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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi everyone would like some advice please.
I've never attended a swingers club and have been put off in the past as I'm unsure of what to wear and what I should take with me.
considering attending Tease 2 as this is the closest option for myself.
could anyone advise me please, I'm a bbw and im worried that people will look at me and judge me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have never been to a club where there hasnt been BBWs and ive never known any of them have problems, you get all sorts in clubs, all ages, all sizes, all colours and on the whole everyones accepted
Wear what makes you feel good, if you feel good you look good as you will feel confidant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ive had a peep at your profile i think your very sexy lady and i wouldnt worry too much about what you wear, just be feel comfortable, look sexy, feel sexy and you'll be fine  xx |
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"Hi everyone would like some advice please.
I've never attended a swingers club and have been put off in the past as I'm unsure of what to wear and what I should take with me.
considering attending Tease 2 as this is the closest option for myself.
could anyone advise me please, I'm a bbw and im worried that people will look at me and judge me."
what sort of club is tease 2? what aer you comfortable in?
the first time i went to chams i wore a black lacey chemise with peep hole boobie bits  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone would like some advice please.
I've never attended a swingers club and have been put off in the past as I'm unsure of what to wear and what I should take with me.
considering attending Tease 2 as this is the closest option for myself.
could anyone advise me please, I'm a bbw and im worried that people will look at me and judge me.
what sort of club is tease 2? what aer you comfortable in?
the first time i went to chams i wore a black lacey chemise with peep hole boobie bits "
you wore clothes!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to wear babydoll type things as I'm conscious of my wobbly bits too. Never had anyone say anything rude/nasty to me, but just feel a bit more comfortable covered up a bit x |
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"Hi everyone would like some advice please.
I've never attended a swingers club and have been put off in the past as I'm unsure of what to wear and what I should take with me.
considering attending Tease 2 as this is the closest option for myself.
could anyone advise me please, I'm a bbw and im worried that people will look at me and judge me.
what sort of club is tease 2? what aer you comfortable in?
the first time i went to chams i wore a black lacey chemise with peep hole boobie bits
you wore clothes!!!! "
i was very shy back then |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone would like some advice please.
I've never attended a swingers club and have been put off in the past as I'm unsure of what to wear and what I should take with me.
considering attending Tease 2 as this is the closest option for myself.
could anyone advise me please, I'm a bbw and im worried that people will look at me and judge me.
what sort of club is tease 2? what aer you comfortable in?
the first time i went to chams i wore a black lacey chemise with peep hole boobie bits "
i dont think i could but maybe once ive attended my first club i could |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"good luck with your club visit
can i have some details when you get back?? as ive never been to a club "
sure not going yet need some nice stuff to.wear |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"first time i went to a club i wore a chemise down to my knees second time i went hardly had my arse covered "
i was like that, i took the biggest towel in the world, covered me from the nose down to the floor lol i wouldnt dream of wearing a towel now days
Its the unknown, once you have been and know what to expect you get braver |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im going to a club for the first time on Friday and im wearing the pink outfit that ive got on in one of my pics with some stockings. I will be wearing a little black dress to go into club and then change once there and had the walk round. Some clubs provide towels (ive been told cupids does, that's where im going). Practical wise i will take face wipes, shower gel. Taking blindfold too dunno if I'll be brave enough to use it.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Im going to a club for the first time on Friday and im wearing the pink outfit that ive got on in one of my pics with some stockings. I will be wearing a little black dress to go into club and then change once there and had the walk round. Some clubs provide towels (ive been told cupids does, that's where im going). Practical wise i will take face wipes, shower gel. Taking blindfold too dunno if I'll be brave enough to use it. "
that outfit is really pretty. i personally dont suit dresses or skirts and thats wear im stuck |
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"Im going to a club for the first time on Friday and im wearing the pink outfit that ive got on in one of my pics with some stockings. I will be wearing a little black dress to go into club and then change once there and had the walk round. Some clubs provide towels (ive been told cupids does, that's where im going). Practical wise i will take face wipes, shower gel. Taking blindfold too dunno if I'll be brave enough to use it.
