"I get that but when they say like “don’t just message hey be interesting” and then that’s about it on the profile texts it’s just a bit hard to start off I feel"
Then why are you messaging them at all if there's nothing there to actually interest you beyond a selection of orifices? |
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"I get that but when they say like “don’t just message hey be interesting” and then that’s about it on the profile texts it’s just a bit hard to start off I feel
Then why are you messaging them at all if there's nothing there to actually interest you beyond a selection of orifices?"
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"I get that but when they say like “don’t just message hey be interesting” and then that’s about it on the profile texts it’s just a bit hard to start off I feel
Then why are you messaging them at all if there's nothing there to actually interest you beyond a selection of orifices?"
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By *erti OP Man
over a year ago
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Because I’ve tried messaging the people that acc interest me but I get no reply which is why I’ve resorted too branching out to other people but I’m just struggling which is why I’m now asking for advice |
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"Can you judge mine and tell me what I should change "
Your profile says "message me" and literally nothing else ! You need perhaps to suggest why people should message you.
You have a stunning physique so I suggest deleting the 'three t-shirt cock out' pics and focus on your torso.
Personally I find emojis really off-putting. A cropped pic looks much better.
Wishing you success on here |
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"Because I’ve tried messaging the people that acc interest me but I get no reply which is why I’ve resorted too branching out to other people but I’m just struggling which is why I’m now asking for advice "
You've branched out to people who don't interest you, but you want them to be interested in you? |
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"Because I’ve tried messaging the people that acc interest me but I get no reply which is why I’ve resorted too branching out to other people but I’m just struggling which is why I’m now asking for advice "
Anyone who potentially was interested in you, and just read this, now probably isnt.
I wouldn’t be into someone who I know is chasing people they aren’t into just to get laid.
Seems desperate  |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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Their is no magic formula but certain folk may need a little bit more info. I've messaged very limited bio and glad I did as users at times can find it difficult where to begin so think outside the box be creative... |
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"Because I’ve tried messaging the people that acc interest me but I get no reply which is why I’ve resorted too branching out to other people but I’m just struggling which is why I’m now asking for advice "
You want to know how to interest the people that don't interest you beyond jusr being a passable orifice?
I have zero advice on how to go about that. |
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You have to ask yourself "why should they message me back?". Most people will check out a sender's profile before deciding whether to respond or not. What makes yours stand out from the hundreds of other single blokes on here?
Start there.
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What are you writing in your messages? Most of the ones we get are pointless and go straight in the bin. Do you write the standard "Hi" or "How are you?" type messages that proliferate on here or do you say anything worth responding to? Short messages like those will appear in a preview and somebody can know there's no point in even clicking on it to show the sender it's been read.
Men outnumber women substantially on here. There is no guaranteed way to get responses. The more you have going for you, the better your chances of getting something back. There are four things that can scupper your prospects if they aren't up to snuff:
Avatar
Profile text
Gallery
Message content
Get any of these wrong and you are putting yourself at a disadvantage that other men aren't, so you are likely to lose out. If your avatar and message preview catches somebody's eye, a lot of women will look at the profile before opening the message. If the profile is a fail, your message won't get read.
So don't only look at messaging. Look at all those things and ask yourself if they are the best they can be. Are you presenting a person that somebody would want to reply to. I can tell you that the vast majority of single men who send us messages clearly have not done that and their messages go straight in the bin. |
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