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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi everyone. Im interested in to how men brought up to their partners that this was a kink of theirs, I don't want people to join. I'm more in to me and my Mrs being watched by others, but I don't know how to go about bringing it up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Obviously if she isn't in to it then I would but it to bed, but I feel she would be cause of things she likes in the bed room"
Discuss it in the same way you discussed you having a profile on a Swingers site. She was ok with that so she may want to try clubs.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Obviously if she isn't in to it then I would but it to bed, but I feel she would be cause of things she likes in the bed room"
What does she like in the bedroom? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have always had open conversations, we are quite honest with each other. If one of us said NO, then its a NO. But we explore ideas and subjects. Doesn't mean we have to dabble.
Its more about communication, and being secure relationship wise.
M and M |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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Open conversation. Our swinging adventure started with us having bedroom fantasies that we then sat down and discussed if we both wanted to make reality. We agree our boundaries/rules one of which is when one of us says we want to stop we both stop. |
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A bottle of wine , and a bit of porn , just start talking about your fantasy’s , that’s how we started worked a treat ,enhanced our sex life, we don’t do it often but when we do we make the most of it , wife discovered she was bi , boosted both our sex drive |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Have an honest chat with her ,see if she has any unfulfilled fantasy's she wants to try .
Then ask if she'd think about going to a club to watch others and maybe be watched too & explain this is something you find exciting.
You know your partner much better than we do op. |
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We just started going to clubs like Chameleons and Xtasia on Saturdays. Really sexy atmosphere, but private rooms - so you don't need to go outide your comfort zone.
We avoid other nights still, due to the ratios of single males to couples.. but we are openly playing in the public areas now and enjoying the exhibitionism of it... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you everyone! She knows I'm on here as I like the picks, some of which she has used to masturbate, I will sit down and talk to her about my fantasy's and see if it is something she is into |
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