I think first and foremost set yourself goals such that you will deep throat very large cock - when we have goals we tend to find our results moving towards them. Evidence suggests that ongoing smaller goals are more realised than 1 huge goal, so consider what will work best for you.
More slender cocks can be easier than very thick, which anatomically can prevent full swallowing. It's possible to swallow 12'' cocks down balls deep, and is a real pleasure when you do this.
Adopt different positions for cock sucking, to see what you enjoy and get results from. Kneeling, lying down on top, lying underneath etc.
It also helps to find out what's stopping you from going deeper? Does it seem physically impossible, or are you gagging etc?
I've sucked a lot of cocks in my time, and I am much better than when I started in my teens, and feel that practice definitely improves technique. Overall, I am relaxed and feel a cock almost becomes part of me, as I absolutely give it 100% of my attention, appreciating the taste, the feel, warmth and sensations from it - it becomes less alien to me this way, whether or not that helps me to deep throat with ease, I don't know.
Open yourself up to sensing the feedback that the guy's cock gives you too, and you'll also get more intuitive what works for him.
As you get even more experience from different cocks, find which ones work better down your throat, and seek out more like those, or repeat as much as you all want. I surrender my mouth and throat to a guy's cock, not in a submissive way normally, but my throat is the dyson that absorbs everything. I can focus on the minute microsecond elements of sucking cock, but largely focus on the sheer love and absorbing pleasure we're having together, his cock impaled within me.
Finally, don't put pressure on yourself. You are where you're at. What's important is what you're looking to get better at, and you can. |