that outfit is really pretty. i personally dont suit dresses or skirts and thats wear im stuck"
I agree the pink outfit is lovely can I be cheeky and ask where's it from?? I'm the same though its not particularly my size that puts me off the clubs but my disability in my legs as I can't exactly hide them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im going to a club for the first time on Friday and im wearing the pink outfit that ive got on in one of my pics with some stockings. I will be wearing a little black dress to go into club and then change once there and had the walk round. Some clubs provide towels (ive been told cupids does, that's where im going). Practical wise i will take face wipes, shower gel. Taking blindfold too dunno if I'll be brave enough to use it.
that outfit is really pretty. i personally dont suit dresses or skirts and thats wear im stuck"
As the others said then wear what you are comfortable in and if that's trousers then wear those to go into the club.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im going to a club for the first time on Friday and im wearing the pink outfit that ive got on in one of my pics with some stockings. I will be wearing a little black dress to go into club and then change once there and had the walk round. Some clubs provide towels (ive been told cupids does, that's where im going). Practical wise i will take face wipes, shower gel. Taking blindfold too dunno if I'll be brave enough to use it.
that outfit is really pretty. i personally dont suit dresses or skirts and thats wear im stuck
I agree the pink outfit is lovely can I be cheeky and ask where's it from?? I'm the same though its not particularly my size that puts me off the clubs but my disability in my legs as I can't exactly hide them "
I got it from peacocks of all places. I do struggle a bit to get stuff as im 16 top-20bottom but its nice and stretchy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Its a size 18-20 but stetchy so will be ok depends on boobs im a Dcup. Don't think it will hold much more than a DD but you can try. "
im a dd/e. was this a recent purchase? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ive only ever been to chams twice and i wore my favourite black babydoll, stockings etc...im a very big girl and as soon as i walked out of the changing rooms and into the club i have never felt so sexy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i too am a BBW in fact i am bigger than you are . Be happy in your body, wear what makes you feel good and you will be fine. Just remember it is often what cant been seen that gets people going, a flash of stocking top or cleavage can go a long way. work what you have and dont worry about what you dont like of your body. Good luck and happy swinging |
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"dont seem to be online now will look instore"
I have tried to message you....but you have blocked ladies. I am a G cup with all the wobbly bits and I buy my undies online, nothing too expensive....PM if you like and I can provide details... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get my stuff online too there are some great bargains. Ive bought a few basques & corsets for less than £20 each which is not bad. Message me if you want to know more. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get my stuff online too there are some great bargains. Ive bought a few basques & corsets for less than £20 each which is not bad. Message me if you want to know more. x"
Hi there
I am a larger lady & would love to know where to look online for bigger lingerie items.
Many thanks in advance
C |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"dont seem to be online now will look instore
I have tried to message you....but you have blocked ladies. I am a G cup with all the wobbly bits and I buy my undies online, nothing too expensive....PM if you like and I can provide details..."
messaged u |
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Hi ya . A lot depends on what sort of night we going to have a. I love wearing my basque stockings and suspenders but not if i planning to spend a lot of time upstairs in that case a baby doll or chemi top as i love wearing it around my waist to hide my big fat belly . Im a size 26 and 44H boobs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Seem to be rapidly expanding from a 22 to a 24 ... so any suggestion of where to buy would be greatly appreciated ... thanks in advance!  "
lovehoney have some lovely items online in them.sizes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seem to be rapidly expanding from a 22 to a 24 ... so any suggestion of where to buy would be greatly appreciated ... thanks in advance!
lovehoney have some lovely items online in them.sizes"
Lovehoney is were I get most of my outfits from. I always order a few choose my favourites and return the others as refunds are very quick.
In fact all the clothes and paddle in my pics are from lovehoney. although I'm a big girl with a big belly they always make me feel sexy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Seem to be rapidly expanding from a 22 to a 24 ... so any suggestion of where to buy would be greatly appreciated ... thanks in advance!
lovehoney have some lovely items online in them.sizes
Lovehoney is were I get most of my outfits from. I always order a few choose my
favourites and return the others as refunds are very quick.
