sound like you're into it and would be doing it for your husband's benefit.
I'm straight and could never play with another woman , especially not just to get someone else off.The other lady may feel pretty crap if she knew that your hearts not really in it too.
Could you have a straight fmf,that way your husband gets all the attention on him and you don't have to compromise your own boundaries .
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"Is she up for a 3 sum op ?
You don't sound like you're into it and would be doing it for your husband's benefit.
I'm straight and could never play with another woman , especially not just to get someone else off.The other lady may feel pretty crap if she knew that your hearts not really in it too.
Could you have a straight fmf,that way your husband gets all the attention on him and you don't have to compromise your own boundaries .
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Yes she is up for a threesome, but that is all we know for sure at the present. I think we need to sit down and discuss what we all want out of it…if we all want a pretty straight MFF that might be a great place to work from. I would not want to make anyone in this situation feel crappy! |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"Is she up for a 3 sum op ?
You don't sound like you're into it and would be doing it for your husband's benefit.
I'm straight and could never play with another woman , especially not just to get someone else off.The other lady may feel pretty crap if she knew that your hearts not really in it too.
Could you have a straight fmf,that way your husband gets all the attention on him and you don't have to compromise your own boundaries .
Yes she is up for a threesome, but that is all we know for sure at the present. I think we need to sit down and discuss what we all want out of it…if we all want a pretty straight MFF that might be a great place to work from. I would not want to make anyone in this situation feel crappy! "
I think that sounds sensible
Good luck whatever you decide . |
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