In fact all the clothes and paddle in my pics are from lovehoney. although I'm a big girl with a big belly they always make me feel sexy. "
u look very nice in the pink and black outfit. i unfortunatley have to send mine back today. after have a few operations on my stomach and now doesnt.look normal and im awaiting corrective surgery.
most things dont lookgood on me and there for struggle to find things. |
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"Im going to a club for the first time on Friday and im wearing the pink outfit that ive got on in one of my pics with some stockings. I will be wearing a little black dress to go into club and then change once there and had the walk round. Some clubs provide towels (ive been told cupids does, that's where im going). Practical wise i will take face wipes, shower gel. Taking blindfold too dunno if I'll be brave enough to use it.
that outfit is really pretty. i personally dont suit dresses or skirts and thats wear im stuck
I agree the pink outfit is lovely can I be cheeky and ask where's it from?? I'm the same though its not particularly my size that puts me off the clubs but my disability in my legs as I can't exactly hide them "
if you are ok with stairs (one split flight not too steep to the playrooms and a half stone flight to smokers corner) then consider la chambre. It's only a towel club for single gents, ladies and couples can stay dressed and you can wear whatever you are comfortable in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi everyone would like some advice please.
I've never attended a swingers club and have been put off in the past as I'm unsure of what to wear and what I should take with me.
considering attending Tease 2 as this is the closest option for myself.
could anyone advise me please, I'm a bbw and im worried that people will look at me and judge me."
Wear what makes YOU feel good. Anyone who judges you badly isn't worth your time anyway. Their loss! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seem to be rapidly expanding from a 22 to a 24 ... so any suggestion of where to buy would be greatly appreciated ... thanks in advance!
lovehoney have some lovely items online in them.sizes
Lovehoney is were I get most of my outfits from. I always order a few choose my
favourites and return the others as refunds are very quick.
In fact all the clothes and paddle in my pics are from lovehoney. although I'm a big girl with a big belly they always make me feel sexy.
u look very nice in the pink and black outfit. i unfortunatley have to send mine back today. after have a few operations on my stomach and now doesnt.look normal and im awaiting corrective surgery.
most things dont lookgood on me and there for struggle to find things."
Thank you believe me I have sent many outfits back as they don't fit or don't suit me. I wish there was a shop for sexy plus size clothes where we could try on to our hearts content. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Nice n naughty have a nice range of bbw wear.. i was a 22 few months ago x felt sexy as hell... now an 18 x feel sexier.. take a look at their site.. lots of stores about aswell xxxx |
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc |
"Seem to be rapidly expanding from a 22 to a 24 ... so any suggestion of where to buy would be greatly appreciated ... thanks in advance!
lovehoney have some lovely items online in them.sizes
Lovehoney is were I get most of my outfits from. I always order a few choose my
favourites and return the others as refunds are very quick.
In fact all the clothes and paddle in my pics are from lovehoney. although I'm a big girl with a big belly they always make me feel sexy.
u look very nice in the pink and black outfit. i unfortunatley have to send mine back today. after have a few operations on my stomach and now doesnt.look normal and im awaiting corrective surgery.
most things dont lookgood on me and there for struggle to find things.
Thank you believe me I have sent many outfits back as they don't fit or don't suit me. I wish there was a shop for sexy plus size clothes where we could try on to our hearts content. "
Have a look at Simply Be in Liverpool 1. They may be able to order some things in your size to try on in store.
Loving the Gok Wan shapewear, some of it is sexy and comfy |
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"only thing that pisses me off about clubs for us bbws is the towels they provid are tiny ! "
we made our own a large bathtowel and sewed a strip of wide velcro on the top edge so no having to re-tuck it in all the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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like you, i had that problem. For 2 reasons, just didn't like my body and i'm such a tomboy normally, dressing sexily freaked me out. So going to clubs i was always worried, and wore a simple off the shoulder dress and fishnet tights....even now i can't go there without being covered up in the more wobbly places, but have got braver and skirts have got shorter and never wear knickers there now just stockings or crotchless fishnets hehe.
Just go with what you feel comfy in, and just be confident even if ya feeling shakey inside lol worked for me and now im organising a social at eurekas!! go me lol xxx good luck and hope you have fun xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have a look at Simply Be in Liverpool 1. They may be able to order some things in your size to try on in store.
Loving the Gok Wan shapewear, some of it is sexy and comfy "
Yes I go to Simply Be but never thought of asking to order things in to try on. Good tip! Also never tried the Gok Wan range but I'm loving his poka dot bra and pants. I think I may have to order them. I love shopping |
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"only thing that pisses me off about clubs for us bbws is the towels they provid are tiny !
we made our own a large bathtowel and sewed a strip of wide velcro on the top edge so no having to re-tuck it in all the time "
Such a good idea I'm off down the haberdashers. Just need someone to take me to my first club now. I certainly don't have the bottle to go on my own  |
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